Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

Once you get divorced, do you have to identify as divorced for the rest of your life? When are you just single or not married - just YOU? Why does every form you fill out anywhere you go ask if you're divorced? What if your divorce was years ago? We have to shift into the mindset that we are who we are, and that being divorced is not the only thing that defines us. This is the poignant fact that e...

It's so common to think you don't want to get re-marry after being divorced - the idea of another marriage not working out  can be overwhelming. But if you are open to the idea of marriage after divorce, figuring out who the right person is can be really scary, not to mention incredibly frustrating. This episode is an inside look at the author's story behind the best-selling book Becoming Mrs...

After 30+ years as a divorce lawyer - and having been divorced herself - acclaimed attorney Susan Guthrie saw there was a better way to get divorced, rather than going through the old-school litigation process. She admits she fell into all the traps that everyone does, even though she had been telling clients for years what to do and what not to do! This eye-opening episode pulls back the curtain...

Divorce can bring on a lot of parent guilt, and we can relate. Abby King decided to take that guilt and write an open letter of apology to her children, which quickly went viral. The resulting outreach ultimately led her to use her personal divorce experience to become a divorce coach and help others going through the process. Hear her amazing story and why we all need to accept that we're doing t...

Have you ever thought about working with a matchmaker to meet your perfect partner? The idea may seem old-school, but modern day matchmakers can set you up successfully, and often help you hone in on what you should be focused on when finding the right person. In this episode, Julianne Cantarella gives the honest truth about what to expect (or not) from a matchmaker, the myths and how to manage yo...

It takes two to make a marriage work or not...it's just not always easy to recognize and understand what role we play in the demise of a relationship. But some of the reasons your marriage may not work could also be reasons why other relationships in your life could be strained - with family, friends or even colleagues. In this episode, Strengths Coach Dan Schaal breaks through the barriers of kno...

Tax season can get much trickier once you get divorced, so you have to make sure you know exactly how to file and what rules to follow, plus why you really need an accountant. There are choices to make as to how you file, especially if you're separated but not yet divorced, in addition to who gets to take exemptions for the children, the mortgage on your marital home and more. This episode is all...

Getting in shape after divorce is a common goal, and Jessica found an amazing program that actually produces results AND is actually another woman's post-divorce success story! Kristie Barker founded Girl Hustle after her ex told her she wouldn't be able to make a living without him. Kristie developed her core program and it's been so successful, she's now created several more programs, as well as...

Resumes today aren't what they used to be, and what employers want has also changed over time, partially due to the pandemic. So whether you're hoping to find a new job post-divorce, or you're going to be looking for the first time in a long time, it's important to be on your A-game! Human Resources expert, Jenifer Barkon, spells out exactly what those in her position (as Chief Talent Officer) are...

Thinking you want to find a new partner, and that if they have kids you will blend your families and live happily ever after? Well, after hearing relationship expert Jen Hurvitz's perspective, you may want to think again! It certainly seemed easy on The Brady Bunch , but Jen feels strongly that blending families is not a good idea, and will ultimately ruin the relationship. It's an unconventional...

There's no doubt that finances are one of the top concerns when going through a divorce, and often it's the biggest one. But if you have someone on your team that can help simplify what it all means, it may not be as scary or cause as much fear as you think. In this episode, you'll hear from the founders of the women-owned business, My Divorce Solution, on how they break down the details of your s...

Margaret Josephs has been entertaining us for years on The Real Housewives of New Jersey , and now you'll hear her firsthand as she opens up about absolutely everything - her first marriage, her affair, her divorce and how she's thrived moving on. Margaret is refreshingly honest and open as she talks about how she's handled the judgement from others and why in the end, her choices are no one else'...

It's enthralling to read the dirt about high profile celebrities and their divorce drama, but are there any similarities between theirs and "ours"? You may not think you have much in common with Brad and Angelina or Kim and Kanye, but one of their lawyers gives us the scoop on how most of his clients actually handle things in a way that could benefit you, too! (Guest: Chris Melcher, Celebrity Divo...

