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This ep is PACKED with so much content. How to identify an energy vampire (and if this is YOU) How it affects you, and the steps to take so you can put some boundaries in place and teach people how to treat you. Let's go! (no brain fact today, there was just too much to get through, but I do answer some of your questions)  Join the  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DYFM Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Group  Follow ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@d...

On this episode I have the perfect guest to discuss money mindset, social psychology around money and how to live your rich life. Ramit Sethi, author of "I will teach you to be rich" shares some golden pieces of information and answers some of your questions when it comes to saving, spending, investing and how to change your money mindset.  Join the  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DYFM Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Group  Fol...

On this DYFM Head Noise episode, I answer your stories! How to deal with your best friends boyfriend who you cannot stand? How to welcome love when you feel like you have it all? How to deal with energy vampire friends?  I give some hard truths and (very) tough love so you can change your situation and not let people affect you so much.  Join the  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DYFM Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Group  Follow...

This is one of my most requested topics! It is something that so many people want advice on or struggle with so let's dive DEEP into this topic. Heaps of hot take aways in this ep so keep your wits about you and grab a pen and paper its gonna be INTENSE.  Join the  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DYFM Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Group  Follow ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@doyoufkingmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠on IG   Follow ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@dyfmpodcast⁠⁠ ⁠⁠...

What to do when you feel inadequate or that you are falling short at work? Even if you are confident in every other area of your life. Work anxiety gets to so many people so lets talk about how we can begin to dismantle these thoughts and start really feeling confident and more comfortable at work.  Brain fact: the role of GABA in Anxiety and mood disorders and how a lack of GABA is linked with an...

Today is a Head Noise episode! Which means I will be answering some of your questions today. I have tried to keep it primarily to conflict resolution and knowing when to protect yourself and your space instead of constantly putting others before you (especially those who would not return the favor).  Good times and Dankeeeee Join the  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DYFM Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Group  Follow ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Bonjour my beans!  On this episode we go over five things to truely accept and welcome into your life so you can be happier, more in control of your decisions, feel more confident in your choices and also be more care free. I want you to write these down, have them by your bed and read them every single morning so they become solidified into your awareness.  Brain / Science fact : MSG what is it a...

This episode is for anyone experiencing that feeling of 'Bed ROT' - where all you want to do is lay in bed (or the couch) for HOURS on end, scrolling on your devices and having no drive or motivation to do anything else. How to know what is happening here and how to TURN IT AROUND.  Brain Fact : Why smell is the strongest trigger for emotions and memories of all the senses.  Life update - MEEEE in...

This episode is an encore of one of my favourite episodes of all time, where I dive deep into the minutiae of memory, how false memories are formed, how we can implant memories and how memories can be manipulated, and how you can improve your own memory. In this episode I’ll discuss how memories form, how consolidation happens, the difference between short term and long term memory, what happens t...

BEANS I’m currently on vacation in Europe, so we're diving into the back catalogue to revisit one of my favourite episodes all about self-confidence and self-assurance. It's a topic that I get asked a lot about a lot, and I think it's important to touch on this topic. And I think that self-assurance is something that needs to be worked on all the time just like a muscle, just like your health. So,...

A difficult in-law relationship can really make your life haaard. It puts pressure on your romantic relationship, strain on your mental health and can make your home life more stressed. I go through some questions asked by you about your in-law relationships and give my advice on how best to manage those tricky dynamics and keep your sanity. LINKS Listen to Episode 247. Narcissistic parents and in...

Do you want to have a child at this point in your life, or do you want to wait? Do you yearn for a relationship or are you feeling stuck? Have you considered moving countries, quitting your job or doing a completely new degree to change the trajectory of your life? If you're struggling to make a decision that you feel is right for you, this episode will help you get the confidence to make those to...

How do you stop caring about what people think of you? How can you let go of the things that keep you from living the life you want? This question is so crippling for so many of us, but there IS a simple solution. In this episode we’ll learn how to deal with these feelings in a way that don't consume you and stop you from going on with your life. Plus I'll give you my 7 steps to overcome falling i...

