Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

From talking about money on early dates to navigating the complexities of managing finances within a relationship, we're diving into it all with Netflix host and best-selling author Ramit Sethi. We chat about the four money types, the dynamics when there are different financial habits, earnings, and contributions, and how to create a shared vision for your financial future to build a 'rich...

We're dishing over brunch around the decline in dating apps, the alternatives for daters, and also when to know if you're ready to date again after ending a relationship. Enjoy! Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/ HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our websi...

It's time to QUIET THE FREAKING CLOCK y'all because we don't know about you but it's exhausting to be running up against societal timelines and expectations. We're diving in with Beth Gulotta both from a therapists perspective and from someone who had untraditional timelines when it came to her career, meeting her person, and having children. We're discussing how to take co...

#brunchtalk is back...with a twist. We're trying out a new format where we dish about some of the things going on in our lives, the (dating) news, or whatever relevant topics we find related to dating/relationships/love/personal growth and more. And of course, we'll still answer your burning questions where this week we talk about age gap relationships and if there's a certain number o...

We're back for SEASON 20 with something you need to hear right now. In dating, we think we're asking for too much, when in fact we ask for far too little. So we say – scare them away. Because dating is just is much about attracting the right person as filtering out the wrong ones. We're discussing why we're so afraid to scare away the wrong people in the first pace, how to release...

It's been one heck of a week with our book, our baby 'How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person & Falling In Love' officially out into the world! We're both reflecting on the week – how we celebrated and all the gratitude we have to all of you that have supported us through this all! Go get 'How to Be Dateable' on howtobedateable.com or wherever boo...

IT'S OFFICIALLY PUB DAY - the day that 'How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love' is out, available to the world! We're so freaking excited and going to answer all your questions from what it was like to coauthor a book together, how we applied our learnings from the podcast (and our personal lives) into the book, and the many surprises tha...

While last year was all about building resilience after that heart-wrenching infidelity, this year was about finding love again. Julie interviews Yue to hear how she's been able to able to design the type of relationship that works for her and her "manfriend" – and most importantly herself. We discuss the biggest shifts she's made in dating / relationships, how she learned to love...

From getting engaged to quitting her job pursue Dateable full-time, it's been a year of taking that next step – saying yes to the future that's to come. In this episode, Yue interviews Julie about all these life changes – what's been incredible, challenging, and so forth. We discuss not always so linear progression of relationships, the anxieties despite the milestones, and of course t...

Welcome to 2025 all! This is the year filled with abundance and finding your person...we can feel it! Because our book comes out January 28th, and we're sharing a key component of becoming your most dateable self: discovering your dating archetype! We'll discuss the 5 types of daters we see, ways to leverage your super powers when dating, and how to discover what may be holding you back – ...

With the end of the year comes new beginnings. Whether you're in the thick of a breakup or just in reflection mode, you're going to enjoy this season finale banger with the one and only John Kim as we talk about the difference between a flat soda breakup, an almost relationship, and everything in between. We're discussing how to use heartbreak as a catalyst for growth, ways to reflect...

For our last brunchtalk of the year, we're doing a little reflection of new years resolution, prepping for dating Sunday on the apps, and answering all your burning questions for the new year. We're discussing how to set realistic dating goals for the new year, the best strategies for meeting new people in January, and how to be hopeful that dating will be different this year. Hope you hav...

If you're looking at new avenues to meet people in 2025 or you're curious why matchmaking is so appealing to GenZ, look no further. We're giving you an insider's look as we talk to Jaydi & Lauren (aka The Love Agents of Hollywood) from LJ Matchmaking. We're discussing why they think matchmaking is having a comeback, how to best utilize a matchmaker, and the reason they'...

Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, there's always a lot of questions that come up around the holidays. Should you invite them to your holiday events? What should you gift each other? And is it even worth it to be on the apps this time of year? We're doing a lightening round of all the hard-hitting questions, sharing our holiday plans, and wishing you all...

What happens when you say you want a relationship yet act in ways that drive away the exact thing you want? Introducing relationship chicken...which we think is one of THE biggest traps of modern dating. We're discussing why our dating culture often promotes unhealthy dynamics, the reason trying to protecting ourselves doesn't ultimately protect us in the end, and how to embrace your vulne...

Ever feel like you just can't move past those first couple dates or actually get into a committed relationship? You're not alone. Join us this week as we discuss why it's so common to feel this way – even when the reality is that most date's don't turn into more! We're discussing what metrics to focus on when quantifying dating "success", why dating apps have change...

This is a big one y'all. We're talking about all the states, beliefs, and feelings that make dating oh so hard – and end up really getting in our way if we let them. We're so excited to be joined by Sabrina Zohar who shares her candid journey with anxiety and dating – and how she's learned to manage these emotions as they come up, We're discussing the differences between anxiet...

Have you ever had the thought...am I being too much? Am I too interested? Too excited? Just too much personality for this person? Let's stop the rumination once and for all in this week's #brunchtalk where we can confidently say: you are not too much! We discuss where this anxiety comes from in the first place, what to do when these thoughts start to creep in, and a reminder that the right...

What if instead of searching for the random meet-cute, we could share another way to meet IRL that actually yields more relationships? We're chatting with Brandon & Harrison about their own experiences building connection through their networks of community and friends – and how they bring that same energy to their live dating show updating. We discuss the importance of building rapport wh...

You finally found someone you're into who is also into you. Until out of nowhere – it all blows up. If you've been here before, you know how painful it feels when it seems like the the rug was just pulled from under you unexpectedly We're breaking down the reasons this may happen and how to handle the emotional turmoil that comes from this. We discuss how to get closure without necessa...

Are you feeling a bit dating fatigued? Have no fear, with the holidays around the corner, it's the perfect time for a reset. And what better way than to hear us chat with Jemma about her dating detox and – how it led to a different approach when dating (which ultimately resulted in meeting her partner!). We're discussing the 12 stages of dating burnout, the need to take breaks from dating,...

With Thanksgiving right around the corner, it can be the most joyful...and stressful time of year. Not everyone wants enjoy their turkey dinner with questions about your relationship status! But have no fear, we're going to break down some of the most frustrating questions that can come your way over the holiday season – whether you're single AF, in a new relationship, or headed towards ma...

We're meant to do life with other people. So then, why is dating so damn hard? Yue's sharing why dating feels so difficult these days – and how we can start to shift our mindset to think about things differently. Because being with another human you love is natural, yet dating is not. And it's about time we change how we approach it altogether. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchi...

There's so much pressure when dating....so much that dating becomes more about measuring up than actually finding the right partner. We're diving into one of the biggest things that got in our way – and that we see stifle so many of you too – when we let dating define our worth and make it a lot more personal than it actually is. We're discussing the mindset of being the chooser vs. be...

So you told a couple of white lies. Or the person you're dating did. Is this ground for the budding relationship to be over? In this week's brunchtalk, we're discussing what happens when white lies accumulate and lead to trust issues – and what you can do about it. We're discussing looking beyond the lie to why it's being told, how to learn from past mistakes to move forward, a...