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After discussing Wikifeet and their net worths, Meghan and Melisa then read a write-in update from the person whose boyfriend's friends wrote a slur on his birthday cake. They give advice on: Being good houseguests Having a new relationship with your ex Setting boundaries Boyfriend not driving you to the airport Don't Blame Them: Independence of moving to a new city without a relationship  Buy our...

Meghan and Melisa are back together, in person, celebrating their 10th season of Don't Blame Me! The give advice on: Update: Crushing on your grad school cohort Moving in with your boyfriend but feeling behind your other friends that are in relationships Having a strained relationship with your mother Friend keeps dating creeps Boyfriend's touch is overwhelming Don't Blame Them: Wanting your partn...

Meghan and Melisa have a rousing conversation about Dora The Explorer, Gracie's Corner, Blippi and Freaky Friday before giving advice on Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Being more invested in a friendship than your friend is Boyfriend making excuses for his friends that use homophobic slurs A fuckboy claiming you gave him chlamydia Your 21 year old friend hanging out with a 35 years man Don't Bl...

Update: Sparks in a relationship Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Working on yourself while keeping 2 guys on hold Unblocking and re-following an ex on social media Waiting to get in a fight with your partner Catching your boyfriend googling sex workers Don't Blame Them: FOMO Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us...

Update: Breaking while still on a lease Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Boyfriend refuses to move out of the country Needing a terrible job for graduate school Traveling with a boyfriend that doesn't like flying Breaking up after a long distance relationship Don't Blame Them: Wedding tips Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcast...

We’ve been gone for two weeks, but we’re back and very chatty, so this is a long one.  Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Moving on from a long term relationship How to be an actor Family not dealing with familial issues Don't Blame Them: Dealing with an overbearing “mentor” Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/po...

Original Air Date 11/2/2022 This week we're sharing advice on:    Work woes Choosing between two guys Choosing a therapist Update: Boyfriend cheating in many ways   Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www....

Original Air Date: July 8, 2019 This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant. Check out our Patreon Commu...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Crushing on a coworker FOMO Boyfriend's mother being judgmental Accusations from a former friend Don't Blame Them: Spark in a relationship Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twit...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Overstepping mentor Inconsiderate roommate Chemistry in relationships Helping a friend in a terrible relationship Don't Blame Them: Dealing with nosey parents Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/megha...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Racist/House Stealing/Succubus Cheater Friend constantly canceling plans Warning a client about MLMs Going to a music festival with someone who hates music festivals Shopping Addiction Don't Blame Them: Converting religions for a partner Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/...

Melisa thinks singing should be banned on planes and Meghan wants allergens put on menus. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Stepmom mad that you thank her in an email Houseguest outstaying their welcome Friend getting mad that you like her friend better Boyfriend and his mom not lowering your rent And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discus...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: The Bride Peed on Me Brother-In-Laws's girlfriend doesn't like me Not wanting to work anymore Texts from former Fellowship of Christian Athletes leader Not going to friend's wedding Don't Blame Them: Possible misgendering Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-a...

Meghan is anti random International/National days and Melisa had a homophobic person disinvited to a part. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Classmate making too much noise Mom possibly dating someone while still married to Dad Crying over being single Having your Only Fan's discovered And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss the Labran...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Making a mistake in a relationship Converting to your partner's religion Fear and anxiety from medical trauma Not living up to the bride's expectations Don't Blame Them: Advice for the insecure bottom Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...

TW: SA for writer #4 Melisa thinks Jury Duty needs to be rebranded and Meghan wants people to stop demonizing hormonal birth control. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Best friend dating a Candace Owens supporter Sending a bikini picture to your friend's parents Homophobic uncle Lack of trigger warnings in books And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The We...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Dealing with your controlling parents Developing feeling for someone who just wants a physical relationship Communicating with a friend that has been unresponsive Researching your sister-in-law's counselor Don't Blame Them: Getting over being dumped Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple....

Meghan discusses the sexism in parent vlogs and Melisa hates people sharing her contact information. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Telling your sister-in-law that your wedding is on her birthday Fear of spiders keeping your from a potential relationship Thinking your boyfriend is too close with his sister Being rude to people you are morally against. And in...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Finding a Only Fans statement Getting over someone that love bombed you Spending time with your partner Talking about sex with your friends Don't Blame Them: Not dating in college Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks ww...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Balancing school and social life Not speaking to your aunt again Longing for you ex Breaking up with a partner you live with Don’t Blame Them: Meeting immigrant parents Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Friend lied about getting tested for Covid Sharing drunk videos with boyfriend that does drink Using dating apps as a parent Long distant boyfriend has a friend that's too friendly Partner keeping secrets Don’t Blame Them: Queer people meeting friends on dating apps Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Getting over a terrible break Incompetent co-worker Unprepared for dating in the real world Husband and his mother saying the wrong name Not swallowing Don’t Blame Them: Age gap relationships Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Parting ways with childhood best friend Bamboozled by internet friend Using dating apps to find friends Kicking roommates out Trusting a friend with different political beliefs Don’t Blame Them: Socializing while sober   Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am...

After debating if they'd want to have sex with Jack Harlow, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Trusting your boyfriend after you caught him texting another girl If your mother-in-law doesn't know you're married Approaching age-gap relationships with future kids Boyfriend not sure he wants to try anal sex again Don't Blame Them: Don't date your boss Sexological Body Work: https://www.insider.com/sex...

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on Update: Moving On In A Relationship Support a friend going through a breakup Partner to listening during sex Sobriety in college Learning to ride Don't Blame Them: Problems with your boyfriend staying hard Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id159...