Echoes & Edges

In this episode, Patria and Ro explore Enneagram Type Seven—the Enthusiast who seeks joy, possibility, and freedom. We talk about how Sevens use optimism and activity to avoid pain, why the holidays can intensify distraction and overplanning, and what helps Sevens stay present with both joy and discomfort. A thoughtful, encouraging conversation for Sevens and those who love them. Connect with Ro E...

In this mini episode, Patria and Ro explore how Enneagram Type Sixes experience the holidays—often scanning for what could go wrong, bracing for conflict, or carrying quiet anxiety beneath the surface. They unpack how vigilance and preparedness became protective strategies, and why this season can intensify fear, doubt, and emotional reactivity. They also name the deeper longing beneath Type Six’s...

In this mini episode, Patria and Ro explore how Enneagram Type Fives tend to move through the holidays—often managing overwhelm by pulling inward, conserving energy, or staying in their heads. They unpack how early strategies of withdrawal and self-sufficiency became a form of protection, and why this season can heighten feelings of depletion or disconnection. They also name the deeper longing ben...

In this mini episode, Patria and Ro explore how Enneagram Type Fours experience the holidays—often feeling a mix of longing, emotional intensity, and the sense of being “out of step” with everyone else. They unpack how early patterns of attuning to what’s missing became a form of protection, and why this season can amplify comparison, nostalgia, or the ache for deeper connection. They also gently...

In this mini episode, Patria and Ro explore how Enneagram Type Threes navigate the holiday season—often feeling pressure to keep things polished, productive, and impressive. They unpack how early achievement strategies became a way to stay safe and valued, and why this time of year can stir anxiety, comparison, and the fear of letting others down. The also name the longing beneath Type Three’s dri...

In this short, supportive episode, Patria and Ro explore how Enneagram Type Twos often take on the emotional load of the season—giving, helping, and smoothing things over while quietly neglecting their own needs. They unpack how early patterns of caring became a protective strategy, and why the holidays can trigger feelings of obligation, unspoken expectation, or exhaustion. They also offer compas...

In this short, grounded conversation, Patria and Ro offer compassionate support for Enneagram Type Ones navigating the holiday season. They explore how the inner critic tends to crank up under stress, how perfectionism becomes a protective strategy, and why “being good” can quietly morph into pressure, resentment, or burnout. This episode offers practical ways Ones can soften into presence, releas...

In this conversation, host Patria Rector and guest Ro Elliott explore the Enneagram as a map for understanding the defenses, longings, and relational patterns that shape our lives—especially during the holidays, when stress and family dynamics tend to amplify our core reactions. Together they trace the nine personality types through their instinctive defense structures, naming how each type learne...

In this episode of Echoes and Edges, Host Patria Rector explores the themes of healing, transformation, and the complexities of family dynamics during the holiday season with Shay Eveland, Daniel Herron and Carla Rousseau. They discuss the importance of understanding peace, navigating fear, and the role of love in relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-acceptance, community s...

In this episode of Echoes and Edges, host Patria Rector joins guests Kate Petersen and Stephanie Rose todelve into the themes of spiritual harm and heartache, exploring the impact of religious systems on personal identity and the emotional toll of self-abandonment. They discuss the complexities of navigating trauma responses, the importance of naming harm to access grief, and the journey towards h...

In this episode of Echoes and Edges, host Patria Rector joins guests Kate Petersen and Stephanie Rose to delve into the themes of spiritual harm and heartache, exploring the impact of religious systems on personal identity and the emotional toll of self-abandonment. Together, they unpack the complexities of navigating trauma responses, the importance of naming harm to access grief, and the ongoing...

This is the second episode of a two part series on "The Cost of Connecting to Yourself." In this episode of Echoes and Edges, Patria Rector and transformational coach Monica Aksamit delve into the themes of personal growth, the importance of community, and the nuances of well-being. They explore the liminal space of transformation, the role of support in navigating discomfort, and how to build new...

