Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

S8E4: When to Move On 21.06.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: dating and political beliefs Friend likes your crush Coming out Don't Blame Them: toxic relationship   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.com/dontbl...

S8E3: How To Tell If They’re Into You 14.06.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: Splitting costs with a partner Friend sexually harassing you Drifting from a friend Dating when you're going to move Don't Blame Them: pervy uncle   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @don...

S8E2: He Doesn’t Understand Casual Sex 07.06.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend's ex is creating drama Update: friends or just exes? Don't Blame Them: captain hook   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Liste...

S8E1: He's A Terrible Driver 31.05.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Friendship with a toxic relationship Telling him to talk dirty Funny sex Don't Blame Them: going down   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepo...

S7E26: Suspicious Rash 24.05.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Leaving a long-term relationship Wedding invitations Boyfriend fighting with your family Don't Blame Them: living with friends   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.in...

S7E25: Red Flags 17.05.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Understaffed working conditions Parental career pressure Dealing with distrust of men Don't Blame Them: narcissistic mother-in-law   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://ww...

S7E24: Captain Hook 10.05.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: he won't use a toy Guy moving too fast Coming off as a homewrecker Don't Blame Them: politically dating   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.com/don...

S7E23: Being Accused of Sending Nudes to Brothers-In-Law 03.05.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: loud neighbors Controlling roommate Divorce complications Fading friendship Don't Blame Them: in love with best friend And the dick pic saga!   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblam...

S7E22: I Want My Husband To Watch 26.04.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Hiding your hobbies Dating as a liberal Feelings for a friend Don't Blame Them: he proposed but changed his mind   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @diamondmprintproductions https://www.instagra...

S7E21: I Liked Doing It in the Car 19.04.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: nannying for free Roommate talking behind your back Boyfriend's bitchy sister Splitting costs with a partner Don't Blame Them: marriage at 20   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.megha...

S7E20: He Proposed But Changed His Mind 12.04.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: coming out & nursing school Moving on from a breakup Friend dating your crush Moving out on someone Don't Blame Them: friends vs. boyfriend   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamem...

S7E19: My Boyfriend’s Dad Wants to Have a Baby with Me 05.04.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: military ex showing up at work Living with toxic family He won't use a toy Don't Blame Them: moving for a partner   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagr...

S7E18: Friend Fallout 29.03.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: friends with brother's ex Entering the entertainment industry Former hookup down the street Homophobic sister Don't Blame Them: nanny morals   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblame...

S7E17: He’s Never Said “I Love You” 22.03.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: liking sister's friend, ghosting, pandemic partying Roommates are mad at you Moving in after marriage Helping a partner in rehab Don't Blame Them: dealing with grief   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/s...

S7E16: I Can’t Stop Stalking His Ex 15.03.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: friend bailing on you Correcting morality in kids you nanny Best friend roommates now dating Problems in an open relationship Don't Blame Them:   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontbl...

S7E15: She Wants Me To Move To Spain 08.03.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: dating a daddy Wanting exclusivity as friends Mental health as an excuse Being friends with your brother's ex Don't Blame Them: pronouns   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepo...

S7E14: “Pick Me” Syndrome 01.03.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: how to break up with a financially dependent boyfriend Dating someone who isn't ready for a relationship Friend drama Roommate infringing on boundaries Don't Blame Them: self-soothing   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa htt...

S7E13: How Soon Is Too Soon? w/ Melisa D. Monts 22.02.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: (ex) boyfriend and his twin Partner wishing they had more sex before you Working with your ex and your boyfriend Both partners feeling burnt out Don't Blame Them: FOMO in a relationship   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa h...

S7E12: I Really Like Her w/ Mats 15.02.2021

Welcome to our Valentine's Day Special with my boyfriend Mats!   This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: Weird gifts on the doorstep How to ask someone's pronouns How to deal with crying for no reason Boyfriend not being physically affectionate   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https:/...

S7E11: I Don’t Want My Friend To Get Married w/ Melisa D. Monts 08.02.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: Friend and his toxic ex Deleting photos with your ex Not agreeing on wanting kids Ex coming to your workplace Don't Blame Them: friend following you to college   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisno...

S7E10: Setting Boundaries w/ Melisa D. Monts 01.02.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: catfished by a “fuck boy” Boyfriend can't keep it up Lying coworker Loud upstairs neighbors Don't Blame Them: celebrity crush   Call Transcriptions   Original Call (S1 E7): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566?i=1000389628251 https://youtu.be/4UnXml-F1sQ?t=1306   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  http...

S7E9: Weird Gifts on the Doorstep w/ Melisa D. Monts 25.01.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: in-laws wanting to hang out How to be more empathetic If you should tell his wife Mom's boyfriend being weird Don't Blame Them: having sex dreams about husband's brother   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.c...

S7E8: FOMO in a Relationship w/ Melisa D. Monts 18.01.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Moving in with your new boyfriend Dad getting swindled and divorce options Update: Mom thinks I'm in love with my brother in-law   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www....

S7E7: Closure w/ Melisa D. Monts 11.01.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend lying Exclusive “friends” Update: I'm jealous   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/     Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium!...

S7E6: Boyfriend Can’t Get It Up w/ Melisa D. Monts 04.01.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: coworker being weird Overbearing family Going to college with a high school friend Reaching out to an old friend Don't Blame Them: waiting until marriage   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelis...

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