Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

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Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Episodes

S7E15: She Wants Me To Move To Spain 08.03.2021 1:07:34

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: dating a daddy Wanting exclusivity as friends Mental health as an excuse Being friends with your brother's ex Don't Blame Them: pronouns Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepo...

S7E14: “Pick Me” Syndrome 01.03.2021 1:19:45

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: how to break up with a financially dependent boyfriend Dating someone who isn't ready for a relationship Friend drama Roommate infringing on boundaries Don't Blame Them: self-soothing Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa htt...

S7E13: How Soon Is Too Soon? w/ Melisa D. Monts 22.02.2021 1:07:07

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: (ex) boyfriend and his twin Partner wishing they had more sex before you Working with your ex and your boyfriend Both partners feeling burnt out Don't Blame Them: FOMO in a relationship Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa h...

S7E12: I Really Like Her w/ Mats 15.02.2021 1:13:24

Welcome to our Valentine's Day Special with my boyfriend Mats! This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Weird gifts on the doorstep How to ask someone's pronouns How to deal with crying for no reason Boyfriend not being physically affectionate Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https:/...

S7E11: I Don’t Want My Friend To Get Married w/ Melisa D. Monts 08.02.2021 59:42

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Friend and his toxic ex Deleting photos with your ex Not agreeing on wanting kids Ex coming to your workplace Don't Blame Them: friend following you to college Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisno...

S7E10: Setting Boundaries w/ Melisa D. Monts 01.02.2021 1:08:00

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: catfished by a “fuck boy” Boyfriend can't keep it up Lying coworker Loud upstairs neighbors Don't Blame Them: celebrity crush Call Transcriptions Original Call (S1 E7): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566?i=1000389628251 https://youtu.be/4UnXml-F1sQ?t=1306 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks http...

S7E9: Weird Gifts on the Doorstep w/ Melisa D. Monts 25.01.2021 1:01:20

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: in-laws wanting to hang out How to be more empathetic If you should tell his wife Mom's boyfriend being weird Don't Blame Them: having sex dreams about husband's brother Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.c...

S7E8: FOMO in a Relationship w/ Melisa D. Monts 18.01.2021 1:09:09

This week we're sharing advice on: Moving in with your new boyfriend Dad getting swindled and divorce options Update: Mom thinks I'm in love with my brother in-law Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www....

S7E7: Closure w/ Melisa D. Monts 11.01.2021 1:19:54

This week we're sharing advice on: Boyfriend lying Exclusive “friends” Update: I'm jealous Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium!...

S7E6: Boyfriend Can’t Get It Up w/ Melisa D. Monts 04.01.2021 1:03:27

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: coworker being weird Overbearing family Going to college with a high school friend Reaching out to an old friend Don't Blame Them: waiting until marriage Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelis...

S7E5: My Boyfriend Has A Sugar Mama w/ Melisa D. Monts 28.12.2020 1:30:26

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: he's into farting Boyfriend's friend looks like you How to break up with someone who depends on you Hating your boyfriend's dog Don't Blame Them: cult-deprogramming Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sh...

S7E4: Festive Family Fights w/ Melisa D. Monts 21.12.2020 1:13:06

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Her car is in his driveway Having a celebrity crush Answering DMs from enemies Mysterious phone call Don't Blame Them: liberal younger sister Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblam...

S7E3: Snooping Little Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts 14.12.2020 1:06:18

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Having sex dreams about exes Helping a friend Abstinence until marriage Kicking a friend out of your wedding Don't Blame Them: staying safe Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamem...

S7E2: Having Dreams About His Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts 07.12.2020 1:07:09

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Stepdad dating Planning a wedding Mom making you uncomfortable Moving on from a divorce Don't Blame Them: bad dad Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagr...

S7E1: I’m Jealous w/ Melisa D. Monts 30.11.2020 1:02:01

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Bridesmaid for a coworker Friend keeping secrets Moving on from a toxic roommate To break up or not break up Don't Blame Them: babysitting for free Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @do...

S6E26: Home for the Holidays? w/ Melisa D. Monts 23.11.2020 1:12:18

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Making friends in college A friend confessing feelings Gossiping boss Dating Don't Blame Them: renting from a friend Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.inst...

S6E25: Breaking Up with a Racist Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts 16.11.2020 1:03:56

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Into bad boys Issue with a bad dad An ex reaching out Endangering others' health Don't Blame Them: ex having a baby Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.insta...

S6E24: He’s Into Farting w/ Melisa D. Monts 09.11.2020 1:14:34

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Long-lost brother Fighting with friends Saying things you don't mean Boyfriend using a dating site Don't Blame Them: medicine and sex Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod htt...

S6E23: He Cheated with a Witch w/ Melisa D. Monts 02.11.2020 1:20:35

This week we're sharing advice on: Work woes Choosing between two guys Choosing a therapist Update: Boyfriend cheating in many ways Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ ...

S6E22: He Works with a Porn Star w/ Melisa D. Monts 26.10.2020 1:11:45

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: I want to date my friend's husband Telling his girlfriend Wanting to date a friend in a relationship Wanting to get paid for work you do Don't Blame Them: we grew up in a cult Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twi...

S6E21: Partying in a Pandemic w/ Melisa D. Monts 19.10.2020 1:11:24

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Boyfriend's ex won't go away Living with a friend Helping a friend with body image Reaching out to a sister Don't Blame Them: desperate to get engaged Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa...

S6E20: Thank You For What? w/ Melisa D. Monts 12.10.2020 1:12:12

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: overly sensitive button Annoying roommates Ex-boyfriend having a baby with his ex Being taken seriously at the doctor Don't Blame Them: writing songs about exes Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisn...

S6E19: Long-Lost Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts 05.10.2020 57:01

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: stepbrother stealing panties Friend getting engaged Getting over a guy Not being supported by a friend Don't Blame Them: friend sharing biphobic posts Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen t...

S6E18: He Wants Me to Take a Polygraph w/ Melisa D. Monts 28.09.2020 59:16

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Unstable stepmom trying to poison fiance's dad Boyfriend meeting with other girls on his days off Long-distance boyfriend delaying coming home Dating a friend's ex Don't Blame Them: choosing a career Change the name of Sir Francis Drake High School: https://www.change.org/p/tamalpais-union-high-school-district-board-of-trustees-change-sir-francis-dra...

S6E17: My Friend Likes the Cheeto Man w/ Melisa D. Monts 21.09.2020 1:07:19

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Telling sex stories Dating based on astrology Telling someone your real age Liking a man when you're gay Working at a kind-of strip club Don't Blame Them: Telling sex stories Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen...