T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg
Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years! Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it! We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do! @exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)
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Jan 12, 2026
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The Most Frequently Asked Questions About Retirement Savings After Divorce | S1, Ep. 43 09.11.2021 20:29
Saving for retirement when you're divorced - or getting divorced - looks different. You may be starting over and you need to know all the options for retirement accounts, plus the right way to get started so you have what you need when you need it. We get all the answers from financial expert Tracy Byrnes.
Why Men Need Divorce Support, Too | S1, Ep.42 04.11.2021 27:47
The man’s view of divorce and how to handle it isn’t always what we think. Stereotypes lead us to think men don’t want to talk about it, but that’s not the case. Karen McMahon of Journey Beyond Divorce shares the real story from the male perspective.
What Men Really Think About Divorce and Getting Through It | S1, Ep. 41 02.11.2021 48:50
Listen firsthand to men talk about how they really feel about divorce, the stigmas they face and how they try and get through the process. Turns out, men are lonelier than you might think, and some of their insights will surprise you! (Guests: John Nachlinger of Divorce Shield and James Bastian.)
Helping Kids Transition Through Divorce | S1, Ep. 40 27.10.2021 23:21
Changing environments can be tough for any kid, but making transitions from one parent to the other during divorce is especially challenging. Co-Parenting Coach, Jen Gallagher, gives some great tips on helping children transition in co-parenting divorce situations. (Guest: Jennifer Gallagher, Single Parent Solutions)
Setting Up the New Home for Divorced Dads (and Moms!) | S1, Ep. 39 26.10.2021 25:27
Divorced dads often have a harder time setting up and settling into a new home after divorce. Design firm Stripe Street Studio focuses on making this a smooth transition for both divorced parents and kids. (Guest: Stacey Herman, Stripe Street Studio)
To Litigate or Not to Litigate Your Divorce (Part 1). | S1, Ep. 37 21.10.2021 23:49
Going to court is not always necessary in divorce today, but it does happen when couples cannot agree on how to settle. It may be the traditional idea of divorce, but nowadays it is always more expensive and usually not worth it. Hear all the reasons why you don't want to litigate! (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)
To Litigate or Not to Litigate Your Divorce (Part 2). | S1, Ep. 38 21.10.2021 40:25
Divorce litigation happens when couples are too caught up in their emotions or blame to be able to find a way to settle. But the revenge of litigating will cost you more than just money...and is usually not worth it. (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)
Telltale Signs of an Abusive Marriage and How to Get Out | S1, Ep. 36 11.10.2021 13:37
Knowing the initial signs of domestic abusive are critical in order to get out and begin the healing process. The pandemic enabled more cases of domestic abuse due to the isolation for so many people, but there are many ways to identify the situation and to get much needed help. (Guest: Mira Vanjari, Center for Hope and Safety)
How to Get Help in an Abusive Marriage | S1, Ep. 35 11.10.2021 24:27
Making the first move to ask for help in an abusive marriage is never easy, but it's critical. Especially if there are children at home, because the effects can have a major impact on them. There are so many ways to get help, and we go through the steps. Guest: Kate Miller, Center for Hope and Safety)
What an Abusive Marriage Can Look Like | S1, Ep. 34 11.10.2021 26:12
Abuse can show itself in many ways in a marriage - it's not always physical and doesn't always show obvious scars. You or someone you know may be in an abusive marriage without realizing it. Hear some of the forms and the telltale signs, as well as how to get help. (Guest: Julye Minor, Center for Hope and Safety)
The F Word | S1, Ep. 33 07.10.2021 19:18
Going through a divorce requires a mindset of forgiveness - for yourself. Hear from bestselling author, Barry Selby (aka The Love Doctor), how the "F word" (Forgiveness) can help you with your emotional progress and how to move forward. (Guest: Barry Selby, Author "50 Ways to Love Your Lover")
The Biggest and Most Common Mistakes in Online Dating Profiles | S1, Ep. 31 30.09.2021 31:29
Summary: Online dating isn't always easy, but avoiding the most common mistakes can help you stand out in your dating profile. Hear the biggest mistakes and what you should be doing instead. (Alyssa Dineen, Style My Profile)
Custody and Parenting Rights You Need to Know | S1, Ep. 30 24.09.2021 25:56
For anyone divorcing with kids, custody and parenting are the most important topics. There are so many considerations and it's important to try and make this aspect as painless as possible, especially for the children. This episode tells you what you need to know. (Guest: Sara Corcoran, divorce attorney)
Banana Splits Offers Awesome Support for Kids Dealing with Divorce | S1, Ep. 29 21.09.2021 20:10
Do your kids open up to you about how they're coping with your divorce? It can be a struggle for all parents, but there may be support at school that you aren't aware of. The awesome program Banana Splits has kids helping each other! Dr. Valerie Raymond tells us all about it.
