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In this final episode of our Shadow Work series on Enneagram and Coffee, we explore the inner world of Type Nine—the Peacemaker. We dive into the common shadows of self-numbing, passivity, and anger repression, and how these patterns show up in daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we uncover how Nines can reconnect with their true desires, voice, and per...

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series with a deep dive into Enneagram Type Eight—the Challenger. We explore the often-hidden struggles of emotional repression, control, and fear of vulnerability, and how these patterns shape daily life. Through thoughtful reflection and practical shadow work practices, we’ll uncover how Eights can begin to soften, trust, and r...

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by exploring the hidden struggles of Enneagram Type Seven—the Enthusiast. We dive into common shadows like avoidance of pain, impulsivity, and the fear of missing out, uncovering how these patterns shape daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we discuss how Sevens can cultivate sti...

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by exploring the hidden struggles of Enneagram Type Six—the Loyalist. We dive into common shadows like anxiety, self-doubt, and authority struggles, uncovering how these patterns shape daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we discuss how Sixes can cultivate trust in themselves, em...

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by exploring the hidden struggles of Enneagram Type Five—the Investigator. We dive into the common shadows of emotional detachment, over-intellectualization, and the fear of depletion, uncovering how these patterns shape daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we discuss how Fives c...

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase This episode is all about small joys, big lessons, and finding balance. I’m kicking things off with three little things making life better (spoiler: Aquaphor healing...

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by diving deep into the experience of Enneagram Type Four. We explore the hidden parts of...

Today, I'm sharing my top 10 takeaways from Secure Love by Julie Menanno—a powerful book on attachment and breaking negative relationship cycles. We’ve talked about attachment theory before, but this book made it feel so clear, applicable, and even relieving. Think of this episode as us having coffee while I excitedly overshare my favorite insights, from the "goodness of fit" concept to the 80/20...

In today’s episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series with a deep dive into Type Three—the Achiever. We explore the hidden aspects of Type Three’s personality, how their strengths can become shadows, and practical ways to integrate these repressed parts with compassion. From inauthenticity to the fear of failure, we’ll unpack how these shadows show up in work, relationship...

Today, I’m answering fun, random "get to know you" questions—no prep, just honest thoughts as they come. Expect a mix of deep dives, lighthearted moments, and maybe a little self-discovery. Grab a coffee, settle in, and let’s chat! ✨ What’s your answer to one of these? Let me know! And if you love the show, a review means the world. 💛 Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab...

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, Sarajane Case dives into the hidden patterns that shape the experience of Enneagram Type Twos. Explore how over-giving, people-pleasing, and the need to be needed can lead to exhaustion and resentment. Learn practical shadow work tools to set boundaries, release the fear of being disliked, and embrace self-worth beyond helping others. Plus, discover what Tw...

In this episode, I take you through my reflections on the seven dimensions of wellness—spiritual, social, environmental, emotional, intellectual, physical, and occupational. I share what’s working, what’s not, and the small but meaningful shifts I’m making to move forward. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneag...

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase In this episode of Enneagram & Coffee, Sarajane Case explores the connection between ego, fear, and the Enneagram. January is all about recognizing that you are not y...

Discover the transformative power of shadow work for Enneagram Type Ones in this insightful episode of Enneagram and Coffee. Learn how to recognize and embrace your inner critic, perfectionistic tendencies, and suppressed emotions while exploring practical tools for growth and self-compassion. Perfect for Type Ones seeking balance and those supporting them, this episode offers actionable steps to...

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we explore the concept of nonlinear healing and why progress often doesn’t follow a straight path. Drawing from personal experiences, we discuss the frustrations of setbacks, like overcoming one challenge only to face another, and how this mirrors the broader nature of societal growth. Learn why spirals of growth, both personal and collective, are part of t...

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Discover the transformative power of shadow work in this brand-new Enneagram & Coffee series. Host Sarajane introduces the concept of shadow work, why it matters, and...

Discover how releasing attachment to personality can unlock personal growth and deeper authenticity in this episode of Enneagram and Coffee. We explore how over-identifying with Enneagram types and personality patterns can keep you stuck, and share practical tools to reconnect with your essence. This conversation offers strategies for stepping beyond labels to embrace freedom, peace, and your true...

Today I’m walking through a reflection exercise to reflect on 2024 and plan for 2025. It’s also the last episode of season 5. Thank you all for joining me this year. I can’t wait to see what 2025 has in store. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-...

Today we completing our series on relationship pairings with type nine and nine. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-sc...

Today we continue our series on relationship pairings with type eight and type eight. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-t...

Today we continue our series on relationship pairings with type eight and type nine. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-th...

Today we wrap up our series on relationship pairings with type seven and type seven. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Thank you to this week’s podcast sponsor: LMNT Get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/EGRAM Also try the new LMNT Sparkling — a bold, 16-ounce can of sparkling e...

It’s monthly planning time! Today I am reflecting on November and planning for December using the seven dimensions of wellness as a guide. If you’re new - the seven dimensions of wellness are spiritual, social, environmental, emotional, intellectual, physical and occupational. I go through and talk about what’s going well, what’s not and what I’m planning to do next. Thank you to this week’s podca...

In this episode, I’m diving into the messy, beautiful reality of family gatherings during the holidays. We’ll talk about handling tricky questions, navigating heated conversations, and loving people whose beliefs differ from our own—all while staying grounded in self-compassion. I’ll share practical strategies to protect your peace, foster connection, and find joy in the imperfection of it all. Fa...