Elevate and Dommenate Podcast

This episode features Electro Girlie, a dom educator and curator of charged experiences, discussing the art of electro play, safety, trust, and personal experiences in kink. Gain insights into electro stimulation techniques, safety protocols, vetting, and the importance of personal experience. Key Topics: Safety protocols in electro playImportance of personal experience and practiceVetting and tru...

This episode features an insightful conversation with Mrs. Dash Fire and Desert Robert about accessibility, inclusion, and community building within the BDSM and kink spaces, especially focusing on deaf joy and overcoming barriers. Chapters00:00 Exploring Power, Consent, and Community in BDSM02:13 Introduction to Deaf Kinksters and Accessibility03:12 Origin Stories: How Mrs. Dashfire and Desert Ro...

Step into a world where confidence meets artistry, and sensuality becomes storytelling. In this episode of the Elevate & Dommenate Podcast, Goddess Aroya takes you inside the Hollywood Burlesque Festival, an unforgettable experience filled with elegance, expression, and unapologetic power. From dazzling performances to the crowning of the Royal Court 2026, we explore how burlesque is more than...

Explore the deep, often overlooked, spiritual and emotional dimensions of ritual pain within the context of kink. This episode features a candid conversation about how intentional, ritualistic pain can be a path to mental clarity, emotional healing, and self-discovery, beyond mere physical sensation. In this episode:The historical and cultural roots of ritual pain as a form of transcendence. How r...

This episode isn’t just about BDSM, it’s about reclaiming your inner authority, healing wounds you didn’t know you carried, and embracing a more expansive, authentic version of yourself. Whether you're new to kink, a seasoned practitioner, or simply curious about its potential for deep personal growth, you'll walk away with mindset shifts, tactical tools, and a new perspective on the magic happeni...

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Mistress LA discusses her experiences running Playhouse Studios, the dynamics of BDSM relationships, and the importance of creating a safe and inclusive environment for all participants. The conversation delves into the stigmas surrounding male and female domination, the vetting process for new members, and the significance of financial stabili...

In this episode of Elevate and Dommenate, hosts Goddess Aroya and Guru Orpheus Black recap their experiences at the AVN (Adult Video News) event, discussing the evolution of adult entertainment, innovative products, and the importance of embracing one's sexuality. They explore various intimacy products, the role of AVN in enhancing relationships, and the significance of authenticity in persona...

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya shares her experiences from the AVN 2026 event, discussing the importance of community in exploring kink and sexuality. She reflects on her personal growth, the challenges of navigating social situations, and the significance of finding one's own path in the world of BDSM and relationships. The conversation emphasizes the diversit...

In this episode of the Elevate and Dominate podcast, the hosts explore the intersection of cigars, kink, and community. They discuss the importance of building a supportive community, the role of play in relationships, and the unique connection between cigars and kink culture. The conversation also delves into the traditions and rituals of leather communities, the future of these spaces, and the s...

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, the hosts discuss various aspects of the kink community, focusing on the importance of safety, boundaries, and professionalism. They share personal experiences and insights on navigating relationships, creating safe spaces, and the significance of having a supportive community. The conversation emphasizes the need for clear communication, respe...

Unmasking Domcon NOLA 2025: A Celebration of Kink- Vlog Series Part 2Better Late Than Never | DomCon NOLA Vlog Pt. 2Better late than never… and trust us, this one was worth the wait. ✨Part 2 of our DomCon New Orleans vlog series is here, and the adventure only gets deeper. Join Goddess Aroya and (John) her former sub as they hit the streets of New Orleans, Louisiana, soaking in the magic, mystery...

Step inside an intimate moment of mastery as world-renowned Dom, educator, and impact-play specialist Orpheus Black guides Goddess Aroya through the deeper wisdom of using her whip for connection, intention, and energetic communication. In this video, Orpheus breaks down:✨ The true purpose behind whip usage✨ Why a whip is not just an impact tool—but a bridge between Dominant and submissiveGoddes...

The conversation with Mia Darque, revolves around the experiences and emotions shared at DomCon, highlighting the importance of community, diversity, and empowerment among women in the BDSM scene. She expresses her joy in witnessing a more inclusive environment and the connections made during the event, emphasizing the significance of representation and support within the community. Mia Darque is...