Writing a dating profile isn't easy. What do you write to stand out? To sound funny? Not boring? Which pictures should you use? There are a zillion ways you can approach the process, but we've found the best way to write a dating profile that shows who you are in a fun way, so that you stand out from the crowd. In this episode learn about the MAD Libs system that author and dating expert Alyssa Di...

There's no question that having parents who divorced can affect a person's outlook on both marriage and divorce. But exactly how that impact is felt and what people do with those experiences can vary widely. Michelle Dempsey is a renowned Certified Divorce Specialist and author, and she shares her personal story or both her parents' divorce as well as her own, and how those experiences shaped her...

First dates can be nerve-wracking no matter what, but even more so after going through a divorce. When you've been in a marriage, stepping out with someone new can bring up a lot of emotions, not to mention concerns about what you even still remember about dating, flirting and beyond. One upside is that everyone is a little nervous on a first date, so you're not alone. But if you feel like you cou...

The dating world has certainly changed over the years, and even more so since the pandemic began. So many people are concerned about Covid, but seem to be neglecting some of the questions that used to be the priority. You know the ones, the really uncomfortable ones about how many current sexual partners they have, when they were last tested for STD's and more. Renowned relationship expert Susan W...

We know that dating post-divorce can be a drag and it's easy to get discouraged. But while you may be on the market to meet your new special someone, you may actually be focusing on all the wrong things! In this episode, you'll hear about the things that should be at the top of your list, versus the characteristics that you think may make someone the ideal partner. And spoiler alert - what you hea...

We know how hard it can be to start dating after divorce, but it's ten times as terrifying to start having sex again! Whether you your marriage lasted a year or 30 years, you probably got used to how your partner liked things in bed, but here's the cold, hard truth - not everyone likes it that way! Learning what a new partner likes can be nerve-wracking, and Sex Doc Carli emphasizes that the most...

The pandemic has created some unexpected situations, particularly where people are living. Many families relocated for what was supposed to be a temporary time, but ended up staying because they now work remotely. So what if you're the parent that was "left behind" and can't see your kids per your custody schedule? Or what if you're the parent that relocated and now you want to stay far from the o...

The author of the bestselling book "Eat, Pray #FML" Gabrielle Stone has one of those divorce stories that could (and maybe should!) be a movie - love, heartbreak, betrayal, laughter and finding herself on the other side in a much better place. She recounts her amazing journey in her book, which we highly recommend reading, and she gives T.H. and Jess the firsthand account that we can all relate to...

Divorce comes with its fair share of mistakes, but they're not the same by men and women. "Divorce Shield" host John Nachlinger and "Divorce Happy Hour" host Christina Previte - both divorce attorneys, give us the lowdown on the most common mistakes made by women versus men, so you know what you may be facing and how to work through them. (Guests: John Nachlinger & Christina Previte, divorce a...

Are you equipped to fix things around the house on your own after divorce? Let's face it, men are often the ones that deal with home repairs, which means many women find themselves in a bind when they're living on their own post divorce. Toolbox Divas founder Timisha started her business after a breakup, and has made it her mission to help women learn the essential basics so they aren't helpless a...

The goal in every divorce is to find yourself "Happy Even After", and Renee Bauer is both an exEXPERT as a divorce lawyer, as well as a REAL LIFE expert, having been divorced twice herself. Renee Bauer talks candidly about her own experiences, which include her own feelings of shame and why she didn't used to reveal her own situation to her clients. Hear firsthand about going through divorce as a...

Now that the holidays are over, how are you doing? So much focus is on how to get through the holidays while divorced, but not many people talk about what comes next. Coming down from the holiday high and lows can be challenging if you're divorced, but in this episode we bring back the Divorce Doctor for some really impactful advice and tips on how to get your year started in the best way possible...