Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Are you contemplating divorce? Do you feel unsettled and can't quite answer the question, "What do I really want?"    Today's episode is a special one. Rhonda is joined by Certified Energy & Performance Coach, Nicole Isler as they honor and remember a mutual client who lived out her next best move to the fullest. You'll be encouraged and inspired as you hear the story of how she worked through her...

"Don't be afraid to be your own advocate." Attorney Brian Blitz and Rhonda have an eye opening conversation about the divorce process, how it affects women, and ways to get the support you need. Spoiler: it takes a team; one that will provide the strategy you need to come out ahead.  About today's guest:    Brian says:   You do better for people when you do better with people. That's not only my a...

Rhonda's guest today is AJ Grossman, owner of Leap Frog Divorce.  AJ is a master at navigating tough conversations in divorce.   How do you respond? Is a response required? How to engage in a difficult conversation with a learning mindset.   Establishing good boundaries Neutralize the emotion Determine how to protect yourself if a civil conversation isn't possible.  Breathe! You'll be ok   WEBSITE...

Rhonda's guest today is Paulette Rigo from Better Divorce Academy. If you are contemplating divorce or in the midst of going through it, it's important to stay educated! Finding the right experts to walk with you in the process is instrumental to the success of the outcome.   About today's guest:   As a Credentialed Mediator, Certified Divorce Coach and Director of Divorce Coaching and Management...

Britt Baker, Dow Janes co-founder and money mindset coach, sits down with Rhonda to delve into the mindset of money. Who do you want to be with your money?  How do you go about rewriting your story? If you're feeling discouraged, you aren't alone - and this episode will give you the tools you need to make some real changes.   Learn what a weekly money ritual is and how it's actually self-care! Che...

Today's episode tackles the difficult subject of Coercive Control and the various ways your spouse could be controlling you. Rhonda and Lisa discuss some trends and offer suggestions on how to set boundaries and fight back.  About today's guest:    Lisa Fontes, PhD, is an internationally known expert on child abuse, intimate partner abuse, and sexual violence. As a researcher, activist, expert wit...

Have you ever felt like something is "off" in regard to your spouse and your finances? The warning sides of fraud could be right in front of you. Tracy and Rhonda discuss the red flags to look out for and how to trust your gut. Be sure to connect with Tracy and access her Divorce Money Guide!   About today's guest:   Tracy Coenen is a Forensic Accountant  with Sequence Inc. Forensic Accounting   T...

Rhonda sits down with Philip Segal to discuss the role of an investigator as you go through the divorce process. Learn how to ask the right questions, surround yourself with the right people and uncover things that can help you at settlement time. You may know more than you think you know!   About today's guest: Philip Segal is a Managing Member with Charles Griffin Intelligence.    Philip has bee...

Rhonda sits down with Christian speaker and author, Laura Sandretti to discuss all the ways women stay stuck in guilt and shame by the way they talk to themselves. It is possible to reprogram your mind to break free from what is holding you back.  Pay attention to how you talk to yourself and work to change the conversation going on in your own head. Most importantly, give yourself grace.    About...

Are you re-entering the job market - or wanting to uplevel your current position? Rhonda and Career Coach Nikki Ryberg talk about ways to maximize this current climate. Nikki offers suggestions on ways to get creative as you transition, and shares her advice on how to land the job you really want. Be sure to check out Nikki's website below to access her free course. About today's guest:   After 15...

Rhonda and Cheree talk openly about life as a busy Mom - whether you're running your own business, or just managing your household, you CAN find balance. The key is to shift your perspective, know yourself, and take some time to think about what you value most. If you're feeling stressed and overwhelmed, (and who isn't these days?) this episode will offer practical tips to make some changes.    Ab...

Today's conversation is a first for us! Rhonda and Attorney Robert Taylor sit down to discuss what divorce looks like if you or your spouse serves in the military. Finding an attorney who specializes in this area is key as you navigate the rules and regulations of being a military couple. They tackle the topics:   Where should you get divorced? Housing and retirement Benefits   If you are in the m...

Rhonda's guest today is Christine Cocchiola, Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher, & Survivor.   Rhonda and Christine tackle the difficult topic of Coercive Control - what it is, and how it affects you and your children. There are many forms of abuse, including in your finances. Christine offers practical tactics and strategies to keep you safe and supported.    About today's guest:   ...

