Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

S6E6: My Bestfriend Used Me to Cheat on Her Husband w/ Melisa D. Monts 06.07.2020

Trigger Warning: Negative Body Talk - Call 1   This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend gaining weight Telling your boyfriend's sister you don't have sex Being concerned your boyfriend is overmedicated Bad tasting cum Don't Blame Them: boyfriend playing too many video games   Subscribe to the new Don't Blame Me YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9SMwL3ZgCUsD-yIDU_Zsqg/featur...

S6E5: My Boyfriend’s Ex Threatened to Kill Me w/ Melisa D. Monts 29.06.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Why your conversation went dry Girlfriend smokes and drinks too much Girlfriend getting a culturally-inappropriate tattoo Supporting a friend in a toxic relationship Don't Blame Them: having a senior boyfriend   Never Sleep Alone (Melisa's second newest podcast!): If you've got a question about sex or dating, call Dr. Alex at 646-484-9371 and be part of the NS...

S6E4: My Twin Slept with My Best Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts 22.06.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend talking to a teacher Boyfriend checking in on his ex Boyfriend texting escorts Talking dirty to your husband Update: Coma   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblameme  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa     Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of S...

S6E3: I Look Like Fun w/ Melisa D. Monts 15.06.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Dealing with your racist friend Knowing if a guy is genuine Being stuck in the middle of a fighting family members Wishing your boyfriend would spend more time with you Update from the caller that dated her friend's ex Threads of Black Owned Businesses to Help: https://twitter.com/hopewrlds/status/... https://twitter.com/jadealycebod/stat...   If You're Not an...

S6E2: My Friend’s Girlfriend is Threatened by Me w/ Melisa D. Monts 08.06.2020

DISCLAIMER: This episode is pre-recorded and has no discussion of current events. To our Black listeners: there is no potentially triggering race content in this episode. To our white & non-Black listeners: here is a resource doc made by twitter user @botanicaldyke on countless ways to help the cause https://bit.ly/3doDFXB    Threads of Black Owned Businesses to Help: https://twitter.com/hopewrlds...

S6E1: My Husband Was in a Coma and Thought He Killed His Girlfriend w/ Melisa D. Monts 01.06.2020

Welcome to Season 6! This week we're sharing advice on:    Being pressured to marry so you can financially take care of your boyfriend's family Big man (douche) on campus doesn't want people to know he's dating an underclassman Only fantasizing about exes when you're having sex with your boyfriend Don't Blame Them: Getting involved with your girlfriend's husband Update from the caller who was preg...

S5E26: My Boyfriend Is Ashamed That I’m a Sex Worker w/ Melisa D. Monts 25.05.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Not getting along with your quarantine roommate Hiding a green card marriage Telling your partner you don't want to have kids Boyfriend having pictures of your little sister Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend calling his friend his sister   Audio excerpt courtesy of Simon & Schuster Audio from YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL by Meghan Rienks, read by the author. Copyright © 2020...

S5E25: Hooking Up with a Youtuber w/ Melisa D. Monts 18.05.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Your partner not wanting kids with you Hating your mom's fiance Internalized homophobia Too respectable boyfriend Update: Faking Orgasms   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblameme  https://www.instagram...

S5E24: Dad’s Dating a Girl I Went To High School With w/ Melisa D. Monts 11.05.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Talking too much Dating a celebrity Staying friend with a much older man that befriend you when you were a teen Telling your friend you dated her ex Update from Vicky the Homie Hopper   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/me...

S5E23: Overly Sensitive Button with Melisa D. Monts 04.05.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Someone flirting with your boyfriend Hating your boyfriend's brother's girlfriend Best friends having sex next to you when you were passed out Breaking up with someone Don't Blame Them - Insight on unattractive therapist   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow U...

S5E22: I Want To Date My Girlfriend’s Husband, Too with Melisa D. Monts 27.04.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Adjusting your picker A guy joking about wanting to fuck you then taking it back How to ghost Being forced to eat ass Update from the caller whose boyfriend didn't understand white privilege    Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagra...

S5E21: Boyfriend Has His “Sister’s” Nudes with Melisa D. Monts 20.04.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend complaining about different decorating tastes Having different styles of communication Partner not saying, “I Love You” Missing your ex that you're still cuddling with Update: Caller clarifies that her boyfriend isn't gay   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!...

S5E20: I Think I’m Pregnant with Melisa D. Monts 13.04.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Living with messy roommates Boyfriend doesn't believe in pharmaceuticals Wanting to change your almost boyfriend's physical appearance Being self conscious about your vagina odor   And in Don't Blame Them a caller shares her advice on being called mommy by your boyfriend's kid.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must...

