Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

Welcome back DT Fam! Today, we go over listener submissions of ways to surprise your partner. Niki asked our IG followers for some inspiration, and you guys delivered great recommendations :) From heartfelt gestures involving fire places to sexy stickers, tune in to find out! If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies and drops at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings and free shipp...

Welcome back DT Fam! On today's episode, we've got a Vag Fact to share with you that had us both infuriated. We also talk about internalization and how not to take things personally if your partner is having a bad day (it's not your fault!). We also lay out the female cycle and how to best support your period having partner during each phase :) Get your vaginal microbiome tested with Evvy! Use cod...

Welcome back DT Fam! Today we welcome back Brittany Brave, a comedian who we met thru the pod years ago! For anyone that has been here since day one, she was one of the first guests we had on the show. This conversation takes many turns, we dive into: how your 20s are for mistakes and your 30s are for maturity, learning to leave (a bad relationship) and trusting yourself to do so, updating your be...

Welcome back DT Fam! If you remember Dr. Joli Hamilton from our last episode with her, she is back and we are talking about jealousy again. This time... all about retroactive jealousy and how our imagination shapes those jealous feelings. We also dive into a lot of the studies done around jealousy, including findings, what they measured, how they defined jealousy, and more. How do you define jealo...

Welcome back DT Fam :) Pete joins us yet again, and this time we are talking about girls night vs. guys night? Based on a viral Tiktok where the girl asks the group if her bf can come, we explore the question - is it okay to bring your significant other to girls/guys night? What if they're having a crappy day, do you stay home with them or continue on with your plans? Find new friends or lovers wi...

Welcome back DT Fam! Molly Tullis joins us on the pod today, she is a romantic fiction author that we have been following for years. If you're into spicy books, this episode is for you. From the books that featured the first sex scenes we read about, to the ones that healed our parental wounds, it is pretty amazing what reading (and writing!) can do for us. Hope you enjoy :) Check out all of our b...

Welcome back DT Fam! We are moving from Los Angeles, and we take a walk down memory lane. This is the city where we became creators and started the pod! Also where we had so many firsts and explored every play party we could find, thanks to the people who welcomed us into the world of play parties. Join us as we dive into some fun memories and recommendations. Check out all of our brand partners o...

Welcome back DT Fam! Today, Frank Arthur Smith is back on the show - he is the creator of Open To It, a series about a polyamorous gay couple exploring the ins and outs of their non-monogamous relationship. Our first episode with him was all about season 1, and this episode is about season 2, where they explore themes of intentional ENM exploration, deepening meaningful connections, and reflecting...

Welcome back DT Fam! Niki read an article about how 41% of Gen Z is interested in exploring open relationships... which is a lot! SO, as two people who have had their fair share of non-monogamous exploration, here are six tips to help anyone who is interested in diving into the world of non-traditional relationship structures. The book Niki mentioned was, More: A Memoir of Open Marriage by Molly R...

Welcome back DT Fam! Madelyn Moon joins us today, she is a somatic facilitator and author of Artist of Love. She loves championing self expression through creative acting methods, and we dive into those. So if you're struggling to say something and you want to approach it in a different way so you can say what you want to say, give this episode a listen and see if maybe it helps you out. If you're...

Welcome back DT Fam! Two friends of ours told us to listen to a podcast about a (married) woman who had a ChatGPT boyfriend. Niki listened to the podcast and recounts it all to Cami, bringing us to ask ourselves.. how do we feel about AI/ChatGPT relationship? If you'd like to listen to the original podcast episode, it is linked here. Curious to hear your thoughts!! DM us on Instagram or comment on...

Welcome back DT Fam! We brought back a favorite of y'alls: Tia :) Unfortunately, she is going through a break up in her non-monogamous relationship, and has run into the dilemma of having to attend play parties with her ex - they share a friend group! We talk about potential rules and boundaries, what the transition has been like, and what she's calling in for her next partnership. Check out all o...

Welcome back DT Fam :) Niki's been struggling with doomscrolling lately, especially in today's political climate, so this episode is all about helping you stay aware and proactive so you're not letting social media put you in a pit of despair. I hope you all enjoy, and see you again soon for another Vanilla Sunday!