Are you wondering if mediation is right for you? Rhonda and Alison discuss the questions to ask yourself, your spouse, and your potential mediator before moving forward.    Mediation can be a great option but it's important to know how the process works to know if it's right for you and your family.  About today's guest:   Family means everything to Alison, which is why she has dedicated herself t...

Rhonda sits down with Family Recovery Coach Lisa Smith to discuss how addiction affects the entire family. Lisa offers some practical ways to establish your own personal values and set healthy boundaries. Start by asking yourself, "What do I need right now?"   About today's guest: Lisa Smith is a Certified Family Recovery Coach & Educator. She has lived  experience with addiction in her own family...

Marriage and family therapist Gilza Fort Martinez talks with Rhonda about leaning into the uncertainty of separation and divorce. They address how to ground your emotions and begin to dream of possibilities for yourself. Divorce can be an opportunity to rebuild your life when you have the right people by your side.   About today's guest:   Gilza Fort Martinez is a licensed marriage and family ther...

Family Law Attorney, author, and speaker Ashley-Nicole Russell is our guest today! Ashley-Nicole and Rhonda do a deep dive on collaborative divorce - what it is, and how it compares to other available options. This is a raw and honest look into a broken system and why choosing collaboration might be the right answer for you.   If you're contemplating divorce, do not miss this conversation! About t...

Rhonda and Attorney Tina Roddenbery discuss the new trend of "gray divorce" and how divorcing later in life presents unique challenges. They look at 5 key areas to consider as you move through the process. If this is you, listen in and take notes!   About today's guest:   Tina has focused her practice on all aspects of family and domestic relations law, including divorce, division of assets, custo...

Join Rhonda as she talks with Divorce Coach, Twyla Marks about moving forward after divorce. They discuss 3 key things to help you find confidence, contentment, and joy after the dust settles.    About today's guest:   Twyla M.Marks is a woman of God who exemplifies the life of an overcomer. She's a Texas native, sports lover, specifically speaking, a Dallas Cowboys lover, and has worked in the he...

You may not be ready for this just yet, but it's something to consider! Rhonda talks with Dr. Holly Battey about finding the right partner. Learn how to be in touch with your mind, heart and gut when making life decisions and entering new relationships.    Be sure to listen to the very end for Dr. Holly's special offer! About today's guest: Dr. Holly Battey   Dr. Holly helps conscious single men a...

You may not be ready for this just yet, but it's something to consider! Rhonda talks with Dr. Holly Battey about finding the right partner. Learn how to be in touch with your mind, heart and gut when making life decisions and entering new relationships.    Be sure to listen to the very end for Dr. Holly's special offer! About today's guest: Dr. Holly Battey   Dr. Holly helps conscious single men a...

Do you have a plan? Rhonda talks with Attorney Ashley Lillesand about the importance of establishing an estate plan - especially if you have minor children. Choosing the right people to handle your affairs is an empowering process and will bring you peace of mind post-divorce. It's easier than you think!   About our guest:   Attorney Ashley E. Lillesand is the managing partner at Lillesand Law LLC...

On today's episode, Rhonda sits down with Attorney Lindsay Renier to discuss how to prepare for trial. It's not necessarily what anyone wants, but it's a possibility, and you need to be prepared. Lindsay shares ways to set yourself up for success during the process. About today's guest:   Lindsay Renier is the Owner & Attorney with Renier Hotopp Law.   As the owner and operator of Renier Hotopp La...

Rhonda and her guest, Cherie Morris, discuss conflict resolution and practical ways to communicate effectively. Cherie explains the BIFF method and other strategies for communicating so that you can begin to honor yourself in times of stress and conflict.    Grab Cherie's free download!   https://deardivorcecoach.com/request-transform-conflict-in-your-life/   More about our guest:   Cherie practic...

Attorney Dennis Vetrano talks with Rhonda about ways you can build your team and set yourself up for financial success. They discuss pre and post nups, the importance of setting up a budget, and ways to prepare yourself for a healthy financial future separate from your spouse. You don't want to miss any of this conversation!   --   Today's guest is Dennis Vetrano, Jr., Attorney and Owner of the La...