S5E19: My Therapist Is Unattractive with Melisa D. Monts 06.04.2020

  This week we're sharing advice on:    What to do if your friend is mad your hanging out with a guy she use to talk to Boyfriend doesn't want to get married Boyfriend can't stay hard Not having your medical conditions define who you are Update from the gal that got her back blown out from sex   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions...

S5E18: I Don’t Like Saliva with Melisa D. Monts 30.03.2020

This week we're sharing advice on:    Dealing with friends who don't think you like them  Missed dating opportunities How to date without getting too attached Gag reflexes And in Don't Blame Them a listener shares her advice on getting messages about your boyfriend cheating.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be app...

S5E17: Guest: Bekah Martinez - My Boyfriend Chose Me Over His Ex 23.03.2020

Bekah Martinez of, “Chatty Broads,” joins us this week! We're sharing advice on:   If your boyfriend doesn't know how to communicate without flirting Your friend's possessive boyfriend Discussing difference of political views with your partner Being falsely accused of asking for dick pics.   And we have an update from the caller who wanted to break up with her boyfriend but his mom was her boss.  ...

S5E16: Guest: Meghan Tonjes - Got an Anonymous Email About my Fiancé 16.03.2020

Meghan Tonjes is here once more to share advice! This week we're answer your questions on:   Boyfriend doing a favor for his ex Boyfriend liking bikini pictures of other girls How to improve your sex drive Having trouble masturbating   And in Don't Blame Them a listener shares experience about hooking up with a step-sibling.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup...

S5E15: Guest: Joslyn Davis - My Boyfriend’s Son Called Me Mom 09.03.2020

Joslyn Davis is back once again to share advice! This week we're answer your questions on:   Toxic Friendships Commitment Issues Pyramid Schemes Sharing Your Faith With Your Partner   And in Don't Blame Them a listener shares her advice about parents having sex.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Foll...

S5E14: Guest: His D is Dirty with Melisa D. Monts 02.03.2020

This week we're sharing our advice on what to do if: A guy confesses having feelings for you when he's drunk Having sex with your hot husband feels like a chore Women are DM'ing you that your boyfriend is cheating Your husband kept details about his crazy ex away from you.    We also have an update from a caller who's recent boyfriend was coming on too strong.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: ww...

S5E13: Guest: Boze - Should I Be with My Ex, His Best Friend, Or His Nephew? 24.02.2020

Boze joins us this week to share advice! We're sharing advice on what to do if your boyfriend's family doesn't want a relationship with you, how to be friends with someone that dates your leftovers, talking to your boyfriend about sex, and how to break up up with your boyfriend even though his mom is your boss. In Don't Blame Them a listener shares her own advice about your dog being in the room w...

S5E12: He Blew My Back Out with Melisa D. Monts 17.02.2020

This week we're sharing our advice on what do if you hear your mom rubbing one out, handling if your sometimes boyfriend won't post you on social media, if you should take your friend with benefits to a wedding, how not to sleep with your stepbrother, and we have an update from a caller who wasn't sure about her sexuality.    Pre-Order My Book: Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982110104/ref=cm_s...

S5E11: Guest: Mats - Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me With Other People 10.02.2020

My boyfriend Mats is here again for our annual Valentine's Day episode. We're sharing our advice on how to save up for a house, if you should get together with your friends with benefits, if your partner should give you unconditional support, and what to do if your boyfriend wants to try shrooms. We also have an update from a caller that went through a traumatic breakup and needs more advice.   Jo...

S5E10: Guest: Tiffany Del Real - Hooked Up with Friend’s Crush 03.02.2020

Tiffany Del Real is here the weeks to share advice! We're answering your questions on what to do if your friend doesn't invite you to their wedding, finding out why your boyfriend won't let you meet his ex that he's still friends with, being on your friend's no bang list, and leading a guy on. In Don't Blame Them a listener shares her advice on selling feet pics.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group:...

S5E9: Guest: Gina Darling - Boyfriend Had a Threesome 27.01.2020

Gina Darling is here this week to share advice! We're answering your questions on holding on to a penpal, getting past casual relationships, and how to give your boyfriend a handy-j. We have an update from the caller who kept finding the ex's clothes in the closet of the guy she was seeing and in Don't Blame Them someone shares their experience with bringing a vibrator to the bedroom.   Join our P...

S5E8: Guest: Geo Antoinette Kwan - College Boyfriend Won’t Move In With Me 20.01.2020

Geo Antoinette joins us this week to answer your questions. We’re sharing advice on how to overcome religious sex stigma, dodging your boyfriend’s ex who’s super territorial, and finding people to date that don’t have a teacher fetish. We have an Update from the caller who felt weird about her boyfriend watching porn and in Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice about not wanting to be call...

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