Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Becky Sampson, founder of Only Subpoenas™, for a grounded conversation about one of the most misunderstood tools in divorce: subpoenas. If you've ever felt like you're making decisions without the full picture, you're not alone. Many women find themselves asking for financial information again and again—only to be met with delays, partial answers, or silence....

In this episode of Disrupting Divorce , Rhonda sits down with Brett Ward , a nationally recognized family law attorney and litigation leader at Blank Rome, to unpack a topic that many people have never heard of: alienation of affection . But this conversation goes far beyond one legal concept. Together, Rhonda and Brett explore when mediation works, when it does not, and why so many people find th...

In this eye-opening conversation, Rhonda sits down with Al Huntoon — a former custody mediator and co-parenting coach — to uncover what most people (and professionals) miss when it comes to high-conflict custody battles. Al shares the blind spot he discovered after working with thousands of families: in many high-conflict custody cases, one parent is driving the conflict , while the other is simpl...

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Rhonda sits down with therapist and author Oona Metz to talk about the emotional journey of divorce — and how to move through it with clarity and compassion. Oona shares her five-phase model for navigating divorce grief, built from decades of work with women in group therapy settings. Whether you're newly separated or deep in the healing process, this con...

In this insightful episode, Rhonda sits down with Georgia-based attorney and author Bree Sullivan-Howell to unpack the emotional and legal realities of navigating divorce. From keeping your strategy private to the power of preparation, this conversation offers clear, actionable guidance for women in the thick of the process. Bree shares hard-earned wisdom on: Why empowering clients with homework i...

This week's episode is powerful, personal, and packed with resources. Rhonda sits down with Heather Kutz , a wireless industry expert with nearly two decades of experience, to explore how mobile phones can either empower or control —especially for women navigating domestic abuse. What You'll Learn: The red flags that your phone may be used to surveil or control you How shared phone plans can lead...

In this episode of Disrupting Divorce , Rhonda sits down with Dyna Vink , a Certified Integrated Health Practitioner and expert in perimenopause and menopause support. They dive into a critical but often overlooked topic: how hormonal shifts intersect with the emotional rollercoaster of divorce. If you're navigating the end of a marriage while also feeling off —emotionally, physically, or mentally...

What does it really take to "disrupt divorce"? In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Jordan Rosenberg, a family law attorney from the Chicago area who believes the attorney–client relationship should be a true partnership — built on open communication, trust, and collaboration. Together, they pull back the curtain on what most attorneys wish their clients knew and how women can take a more empowe...

Prenups aren't romantic, but they are powerful. In this episode, NY matrimonial attorney Evan Schein explains what a prenup can and cannot do, why early conversations matter, and how precise drafting prevents costly fights later. We talk disclosure, fairness, and how to keep agreements current as life changes. What you'll learn What a prenup is, and isn't: A financial agreement signed before marri...

Divorce makes college planning more complex. In this episode, Vicki explains the 2024 FAFSA changes, student loan rules, and how to find scholarships that actually make a difference. She also shares client stories where strategic planning saved families thousands—even hundreds of thousands—on college costs. What you'll learn Why the  parent providing more financial support (not the custodial paren...

Vocational assessments can shape spousal support and earning-capacity debates. Rhonda and Dan unpack what credible reports look like, how to prepare, and how to challenge numbers that don't match reality. What you'll learn in this episode: ✨ Purpose & scope: Employability, realistic job options, training needs, and reasonable earnings. ✨ Data that matters: Social Security earnings, medical narra...

In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Stacey Wynn, MDiv, PCC to talk about the intersection of ✝️ faith, 💔 divorce, and 💪 empowerment. Together, they unpack the realities of spiritual abuse , the stigma surrounding women of faith who pursue divorce, and the practical steps women can take to reclaim their agency. What you'll hear in this episode: ✨ Why "divorce heals broken homes" is a powerful...

