Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

BONUS: Sponsored by Showtime's film, CUSP 11.12.2021

TW: Sexual Assault This  episode  is  sponsored  by  Showtime's film,  CUSP. Meghan and Melisa discuss Showtime's film, CUSP, about three spirited teenage girls in a small town in Texas who live out a fever-dream summer. Cusp Education Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1rmBMxp9flmWQeVtgvWL7q1UayRXx-G37/view?usp=sharing   Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme See omnystudi...

S9E2: My Boyfriend Slept In Bed Naked With His Friend's Sister 06.12.2021

This week we're giving advice on: Moving on from being dumped A long-distance break up Boyfriend doesn't like you masturbating Found out you boyfriend slept in bed naked with his friend's sister Don't Blame Them - Brother dating your best friend Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id159...

S9E1: Should I Accept My Dad's Apology? 29.11.2021

This week we're answering your questions about: Not In The Wedding Party Roommate's Toxic Boyfriend Apology Letter From Dad Smelly Vagina?  Don't Blame Them: Neglectful Dog Owner   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891  Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks...

S8E26: Not Serious Enough to Date 22.11.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:  Update: Feeling behind friends in school Disrespected at job Boyfriend wanting sex when you mentally don't want to Future Mother-In-Law Babies My Boyfriend Not Serious Enough to Date Don't Blame Them: Friend dating a foreign guy Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/b...

S8E25: Flirty Fitness Instructor 15.11.2021

TW: (In The Update) Self-Harm    This week we're sharing advice on:  Feeling Guilty About Flirting  Brother and Best Friend Secretly Dating MEGA Update Captain Hook Drag Stage Fright Making True Crime Content Misgendering Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891  Follow Us! @meg...

S8E24: My Colleague Cheated With Me 08.11.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:  Update: Boyfriend Doesn't Communicate Update: Boyfriend Wants To Go Out But I Don't Dating an Older Musician In Love with Colleague Don't Blame Them: Skin Picking and Dating   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891  Follow Us! @meghanrienks ...

S8E23: Lazy Roommate 01.11.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:  Roommate not taking care of their dog Going on a trip with your old friends with benefits Not trusting your friend's boyfriend Spending the holidays with your boyfriend's estranged family Girlfriend gets a lot of compliments   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me  Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-a...

S8E22: He's Mad But We Were Never Exclusive 25.10.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:  Misunderstanding leading to a break up Mental Health and True Crime Admitting You're A Virgin Best Friend Dating A Republican Don't Blame Them - Friend Who Just Gave Birth Isn't Communicating    Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me  Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotme...

S8E21: Not Getting Off Anymore 18.10.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:  Having a relationship with your sister after boyfriend lost his sister Dating and Skin Picking Dealing With a Sudden Breakup Not Getting Off Anymore Don't Blame Them - Football Player Not Wearing Mask Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sh...

S8E20: Boyfriend Doesn’t Communicate 11.10.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Racist College football player not wearing mask at school Boyfriend's friend has feelings for him Boyfriend drives his work van on dates Boyfriend doesn't communicate Don't Blame Them - Advice on joining a sorority   Buy our merch   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sh...

S8E19: Lying About Your Life 04.10.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Employee always talking about her toxic boyfriend Boyfriend's sister is a bitch Being there for your depressed friends Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend doesn't believe in feminism Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.insta...

S8E18: Hooking Up with a Woman and a Married Man at Work 27.09.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Extrovert turned introvert during the pandemic Period Sex New mom ignoring their friend Creeped out by boyfriend's friend DBT: Teacher changing careers Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmeliss...

S8E17: Step Mom is Cheating On My Mom 20.09.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: friends lying about being vaccinated  “Friend” is a user Boyfriend wants to debate all the time Guy I like wants to join a toxic fraternity Don't Blame Them: Copying Friend Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www...

S8E16: What’s College Greek Life Like? 13.09.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: Friend Faking Vaccination Card Not like a friend Quitting Your Dream Job Joining Bumble After a Fight With Your Partner DBT: Family Members Misgendering   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisn...

S8E15: My Boyfriend’s Cousin is Into Me 06.09.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Overpriced bachelorette party Talkative friends Not wanting to relocate to live with boyfriend Don't Blame Them: Moving in together too soon   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://tw...

S8E14: Should We Try To Be Poly? 30.08.2021

This Week We're Giving Advice On Update: Dating your co-worker that doesn't want the same thing you want Reaching out to a shitty friend you miss Confronting a bad friend Community College vs. University Don't Blame Them: "Virginity" Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnot...

S8E13: Fake Vaccination Card 23.08.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Dealing with a “friend” who bought a fake vaccination card DBT: Party vs. Funeral Update: Getting dumped after you say I love you/Staying in a relationship with a lot of red flags   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.i...

S8E12: Drag Stage Fright 16.08.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: Being manipulated by men Lying about being vaccinated Friend copying you Siblings not using correct pronouns   Buy our merch   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.com/dont...

S8E11: Dad Refuses to Get Vaccinated 09.08.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: boyfriend couldn't be just friends with women Mother-In-Law moving to the same floor as you Boyfriend has been hanging out with a girl that's in love with him Boyfriend doesn't want to live with you   Buy our merch   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotme...

S8E10: Funeral or Birthday Party 02.08.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: slept with lawyer's ex-husband When to lose your virginity How to ask your husband to get a vasectomy Dealing with parental lying Don't Blame Them:    Call Transcriptions Buy Our Merch!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/she...

S8E9: Am I The Toxic One? 26.07.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Losing passion in a relationship Friend with codependency issues Boyfriend doesn't want to go on a couples trip Don't Blame Them: Snapchat saga   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod...

S8E8: Dried Up Conversations 19.07.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: coming out Friends sharing your sexuality Boyfriend moving without you How to know if you want kids Don't Blame Them: financial anxiety   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod...

S8E7: His Ex Is Trying to Sabotage Our Relationship 12.07.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: the iconic titty slap Wanting to get engaged Family drama Don't Blame Them: he doesn't understand casual sex   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagram.co...

S8E6: I Slept with My Lawyer’s Ex-Husband 05.07.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: feelings for your friend He makes weird noises during sex Friend throwing a tantrum Moody boyfriend Don't Blame Them: friend lying about getting tested   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa...

S8E5: He Just Lies There 28.06.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: divorce & age gap Marital fighting Snapchat friends Feeling behind financially Don't Blame Them: suspicious rash   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod   https://www.instagra...

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