Don't Blame Me!

This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend texting his ex Friend accusing you of cheating How to get over your ex Dealing with a boyfriend's girl best friend Don't Blame Them: Boredom in quarantine   If you want to read the call transcriptions, see the bottom of these notes!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblam...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Choosing a last name A friend changing Going through a abrupt break up Your stepdad dating after mom's passing Update: stripper cheating on two men   If you want to read the call transcriptions, see the bottom of these notes!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblamemepod  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa w...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Choosing a career Discerning biphobia Wanting to get married Supporting strangers online Update: boyfriend wants a polyamorous relationship   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblamemepod  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa     Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Making friends Differing hobbies in a relationship Boyfriend won't wear a condom How to tell if a guy is into you Update: boyfriend calling you fat   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblamemepod  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa     Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! Fo...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Getting ghosted by dates Not being ready to move in together Living with your boyfriend's mom Dating with a pelvic floor condition Don't Blame Them: talking with teens about sex   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblamemepod  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa     Listen to a...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Best friend ghosting you Friend backing out of living together Pandemic dating Dating as a demisexual Update: Boyfriend's ex threatened to kill me   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblamemepod  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa     Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Telling dirty stories in bed Having trouble with penetrative sex Boyfriend needing to add a third person to the relationship Dealing with an unstable stepmom Don't Blame Them: boyfriend gaining weight   Never Sleep Alone Call Dr. Alex at 646-484-9371 and be part of the NSA Podcast! https://www.neversleepalone.com/nsa-podcast   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.inst...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Roommate acting like you're a couple Feeling inferior to others Fiance getting someone else pregnant How to navigate two guys at once Update: best friend used me to cheat on her husband   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblamemepod  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa     Lis...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Being asked to be a bridesmaid when you don't want to Saying no Partner identifying as gender-fluid Boyfriend not initiating activities Don't Blame Them: supporting friends in a toxic relationship   Subscribe to the new Don't Blame Me YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9SMwL3ZgCUsD-yIDU_Zsqg/   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanr...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Dating someone whose stepbrother is your uncle Friends not actively supporting Black Lives Matter People thinking you're spoiled Mom wanting to move in Update to a Don't Blame Them: dating a momma's boy   Subscribe to the new Don't Blame Me YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9SMwL3ZgCUsD-yIDU_Zsqg/   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/m...

Trigger Warning: Negative Body Talk - Call 1   This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend gaining weight Telling your boyfriend's sister you don't have sex Being concerned your boyfriend is overmedicated Bad tasting cum Don't Blame Them: boyfriend playing too many video games   Subscribe to the new Don't Blame Me YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9SMwL3ZgCUsD-yIDU_Zsqg/featur...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Why your conversation went dry Girlfriend smokes and drinks too much Girlfriend getting a culturally-inappropriate tattoo Supporting a friend in a toxic relationship Don't Blame Them: having a senior boyfriend   Never Sleep Alone (Melisa's second newest podcast!): If you've got a question about sex or dating, call Dr. Alex at 646-484-9371 and be part of the NS...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend talking to a teacher Boyfriend checking in on his ex Boyfriend texting escorts Talking dirty to your husband Update: Coma   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblameme  https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa     Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of S...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Dealing with your racist friend Knowing if a guy is genuine Being stuck in the middle of a fighting family members Wishing your boyfriend would spend more time with you Update from the caller that dated her friend's ex Threads of Black Owned Businesses to Help: https://twitter.com/hopewrlds/status/... https://twitter.com/jadealycebod/stat...   If You're Not an...

DISCLAIMER: This episode is pre-recorded and has no discussion of current events. To our Black listeners: there is no potentially triggering race content in this episode. To our white & non-Black listeners: here is a resource doc made by twitter user @botanicaldyke on countless ways to help the cause https://bit.ly/3doDFXB    Threads of Black Owned Businesses to Help: https://twitter.com/hopewrlds...

Welcome to Season 6! This week we're sharing advice on:    Being pressured to marry so you can financially take care of your boyfriend's family Big man (douche) on campus doesn't want people to know he's dating an underclassman Only fantasizing about exes when you're having sex with your boyfriend Don't Blame Them: Getting involved with your girlfriend's husband Update from the caller who was preg...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Not getting along with your quarantine roommate Hiding a green card marriage Telling your partner you don't want to have kids Boyfriend having pictures of your little sister Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend calling his friend his sister   Audio excerpt courtesy of Simon & Schuster Audio from YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL by Meghan Rienks, read by the author. Copyright © 2020...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Your partner not wanting kids with you Hating your mom's fiance Internalized homophobia Too respectable boyfriend Update: Faking Orgasms   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  @dontblameme  https://www.instagram...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Talking too much Dating a celebrity Staying friend with a much older man that befriend you when you were a teen Telling your friend you dated her ex Update from Vicky the Homie Hopper   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/me...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Someone flirting with your boyfriend Hating your boyfriend's brother's girlfriend Best friends having sex next to you when you were passed out Breaking up with someone Don't Blame Them - Insight on unattractive therapist   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow U...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Adjusting your picker A guy joking about wanting to fuck you then taking it back How to ghost Being forced to eat ass Update from the caller whose boyfriend didn't understand white privilege    Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!   Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagra...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Boyfriend complaining about different decorating tastes Having different styles of communication Partner not saying, “I Love You” Missing your ex that you're still cuddling with Update: Caller clarifies that her boyfriend isn't gay   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be approved!...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Living with messy roommates Boyfriend doesn't believe in pharmaceuticals Wanting to change your almost boyfriend's physical appearance Being self conscious about your vagina odor   And in Don't Blame Them a caller shares her advice on being called mommy by your boyfriend's kid.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must...

  This week we're sharing advice on:    What to do if your friend is mad your hanging out with a guy she use to talk to Boyfriend doesn't want to get married Boyfriend can't stay hard Not having your medical conditions define who you are Update from the gal that got her back blown out from sex   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions...

This week we're sharing advice on:    Dealing with friends who don't think you like them  Missed dating opportunities How to date without getting too attached Gag reflexes And in Don't Blame Them a listener shares her advice on getting messages about your boyfriend cheating.   Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup  You must answer all questions correctly to be app...