Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

MLM Predators 02.05.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Racist/House Stealing/Succubus Cheater Friend constantly canceling plans Warning a client about MLMs Going to a music festival with someone who hates music festivals Shopping Addiction Don't Blame Them: Converting religions for a partner Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/...

BAIW: Kicking Out A House Guest 28.04.2022

Melisa thinks singing should be banned on planes and Meghan wants allergens put on menus. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Stepmom mad that you thank her in an email Houseguest outstaying their welcome Friend getting mad that you like her friend better Boyfriend and his mom not lowering your rent And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discus...

Unwanted Spiritual Texts 25.04.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: The Bride Peed on Me Brother-In-Laws's girlfriend doesn't like me Not wanting to work anymore Texts from former Fellowship of Christian Athletes leader Not going to friend's wedding Don't Blame Them: Possible misgendering Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-a...

Mom's Hot Girl Summer 21.04.2022

Meghan is anti random International/National days and Melisa had a homophobic person disinvited to a part. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Classmate making too much noise Mom possibly dating someone while still married to Dad Crying over being single Having your Only Fan's discovered And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss the Labran...

The Bride Peed On Me 18.04.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Making a mistake in a relationship Converting to your partner's religion Fear and anxiety from medical trauma Not living up to the bride's expectations Don't Blame Them: Advice for the insecure bottom Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...

BAIW: Book Trigger Warnings 14.04.2022

TW: SA for writer #4 Melisa thinks Jury Duty needs to be rebranded and Meghan wants people to stop demonizing hormonal birth control. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Best friend dating a Candace Owens supporter Sending a bikini picture to your friend's parents Homophobic uncle Lack of trigger warnings in books And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The We...

Keeping A Secret From Your Boyfriend 11.04.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Dealing with your controlling parents Developing feeling for someone who just wants a physical relationship Communicating with a friend that has been unresponsive Researching your sister-in-law's counselor Don't Blame Them: Getting over being dumped Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple....

BAIW: My Boyfriend is Too Close to His Family 07.04.2022

Meghan discusses the sexism in parent vlogs and Melisa hates people sharing her contact information. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Telling your sister-in-law that your wedding is on her birthday Fear of spiders keeping your from a potential relationship Thinking your boyfriend is too close with his sister Being rude to people you are morally against. And in...

Marriage Lacks Intimacy 04.04.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Finding a Only Fans statement Getting over someone that love bombed you Spending time with your partner Talking about sex with your friends Don't Blame Them: Not dating in college Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks ww...

My Aunt Said I Stole From My Cousin 28.03.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Balancing school and social life Not speaking to your aunt again Longing for you ex Breaking up with a partner you live with Don’t Blame Them: Meeting immigrant parents Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram...

Partner Lies About Watching Corn 21.03.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Friend lied about getting tested for Covid Sharing drunk videos with boyfriend that does drink Using dating apps as a parent Long distant boyfriend has a friend that's too friendly Partner keeping secrets Don’t Blame Them: Queer people meeting friends on dating apps Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show...

My Husband Calls Me His Ex's Name 14.03.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Getting over a terrible break Incompetent co-worker Unprepared for dating in the real world Husband and his mother saying the wrong name Not swallowing Don’t Blame Them: Age gap relationships Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...

Nancy Is The Imposter 07.03.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Parting ways with childhood best friend Bamboozled by internet friend Using dating apps to find friends Kicking roommates out Trusting a friend with different political beliefs Don’t Blame Them: Socializing while sober   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am...

Insecure Bottom 28.02.2022

After debating if they'd want to have sex with Jack Harlow, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Trusting your boyfriend after you caught him texting another girl If your mother-in-law doesn't know you're married Approaching age-gap relationships with future kids Boyfriend not sure he wants to try anal sex again Don't Blame Them: Don't date your boss Sexological Body Work: https://www.insider.com/sex...

Riding Tips 21.02.2022

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on Update: Moving On In A Relationship Support a friend going through a breakup Partner to listening during sex Sobriety in college Learning to ride Don't Blame Them: Problems with your boyfriend staying hard Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id159...

Guest: Mats - Getting Over the Love of Your Life 14.02.2022

This week we're joined by Mats, Meghan's ex-boyfriend/current fiancé for the annual Valentine's Day Episodes. This week they discuss: Feeling insecure in a relationship Moving on What to do when your boyfriend isn't putting in effort Figuring out feelings for your fuck buddy Don't Blame Them: Dealing with noisy neighbors Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe t...

Dating Standards 07.02.2022

This week we're sharing advice on: Update - Snitching on your cousin Tell your dad he sucks at DIY projects Going to a concert without your boyfriend because he has Covid Setting your standards while dating Boyfriend doesn't want to move in with you anymore Don't Blame Them - Going for a guy in your graduate program Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our...

I'm In Love With My Boss... and My Boyfriend Knows 31.01.2022

This week we're sharing advice on: Annoying neighbors Breaking up and moving out Having sex for the first time and he won't stay hard Being obsessed with your boss Don't Blame Them: Comparing your life to your therapist's life Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @me...

I Want To Hook Up With Other People 24.01.2022

This week we're sharing advice on:  Update: Breaking up with a FWB Dating with social anxiety Seeing someone who is emotionally unavailable Telling your main FWB you want to be in a relationship with them Bringing up non-monogamy to your partner Don't Blame Them: Masturbating in a relationship Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://p...

My Nurse Friend Stole Medication 17.01.2022

This week we're sharing advice on:  Boyfriend berating you because his dog bites you Dating your ex after taking a break Dating for 4 months and making plans to move in Your friend lying about pharmaceuticals Don't Blame Them: Snitching on Younger Cousin Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wr...

REPLAY - Guest: Nicole Byer - Boyfriend Has a Spank Bank of Me and Our Friends? 10.01.2022

aka: The one that happened minutes after Meghan had a seizure Comedian Nicole Byer is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if you match with your professor on Tinder, how to communicate with a friend that left the country for a man, how to handle your ex boyfriend who’s “addicted” to weed and owes you money, and what to say to your partner when you’re ready...

REPLAY - M&M: Hooking Up With Friend’s Crush 03.01.2022

Original Air Date: January 14, 2019 You guys wanted episode with just Melisa and I, so here you go! This week we're sharing our advice on catching your friend at your ex's house, meeting your boyfriend's abusive parents, moving away from being friends with benefits, and getting rejected because you're bi. We also have a caller sharing her own advice about a clingy roommate.    Follow Us!  @by.megh...

REPLAY - Guest: Zach Kornfeld - Falling Out of Love 27.12.2021

Zach Kornfeld from the Try Guys is here this week to share advice! We're answering your questions on what to do if your live-in boyfriend offers no financial security, if your boyfriend hangs out with your other female roommate more than you, dealing with being shamed into having sex, and how to get rid of an ex that's stalking you.   Follow Us! @by.meghan.and.melisa @meghanrienks @korndiddy @shei...

S9E4: Weed Is Her Whole Personality 20.12.2021

This week we're sharing advice on:  College experience FOMO Who should get the graduation tickets Having a crush on your classmate Breaking up with a "friend" Don't Blame Them: Forgiving Your Dad Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891    Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram...

S9E3: International Love Bombing 13.12.2021

TW: (In DBT) - Sexual Coercion   This week we're sharing advice on:  Having doubts in your relationship Proposing after one month of long distance talking Comparing your therapist's mother-daughter relationship to your own Snitching on children's reckless behavior Don't Blame Them: Sexual coercion Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https...

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