T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg

Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

Society EN ↓ 239 episodes

T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years! Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it! We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do! @exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)

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T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg

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Society

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www.exexperts.com

Latest episode

Jan 12, 2026

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Episodes

How to Stop Getting Triggered | S1, Ep. 15 24.06.2021

It's all those little things that piss us off, right? Those triggers can make or break your day, but here's how you can spot them and deal with them head on. (Guest: Jennifer Gallagher, Parenting Coach)

Should You Get a Forensic Accountant? | S1, Ep. 14 17.06.2021

It might sound scary, but using a forensic accountant in your divorce may be the best decision you make. They help trace the money so you get what's rightfully yours. (Guest: Michael Gould, CPA)

Mastering Co-Parenting Communication (During Covid) | S1, Ep. 13 10.06.2021

Not seeing eye-to-eye on how to handle COVID can certainly be more challenging if you're trying to co-parent while disagreeing on whether or not to be masking, vaccinating, social distancing and everything else. How to handle it all and not lose it? (Guest Jennifer Graf, LCSW)

Why You Must Have a Trust & Estate Plan Post Divorce with Laura Cowan | S1, Ep. 12 03.06.2021

Everyone needs trust and estate planning when getting divorced - even you! It's not about how much money you have, but protecting what you do have so it goes to the people you want, and not your ex. We've got all the do's and don'ts. (Guest: Laura Cowan)

Who Owns the Dog (or Pet) in Divorce? | S1, Ep. 11 27.05.2021

In this episode we find out the shocking truth about how courts rule on issues with pets. You have to arm yourself with clear guidelines and create a pet custody agreement. Hear how you can protect yourself, and your pet! (Guest: Sara Corcoran)

A Divorce Guide to Financial Independence | S1, Ep. 10 20.05.2021

In this episode, we talk all about how to learn your finances so anyone concerned about whether or not they can afford to leave an unhappy marriage will learn they can, and be better prepared. What do you need to have, to save, to invest? Hear what to focus on first, and how to manage your money when you're the one calling the shots. (Guest: Stacy Francis)

Zoom Divorce - Remote Divorce Pros and Cons | S1, Ep. 9 14.05.2021

In this episode, we talk about how Zoom divorce is a real thing! In today's age, this is a big change, and divorce lawyer Lisa Zeiderman tells us it can actually be a good thing.

Dating After Divorce (And During Covid) with Susan Winter | S1, Ep. 7 08.05.2021

In this episode, Jessica and T.H. start off with a Random Share about FitBit and connecting with community through challenges. Then they talk to internationally renowned relationship expert, Susan Winter, all about dating during the pandemic. Are people out there dating? How can you meet people, and what do pandemic dates look like? Also, how are people talking about and handling hooking up a...

Empowering Women - Creating Your Girl Gang with Tara Gilvar from B.I.G. | S1, Ep. 6 10.02.2021

In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk to Tara Gilvar, founder of B.I.G. (Believe Inspire Grow) all about the importance of female empowerment, particularly during challenging times like divorce. Tara offers inspiring tips about how she created an international women's organization focused on supporting women everywhere, and how crucial it is to have the right kind of girl gang friends around you,...

How to Talk to Kids About Divorce with Psychologist Maci DeCarlo | S1, Ep. 5 10.02.2021

In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk to licensed psychologist Maci DeCarlo, who is also a child of divorce. Maci's own experience impacted her life and motivated her to work as a school psychologist to help other kids. Maci offers practical advice and tips on what parents can do in order to speak to their kids about the divorce process, things to say and what not to say and how to help validate...

What Your Divorce Lawyer Doesn't Want You to Know with Gabriella Formosa | S1, Ep. 4 10.02.2021

In this episode, divorce lawyer and mediator Gabriella Formosa, from Greenblatt Law LLC, tells Jessica and T.H. all the things your divorce lawyer doesn't want you to know! From initial consultation to billing tips and more, the exEXPERTS helps you get down to the nitty gritty to save you time, money and aggravation when choosing who will represent you through this major process in your life.

Purging, Piling & Passing It On - Tips and Tricks to Remove Clutter at Home | Season 1, Ep. 3 10.02.2021

In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk to organizational experts Nicole Naidrich and Lauren Tutundgy of NeatFreaks Home, to learn the easiest ways to declutter your home when starting fresh after a divorce. Whether consigning designer clothing or donating items to charity, the NeatFreaks girls offer three super simple tips that will prevent the process from becoming overwhelming.

How to Create a Budget & Pay for Your Divorce | Season 1, Ep. 2 10.02.2021

In this episode of the exEXPERTS Podcast, Jessica 7 T.H. talk to Tracy Byrnes, former Fox Business News TV anchor and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst about how to create a budget for divorce. This is an essential step in your divorce process, and Tracy shares tips and tricks, as well as a downloadable checklist to help you make it as easy as possible. Some apps Tracy says are great resources a...

JUST US: How & Why We Got Divorced at the Same Time | Season 1, Ep. 1 27.01.2021

In this introductory episode, Jessica and T.H., best friends for 25 years, briefly tell their stories about how and why they ended up getting divorced at the exact same time 12 years ago. Those fateful days were the beginnings of new stages for each of them, and the whole reason exEXPERTS began. We've lived it, so we get it. Now exEXPERTS is the ultimate resource for everything divorce, all in one...

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