Welcome back DT Fam! Our good friend Pete, a TikTok creator we met on the app, joins us today :) He recently moved from Colorado to California, so we talk about dating in a new city, romanticizing your life, finding new hobbies to meet people, and and joining run club (aka IRL Tinder). Check out Peteski on TikTok! If you're a parent or caretaker, head on over to Empowered Caretakers to learn all a...

Hey DT Fam! Here is our review of Babygirl, Nicole Kidman's latest movie. A lot of our friends in the kink community were not fans, and we totally get it... it wasn't a great representation of power exchange, but we argue: it wasn't a movie about kink! Tune in to find out more. We recommend it, and if you haven't watched it, go check it out, then come back to this episode (it does have spoilers!)....

Welcome back, DTFAM! Steff from Broke Girl Therapy is back on the pod today. We dive into rich ex-boyfriends, who pays for what in a relationship or when dating, and also how it's going for her and her man now that they are working together after his recent layoff. Be sure to tune into Broke Girl Therapy now that she is making her return. If you are a parent or caretaker looking to have the sex ta...

We are finally back with Vanilla Sundays! And for this one, Niki goes through her process for setting a boundary. Too many people use the term "boundary" without properly knowing what that actually means or what that entails, so hopefully, this is helpful.

Welcome back DT Fam! This week we dive into boundaries and considerations around friends of the opposite s*x when you are partnered, although honestly a lot of it can apply to friends of the opposite s*x when you are single too, because boundaries are definitely important. Find out why Cami absolutely loathes one of her man's female friends, the tea is served here for sure. In loving memory of Tie...

Welcome back DT Fam! Another episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast :) This time, we are diving into what women think about during sex, based on a Q&A Abby did on her Instagram. Do women think about other dicks? What's happening when we close our eyes? What if the guy comes too quick, is that an issue? Check out our brand partners on our Linktree! Click on Iroha at doubleteamfam.com and use c...

Welcome back DT Fam! This week we're talking about what to keep and what to delete when it comes to pics of past lovers and such. Is it okay to keep spicy pics? When do you delete them? Is it when you break up the relationship or when you're ready to let the pics go? What about pics you've sent to exes? Lots to discuss. This is our second to last episode recorded with Tiesto, our beloved kitty who...

Hey DT Fam! This week, we are co-releasing this episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast. We dive into some of the toxic things we've done in the name of jealousy, as well as our jealous triggers, jealous exes, and jealousy coping mechanisms. Hope you all enjoy this episode! & if you're a parent or caretaker, give your kids the s*x talk with the help of Empowered Caretakers, the course that giv...

Welcome back DTFAM! We are so excited to be back here with you guys, we have definitely missed you all and the pod. OKAY SO, first things first - CAMI FINISHED HER ONLINE COURSE ON EMPOWERING PARENTS AND CARETAKERS! More to come on that, but please feel free to check out the link here and order your course today, even if you don't have children. Use code EMPOWER for $10 off. Secondly, we've got so...

Hey DT Fam! Here's a Vanilla Sunday all about reflecting on our work and home life as Mars retrogrades through the signs of Leo and Cancer (Dec 6th thru Feb 23rd!). I find this is a time I am usually questioning where I am putting my energy, reflecting on my relationships and my home life, but also a time when I am feeling more sensitive and emotional. I have a few tips for you as we finish out th...

Happy Holidays DTFAM :) This is our last episode of 2024! Don't worry, we will be back mid-January 2025 for our next season. We hope you all have an amazing holiday break, and please stay safe out there. In this episode, we cover some Vag Facts by Evvy, how to rate your sex life, and Niki's current dilemma in missing exploring parts of her bisexuality. As always, thank you for your support in list...

Welcome back DT Fam! This Sunday, Cami's walking us through the recent check-in she did with her boyfriend and the framework/outline she used to make it successful for the both of them. From example questions to tips on how to soften the blow for the hard stuff, she's got some great advice if this is something you're looking to incorporate in your relationship. Enjoy! Test your v*ginal microbiome...