In this conversation, UndergrounsSea (FetLife) discusses the prevalence and acceptance of kink in society, drawing on personal experiences and research findings. He highlights the historical context of kink, its growing acceptance, and the importance of community in shaping identity. The conversation emphasizes that kink is a normal expression of human intimacy and connection, challenging societal...

In this conversation, IObeyWomen (fetlife) shares his experiences at DomCon in New Orleans, highlighting the vibrant atmosphere, emotional connections, and unique activities he participated in, including a memorable twerking session. He reflects on the importance of connection in the kink community and encourages others to explore such events. Chapters00:00 Exploring DomCon: A Memorable Experience...

Humor and Vulnerability in BDSM | Queen Hilarity | DOMCON NOLA 2025 6 Min Story In this conversation, Queen Hilarity shares her unique approach to kink, emphasizing the importance of humor and playfulness in BDSM dynamics. She discusses her experiences at DomCon, her role as a comedic domme, and how she fosters community and connection through her classes and interactions. Queen Hilarity highlight...

Daily Vlog: Arrival & First Impressions | Goddess Aroya & IObeyWomenWelcome to Episode 1 of the DomCon New Orleans Vlog Series — where power, purpose, and play meet the vibrant heart of the South. In this episode, Goddess Aroya Lessons and her devoted submissive IObeyWomen arrive in New Orleans for DomCon 2025.Before the conference begins, we slow the energy down — taking a peaceful walk t...

In this thought-provoking segment, Orpheus Black, Mistress Odessa, and Goddess Aroya Lessons discuss the concept of rules versus anarchy in polyamory. They explore how different approaches can impact relationships and the importance of finding a balance that works for everyone involved. Discover insights into maintaining healthy, open relationships and the role of communication and flexibility in...

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, hosts Goddess Aroya Lessons, Mistress Odessa, and Guru Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation about polyamory. They explore personal experiences, the importance of communication, emotional dynamics, and the challenges of navigating relationships. The discussion also touches on the distinctions between polyamory and swinging, the significan...

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya and her co-hosts engage in a deep conversation with Goddess Severa, a pioneer in the fetish world. They explore themes of dominance, submission, and the various archetypes that shape personal identities within BDSM. The discussion delves into Maslow's hierarchy of needs, the art of seduction, and the giantess fetish, while also ad...

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya and Guru Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation with Mistress Leanne, the founder of the San Diego Femdom Alliance and creator of the Rise Power Mini-Con. They explore the importance of mentorship, intuition in leadership, and the dynamics of power within the BDSM community. Mistress Leanne shares her journey, the significanc...

join our patreon.com/elevateanddommenate to get the exclusive 23 minute BTS Interview woth Mistress Odessa and Goddess AroyaThe conversation highlights the layered language of female dominance. Attending DomCon provided valuable experiences and insights. Teaching and learning in kink is an ongoing journey. Confidence plays a crucial role in expressing dominance. Humor can enhance the experience of...

Cigars X Kink: A Bold Look at Ritual and Pleasure In this intimate and atmospheric episode of the Elevate & Dommenate podcast, Orpheus Black gives Goddess Aroya a personal lesson at Genuine Cigar Lounge in Santa Clarita ,a space where smoke, power, and presence come together. Orpheus shares his deep knowledge of cigar culture, guiding Aroya through:    •    How to choose a quality cigar    •  ...

In this fast and fiery 6-minute interview, we sit down with the radiant and unfiltered Mx Kitty Babylon, host of the Good Love Podcast, as she shares her powerful origin story—how the pulsating world of strip clubs opened the door to her journey into kink, power, and pleasure. In this candid DomCon 2025 conversation, she reveals:How the strip club became her first kink classroomThe evolution from...

Step into the shadowy embrace of The Dallas Devil, known to many as The Commandant—in this raw and revealing 6-minute interview captured at DomCon 2025. Based in Dallas, Texas, but ever eager to travel for the right submissive, The Commandant is a sensual succubus, a Dominatrix of precision and presence, and a master of the art of seductive torment. In this candid conversation, she opens up about...