How Collaborative Divorce Works and Why You Want It | S1, Ep. 28 16.09.2021 22:55
There are so many options for divorce these days, how do you know which kind to choose? Collaborative divorce is becoming more common, and we go through exactly what it is and why it just may be your best choice. (Guest: Andrea Vacca, Collaborative Divorce Lawyer & Mediator)
Having an Employability Expert in Your Divorce | S1, Ep. 26 02.09.2021 28:22
Is your spouse insisting on an employability expert in your divorce? It may not be as bad as you think. We break down exactly what they do, and the pros and cons - and spoiler alert, they may help more than you'd expect. (Guest Rona Wexler, Employability Expert)
Re-entering the Workforce After Divorce | S1, Ep. 25 30.08.2021 26:26
Get the best insider tips on how to get back to business (quite literally) after a divorce. Whether you're coming out of a work hiatus or trying to land your first ever job, it’s important to know how to present yourself to employers in today's day and age. (Jen Barkon, SVP, Human Resources)
The Top Financial Apps To Use Post-Divorce (FinTech Today, Julie Verhage) | S1, Ep. 24 24.08.2021 21:20
In this episode, we help you break down the best and easiest financial apps that will help you with your financial life after divorce. From keeping track of your spending to watching your retirement to an online financial advisor, we've got the list you need now. (Guest: Julie VerHage-Greenberg, Fintech Today)
Lindsey Metselaar (We Met at Acme) Answers Our Dating Questions | S1, Ep. 23 19.08.2021 50:34
Getting back in the dating game can be scary - what are the "rules" today and how have things changed since you were single? Listen to the dating tips and advice from one of today's premier experts! (Lindsey Metselaar, "We Met at ACME")
Kate Anthony (Divorce Survival Guide) Explains Why to Hire a Divorce Coach | S1, Ep. 22 12.08.2021 42:41
Want to know how to avoid some of the most common mistakes when preparing for divorce? Hear why hiring a divorce coach can be the best decision you make. (with Kate Anthony, Divorce Survival Guide)
Rising Up After Divorce with Carmindy | S1, Ep. 21 05.08.2021 44:55
Celebrity beauty mogul Carmindy ( What Not to Wear) shares the real inside story of her marriage and divorce, details and all, along with how she lost everything and then rose back to the top of her industry.
How the Hell Can I Improve My Credit Score Post Divorce? | S1, Ep. 19 22.07.2021 17:32
Credit scores aren't sexy, but they can prevent you from moving forward with your new life after divorce. Find out how and why you can have the best credit score possible, so it doesn't hold you back! With Julie VerHage Greenberg, Co-Founder FinTech Today
How to Handle High-Conflict Divorce and Child Custody | S1, Ep. 18 15.07.2021 23:47
What are the telltale signs of a high-conflict custody divorce case? And what are some ways you can actually try to avoid it? Listen to how you can handle your own situation with as little conflict as possible, for both you and your kids. With Elysa Greenblatt of Greenblatt Law.
Self-Care Tips, Don't Lose Yourself During Your Divorce | S1, Ep. 17 08.07.2021 23:18
How you handle, process and model behavior to your children all have huge impacts during and after divorce. This is the information you may not want to hear, but you have to! With Barry Selby, Relationship Expert and Bestselling Author.
How do I find my style after divorce? With Wardrobe Stylist Ari Rosmarin | S1, Ep. 16 01.07.2021 27:56
Figuring out how you want to look and present yourself after divorce can be a huge decision! Especially if you've fallen into a style rut that you don't feel represents who you are anymore. Hear about one of the easiest ways to get your style back with Wardrobe Stylist Ari Rosmarin.
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