Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

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Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

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S7E5: My Boyfriend Has A Sugar Mama w/ Melisa D. Monts 28.12.2020 1:30:26

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: he's into farting Boyfriend's friend looks like you How to break up with someone who depends on you Hating your boyfriend's dog Don't Blame Them: cult-deprogramming Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sh...

S7E4: Festive Family Fights w/ Melisa D. Monts 21.12.2020 1:13:06

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Her car is in his driveway Having a celebrity crush Answering DMs from enemies Mysterious phone call Don't Blame Them: liberal younger sister Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblam...

S7E3: Snooping Little Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts 14.12.2020 1:06:18

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Having sex dreams about exes Helping a friend Abstinence until marriage Kicking a friend out of your wedding Don't Blame Them: staying safe Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamem...

S7E2: Having Dreams About His Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts 07.12.2020 1:07:09

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Stepdad dating Planning a wedding Mom making you uncomfortable Moving on from a divorce Don't Blame Them: bad dad Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagr...

S7E1: I’m Jealous w/ Melisa D. Monts 30.11.2020 1:02:01

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Bridesmaid for a coworker Friend keeping secrets Moving on from a toxic roommate To break up or not break up Don't Blame Them: babysitting for free Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @do...

S6E26: Home for the Holidays? w/ Melisa D. Monts 23.11.2020 1:12:18

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Making friends in college A friend confessing feelings Gossiping boss Dating Don't Blame Them: renting from a friend Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.inst...

S6E25: Breaking Up with a Racist Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts 16.11.2020 1:03:56

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Into bad boys Issue with a bad dad An ex reaching out Endangering others' health Don't Blame Them: ex having a baby Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.insta...

S6E24: He’s Into Farting w/ Melisa D. Monts 09.11.2020 1:14:34

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Long-lost brother Fighting with friends Saying things you don't mean Boyfriend using a dating site Don't Blame Them: medicine and sex Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod htt...

S6E23: He Cheated with a Witch w/ Melisa D. Monts 02.11.2020 1:20:35

This week we're sharing advice on: Work woes Choosing between two guys Choosing a therapist Update: Boyfriend cheating in many ways Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ ...

S6E22: He Works with a Porn Star w/ Melisa D. Monts 26.10.2020 1:11:45

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: I want to date my friend's husband Telling his girlfriend Wanting to date a friend in a relationship Wanting to get paid for work you do Don't Blame Them: we grew up in a cult Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twi...

S6E21: Partying in a Pandemic w/ Melisa D. Monts 19.10.2020 1:11:24

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Boyfriend's ex won't go away Living with a friend Helping a friend with body image Reaching out to a sister Don't Blame Them: desperate to get engaged Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa...

S6E20: Thank You For What? w/ Melisa D. Monts 12.10.2020 1:12:12

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: overly sensitive button Annoying roommates Ex-boyfriend having a baby with his ex Being taken seriously at the doctor Don't Blame Them: writing songs about exes Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisn...

S6E19: Long-Lost Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts 05.10.2020 57:01

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: stepbrother stealing panties Friend getting engaged Getting over a guy Not being supported by a friend Don't Blame Them: friend sharing biphobic posts Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen t...

S6E18: He Wants Me to Take a Polygraph w/ Melisa D. Monts 28.09.2020 59:16

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Unstable stepmom trying to poison fiance's dad Boyfriend meeting with other girls on his days off Long-distance boyfriend delaying coming home Dating a friend's ex Don't Blame Them: choosing a career Change the name of Sir Francis Drake High School: https://www.change.org/p/tamalpais-union-high-school-district-board-of-trustees-change-sir-francis-dra...

S6E17: My Friend Likes the Cheeto Man w/ Melisa D. Monts 21.09.2020 1:07:19

This week we're sharing advice on: Update: Telling sex stories Dating based on astrology Telling someone your real age Liking a man when you're gay Working at a kind-of strip club Don't Blame Them: Telling sex stories Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen...

S6E16: Boyfriend Has A Burner Instagram w/ Melisa D. Monts 14.09.2020 1:07:44

This week we're sharing advice on: Boyfriend texting his ex Friend accusing you of cheating How to get over your ex Dealing with a boyfriend's girl best friend Don't Blame Them: Boredom in quarantine If you want to read the call transcriptions, see the bottom of these notes! Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblam...

S6E15: He’s In Love with His Coworker w/ Melisa D. Monts 07.09.2020 1:04:55

This week we're sharing advice on: Choosing a last name A friend changing Going through a abrupt break up Your stepdad dating after mom's passing Update: stripper cheating on two men If you want to read the call transcriptions, see the bottom of these notes! Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa w...

S6E14: He Writes Songs About His Exes w/ Melisa D. Monts 31.08.2020 1:11:26

This week we're sharing advice on: Choosing a career Discerning biphobia Wanting to get married Supporting strangers online Update: boyfriend wants a polyamorous relationship Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free...

S6E13: He Doesn’t Brush His Teeth w/ Melisa D. Monts 24.08.2020 50:16

This week we're sharing advice on: Making friends Differing hobbies in a relationship Boyfriend won't wear a condom How to tell if a guy is into you Update: boyfriend calling you fat Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! Fo...

S6E12: Wanking with a Cap w/ Melisa D. Monts 17.08.2020 1:01:11

This week we're sharing advice on: Getting ghosted by dates Not being ready to move in together Living with your boyfriend's mom Dating with a pelvic floor condition Don't Blame Them: talking with teens about sex Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to a...

S6E11: Boyfriend Won’t Move Out w/ Melisa D. Monts 10.08.2020 1:07:57

This week we're sharing advice on: Best friend ghosting you Friend backing out of living together Pandemic dating Dating as a demisexual Update: Boyfriend's ex threatened to kill me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For...

S6E10: We Grew Up In A Cult w/ Melisa D. Monts 03.08.2020 1:08:32

This week we're sharing advice on: Telling dirty stories in bed Having trouble with penetrative sex Boyfriend needing to add a third person to the relationship Dealing with an unstable stepmom Don't Blame Them: boyfriend gaining weight Never Sleep Alone Call Dr. Alex at 646-484-9371 and be part of the NSA Podcast! https://www.neversleepalone.com/nsa-podcast Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.inst...

S6E9: My Boyfriend’s Jealous of My Toy w/ Melisa D. Monts 27.07.2020 1:10:59

This week we're sharing advice on: Roommate acting like you're a couple Feeling inferior to others Fiance getting someone else pregnant How to navigate two guys at once Update: best friend used me to cheat on her husband Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Lis...

S6E8: My Stepbrother Stole My Panties w/ Melisa D. Monts 20.07.2020 1:02:57

This week we're sharing advice on: Being asked to be a bridesmaid when you don't want to Saying no Partner identifying as gender-fluid Boyfriend not initiating activities Don't Blame Them: supporting friends in a toxic relationship Subscribe to the new Don't Blame Me YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9SMwL3ZgCUsD-yIDU_Zsqg/ Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanr...

S6E7: No-Mask Wedding w/ Melisa D. Monts 13.07.2020 59:32

This week we're sharing advice on: Dating someone whose stepbrother is your uncle Friends not actively supporting Black Lives Matter People thinking you're spoiled Mom wanting to move in Update to a Don't Blame Them: dating a momma's boy Subscribe to the new Don't Blame Me YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9SMwL3ZgCUsD-yIDU_Zsqg/ Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/m...