Divorce mediation doesn't have to feel confusing. In this episode, Rhonda sits down with her friend Rebecca Stern, owner of Pearl Mediation , to break down the different types of mediation and how to know which one is the best fit for your divorce journey. Whether you're in a high-conflict situation 😤 or navigating things more peacefully 🤝, Rebecca shares how mediators can balance power, guide t...

In this solo episode, Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, unpacks the psychology behind the "Disney Dad" and why his extravagant gestures aren't really about the kids. If you've ever felt frustrated, exhausted, or even questioned your worth as a parent while your ex showers the kids with trips, gifts, and treats—this episode is for you. Rhonda reveals how Disney Dad tactics often mask deeper issues like guilt,...

In this powerful episode, Tracy Malone returns to discuss what most lawyers don't tell you about parenting plans — the money. From major expenses like cars and tech, to everyday costs like school supplies, Tracy breaks down how to build financial protection directly into your parenting plan. She and Rhonda explore real client scenarios, highlight common pitfalls in legal agreements, and share prac...

In this empowering episode of Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women , Rhonda sits down with Energy & Empowerment Coach Aimee Carlson to explore the overlooked but critical role of energy in the divorce process. Aimee shares practical strategies to help women stop running on empty and start tuning into their inner strength—even in the middle of major life transitions. They dive deep into what...

In this insightful episode of Divorce Conversations for Women , Rhonda Noordyk welcomes mortgage expert and CDLP® trailblazer Jody Bruns for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about a critical—but often overlooked—component of divorce: mortgage planning . Together, they unpack the unique financial, legal, and emotional challenges women face when trying to keep, refinance, or buy a home durin...

In this transformative episode, Rhonda Noordyk sits down with Dr. Lisa Fox to explore the complex realities women face in the midst of divorce, especially when coercive control, abuse, and financial manipulation are involved. Drawing from her personal journey as a trauma coach and surgeon—and her experience navigating a high-conflict divorce—Dr. Fox shares candid insights and practical strategies...

In this powerful and deeply insightful episode of Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa Happ , Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, sits down with divorce coach and survivor Lisa Happ to unpack the layered realities of high-conflict divorce—especially when narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and parental alienation are in play. Together, they offer transformational strategies for women navigating these emotional...

In this feel-good and refreshingly honest episode, Rhonda cozies up with Amy Slate—aka The Breakup Broker —a Boston-based real estate pro with a big heart, sharp instincts, and a passion for helping women through one of life's biggest transitions: divorce. Amy shares her own journey (yes, she's walking this path too!) and how she turned her personal experience into purpose, guiding clients through...

When the legal system becomes a weapon, how do you protect yourself—and your children? In this compelling conversation, Rhonda is joined by Lisa Johnson , co-founder of Been There, Got Out , to expose the realities of legal abuse , coercive control , and the hidden challenges self-represented litigants face in high-conflict divorce and custody battles. Lisa shares both her lived experience and pro...

In this episode, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes Karen, known as the "Good Divorce Coach," to discuss how divorce can be a transformative process rather than a destructive one. Together, they explore essential strategies for navigating divorce with emotional regulation, communication, and self-care. Key Takeaways: Divorce as a Transformation Tool: How shifting your mindset can turn divorce into an opportu...

In this insightful episode, Rhonda and Heather dive into the unique challenges women face during divorce, from financial concerns to emotional well-being. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, self-advocacy, and navigating the legal system with confidence. The conversation highlights the role of mediation in resolving disputes, the need for skilled mediators, and why women should take...

In this episode, Rhonda and Brynn discuss the crucial role of a nanny in co-parenting relationships, especially during and after divorce. Brynn, founder of the Premier Nanny Network, shares how professional nannies provide stability, facilitate trust, and help manage daily logistics, allowing parents to focus on quality time with their children. They also explore Brynn's work in supporting women t...

In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Anne Wintemute, CEO of Aimee Says, an innovative AI app designed to support individuals through the challenges of divorce, especially those recovering from abusive relationships. Anne shares the inspiration behind Aimee Says and its mission to provide accessible companionship, legal guidance, and emotional validation, bridging the gap often left by costly the...