My brand-new audiobook HOW TO CHASE CHANGE is the ultimate guide to shifting your mindset to become your best self. This 30-day program covers everything from turning aspirational goals into action and increasing self-confidence to overcoming heartbreak, eliminating negative self-talk, and so much more. LINKS Pre-order my audiobook ‘ How to Chase Change ’, on sale September 10th https://bit.ly/44x...

Do you let the outside world take control of your happiness? Does it feel like you’re always at the mercy of what’s happening outside your control? In this episode we’ll find out how to become more intentional and less passive when it comes to creating your own Happiness. BRAIN FACT: HIIT – High Intensity Interval Training, cortisol and over-training syndrome. Read about Overtraining Syndrome here...

Beans I'm taking a much-needed long weekend so I thought it was a perfect time to bring up one of my most listened to episodes. It's a perfect place to start if you're new to the pod and a great reset if you're a long-time bean. I'm diving into discipline, and how reframing how you view it could be the ticket to a more free and enjoyable life. LINKS Listen to Ep Being Better: Do These 4 Things for...

First up I’m going through your ICKS – you loved when I did it in episode 322 so thought I’d pick more of your hilarious icks to read out. And then I get into Head Noise where I answer your questions – this week it’s all about heartbreak in long term relationships. How do you handle a relationship when your mind is telling you to run but your heart says otherwise? Me and my boyfriend are in our 20...

So you’ve been dumped, or maybe you dumped someone. You’re scrolling through social media, or maybe a well meaning friend mentions, that your ex has moved on. Cue the SPIRAL. “How Could They?!”Already?!!!” “Did our time together mean NOTHING?” I’m giving you ten steps to keep yourself in check when your ex moves on before you including how to not let it derail you, keep your perspective, and quit...

In the last Head Noise episode you guys LOVED the lies exes told so I’m bringing I back for an even more cooked part 2! And then I get into Head Noise where I answer your questions. I'm 24, forever single, thriving and upset with men. ‘ve been single my whole life and honestly thrive. But I’m curious about what its’ like in a partnership and am open to a boyfriend but very rarely do I get genuinel...

New York Times best-selling author and international life and dating coach megastar Matthew Hussey joins the podcast! We're diving deep into his advice on dating, owning who you are, being comfortable with what you want, and his brand new book Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person and Live Happily (No Matter What) . I DARE you to leave this episode not feeling like a changed bea...

First I have a life update about something TRULY shocking that happened to me over the weekend, and I go through your stories of things men have lied to you about! Then I get into Head Noise where I answer your questions. In today’s episode we’ve got two really opposite topics! My husband and I are in out mid 20s and have been together since our late 20s. His family are very close with him. I have...

What exactly is Trauma bonding? What if I told you that bonding with someone else over a traumatic event isn’t actually trauma bonding – it’s something else entirely! It’s about a relationship with someone who is traumatising and abusing you. I’m going to take you through what a trauma bond is, how to spot it, the 7 stages of trauma bonding, and how to know when (and how) to get out of a trauma bo...

It's Headnoise my beans and that means it’s time for me to answer your questions. I'm answering four of your questions this week ranging from an imbalance in sexual relationships in a partnership to trying to overcome the terrible relationship model parents set for one listener from childhood til now. AND if you want me to answer your question just email me at info@dyfmpod.com    My current partne...

How do you know when something isn’t right for you? Sometimes we get caught up in the idea that hard work or working really hard for something will always bring it out in the best in us, but sometimes it’s just not worth it. In this episode we’re going to find out how to identify that and how to stop chasing after things that are not meant for you. We’ll also find out what you can do instead to st...

It's Headnoise my beans and that means it’s time for me to answer your questions. Here’s what I’m tackling this week. AND if you want me to answer your question just email me at info@dyfmpod.com    I’ve had the same partner for a few years and we’re two women in our 20s. We’ve had a few bumps in the road as most relationships do, and without sounding like a douche a fair few have them have been he...