This is the first episode of a two part series on "The Cost of Connecting to Yourself." In this episode of Echoes and Edges, host Patria Rector and spiritual director Carla explore the profound themes of identity and connection. They discuss the costs associated with reconnecting to oneself, the disruptions that come with awakening, and the challenges faced in relationships as individuals evolve....

In Part 2 of this behind the scenes coaching session, Patria and Stephen delve into the complexities of personality traits, particularly focusing on introversion and extroversion, the role of fear in personal experiences, and the dynamics of trust and authority. They explore the importance of self-awareness, the balance between optimism and pessimism, and the quest for authenticity. Please note: i...

In this conversation, Stephen R. Sanders joins Patria Rector to explore his ongoing journey of self-discovery through the Enneagram, particularly his identification as a Type Nine. Together, they unpack the complexities of relationships, emotional awareness, and identity. Stephen reflects on how external opinions, career transitions, and past relationships have shaped his sense of self and connect...

In this tender and insightful episode, Patria is joined by her husband, Jerry, for an honest conversation about what it’s like to be two Enneagram Nines in relationship. Married for over 30 years, they reflect on the joys and challenges of navigating life together as a “double nine couple.” From conflict avoidance to finding peace in their bodies, Jerry and Patria open up about how their unique di...

In this episode of Echoes and Edges, host Patria Rector engages in a profound conversation with Stephanie Rose, who shares her journey of navigating a coerced marriage, the struggles of her upbringing, and the path to reclaiming her identity and voice. The discussion delves into themes of resilience, empowerment, and the importance of trusting one's gut feelings. Stephanie reflects on her experien...

In this episode, Patria Rector and Christine Schuele delve into the concepts of attunement, containment, and repair within the context of storywork. They explore how these elements play a crucial role in healing trauma and fostering healthy relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of presence over technique, the impact of unhealed stories on trust and love, and the significance of...

In this episode of Echoes and Edges: The Broken and Beautiful Podcast, Patria introduces the practice of storywork, a narrative-focused trauma care approach rooted in the teaching of Dr. Dan Allender and The Allender Center. Storywork invites us to revisit stories of harm and heartache in order to uncover how those moments have shaped our understanding of faith, hope, and love. Through attunement,...

In this final installment of our Enneagram triad deep dive, Patria Rector explores the Head Triad—Types Five, Six, and Seven—also known as the Fear Triad. These thinking-centered types navigate life through the lens of security, trust, and possibility, yet each responds to fear in profoundly different ways. From the Investigator’s pursuit of knowledge and privacy, to the Loyalist’s complex dance w...

In this deep dive into the Enneagram’s Heart Triad—Types Two, Three, and Four—Patria Rector explores how these emotionally intelligent types navigate the world through the lens of feelings, relationships, and connection. From the Helper’s quiet fear of rejection, to the Achiever’s drive to prove their worth, to the Individualist’s lifelong quest for authenticity, you’ll discover the beauty, comple...

In this episode of Echoes and Edges: The Broken and Beautiful Podcast, we step into the Enneagram’s Body Triad — Types Eight, Nine, and One — also known as the Gut Triad. These types lead with their instincts, carry a deep relationship to anger, and hold a profound need for autonomy. We’ll explore how each type experiences anger differently, the unique fears and misunderstandings they face, and th...

The Enneagram is more than a personality test — it’s a compassionate map of why we think, feel, and act the way we do. In this episode of Echoes and Edges: The Broken and Beautiful Podcast, host Patria Rector explores how the Enneagram can be used as a powerful healing modality. We’ll look at the ways our early life experiences shaped the strategies we use to stay safe and connected, and how bring...

In this first episode of Echoes and Edges: The Broken and Beautiful Podcast, Patria Rector invites you into a tender and honest conversation about the heart of this space: the belief that you are enough, just as you are. Through personal story, the wisdom of the Enneagram, and the transformative power of storywork, Patria explores how understanding our patterns and reclaiming our voice can move us...