Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Rhonda sits down with Life and Divorce Coach, Meagan Norris. They discuss:   Mindset around money - what and how you think about money matters! The lies we tell ourselves and how to combat them with truth. Divorce is an opportunity to live a life bigger than you imagined. 4 buckets to look at when making decisions. Do not give in to fatigue - be your own CEO.   This episode is packed with practica...

Rhonda sits down with Patty Jackson, Founder of Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching to talk about disrupting the conversation we have with our spouse and more importantly, with ourselves. Here is what you can look forward to as you listen:   How can you disassemble the landmines around you 4 things you CAN control Why you need to forgive yourself and how that helps you change your perspective About...

With the holidays fast approaching, you may feel more tempted to turn to alcohol as a stress reliever as you navigate through your divorce. Our guest today, Alcohol-Free Life Coach, Beth Purcell is here to share that there is a different way! Beth and Rhonda discuss:   Beliefs around alcohol and how to change your mindset Challenge yourself to do a reset for clarity Keep your own side of the stree...

Are you going through divorce and you or your spouse own a business? Listen in!    Rhonda talks with Business Valuation Expert, Henry Kaskov about valuing your business. What should you consider as you approach this process?    They discuss:   Who needs a Business Valuation? Discovery Process (learn what DAM is!) Hire a licensed, certified neutral appraiser in the divorce space Ask the right quest...

Our special guest today is CEO and Co-Founder of HerMoney, Jean Chatzky! Rhonda and Jean walk through how to step out in confidence when it comes to your money.    Learn your money - it can be managed! Value based spending - what is important to you? Girl Math! Why wisdom over too much information is will get you where you want to be About today's guest:  Jean Chatzky is the founder and CEO of Her...

We have some exciting news and a special announcement! Join Rhonda as she outlines her thought process about the new name for the podcast, and why we're making this small but powerful shift.    Rhonda covers:   The origin story of the podcast Client stories How she can help you if you're contemplating or moving through the divorce process Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, Founder & CEO of  The W...

Licensed Home Appraiser, Rachel Pader sits down with Rhonda to talk about  the importance of home appraisal. Knowing your home is key! A few things they discuss:   Why it's important to have a good appraiser Tips on what you should look for Top 3 items to consider when having your home appraised About today's guest:   Rachel had been a home appraiser for 5 years and has made it her  goal to shorte...

Rhonda sits down with former high school teacher turned high conflict divorce coach and advocate, Lisa Johnson. Lisa and Rhonda discuss coercive control, how laws are changing across the country, and ways you can navigate through the long and arduous process. Topics include:   Find community: gather your team, both personal and professional Timeline - it's a marathon: ways to stay in it for the lo...

Rhonda sits down with Tracy Malone, Founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. They discuss specific ways you can know if you're being gaslit and how to handle narcissistic behavior.    What is gaslighting? Specific questions to ask your attorney Strategies for dealing with narcissistic behavior Ways to build your team who will empower you About today's guest:    My name is Tracy Malone and I am a surTH...

Barbara Majeski, Founder of The MORE Life Collective, TV Personality, and Lifestyle Expert joins Rhonda for a fun and important conversation! They cover a lot today - you'll want to take notes!  Topics discussed: Women's tolerance level is high - but there is a limit Focus on YOUR own journey You can't shortcut the process It's never too late to reinvent yourself About today's guest:    Barbara is...

You will love today's guest! Lori Barkus of Sustainable Family Solutions sits down with Rhonda to talk about some of the misunderstandings around Mediation. While it can be a great option, you need to be sure you know exactly what the process entails - and what it does not.   Know what mediation is - and what it isn't What are some key things you should know and do before choosing mediation? Prepa...

Rhonda is joined by Attorney Lauren Hunt for a conversation about co-parenting and negotiating the big (and little) things in divorce and beyond.   This episode covers:   Communication is key when co-parenting Is splitting custody 50/50 always the right thing? Treat co-parenting like a business Negotiations and boundaries Navigating the family court system About today's guest:   Lauren is a divorc...

Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski joins Rhonda for an in-depth conversation around Mediation. Mediation is a great option and can provide a safe place for both parties to be heard and understood. Lisa and Rhonda cover:   What mediation is and what it is not Mediation CAN work, even in difficult circumstances How to find the right Mediator for you Assembling the right team is crucial to the outcome...

Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you'll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in! What are some common beliefs women of faith have that hold...

Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process?   Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you've got kids.    Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant! Take the high road - easier said than done, but wo...

Rhonda's guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover:  Choose joy - joy is not happiness You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion Look for the gifts - gratitude can change everything   About today's guest: Donna Tashjian i...

Don't miss this episode if you're contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future.  Gather all of the information. Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black an...

Rhonda and Clinical Therapist, Jennifer Parker discuss a topic we've been addressing a lot recently: Coercive Control. Today's episode covers: Ways to recognize you are being controlled How to get the help and support you need Why isolation is your worst enemy Grab a copy of Jennifer's book: Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers you Seek   About today's guest: Jennifer Parker obtained her Maste...

  Budgeting. No one wants to talk about it, but it's essential - especially if you're contemplating divorce. Rhonda sits down with Chuck Howard, Assistant Professor at Texas A&M University to discuss the importance of creating a budget and then establishing a routine to continuously track and re-evaluate it.  Listen in as Chuck gives us 5 easy steps to move to successful budgeting:  Set your budge...

Rhonda sits down with Dr. Melissa Kalt to discuss practical things to implement when dealing with a narcissist: Examine your motives Be aware of the narcissist's behavior patterns Give narcissistic supply for the purpose of negotiating Extracting the trauma They delve into each of these steps in a way that will make you feel empowered and encouraged. You won't want to miss a minute of this one - g...

False Sense Series False Sense of... Amicability It is far wiser to judge people by their deeds than their speech – judge their track record rather than their talk. -Rasheed Ogunlaru Do you find yourself believing what your spouse says rather than believing their actions?  This is what I call creating a false sense of amicability.  What is a false sense of amicability and how does it play out for...

Did you know that according to a Forbes article nearly half of the women surveyed said they had "financial surprises" during the divorce? Say what?! Here is a short list of the things I have seen with my clients (changing life insurance beneficiaries, setting up separate business entities, establishing private bank accounts, transferring money to another family member, taking loans from 401ks and...

Rhonda sits down with Trauma-Informed Coach and author, Houa Utech to discuss covert narcissism and what it's like to move through the divorce process when you feel like you have no control. They discuss:   What can you do to build your team? Ways the court system is broken. How to end up with what you deserve. Tips to deal with the trauma you carry.   And be sure to check out Houa's Book:  The Un...

Recently, Rhonda sat down with Divorce Mortgage Planner, Tami Wollensak, on her YouTube video series, Peaceful Divide.  We are pleased to be able to share that conversation with you here! Tami and Rhonda discuss strategy, finding the right team, and moving the needle to enable women to walk away empowered.    Have you ever wondered how Rhonda approaches her strategy? Listen in!     About our Guest...

If you're contemplating divorce, or in the middle of the process, you may not see what your life can look like moving forward. Our guest, Laura Ericson believes in new beginnings! Laura and Rhonda talk about how you can prioritize travel - even if it's just a weekend away. Taking time for yourself can be an important part of the healing process.  About today's guest:    Laura Ericson is a travel e...