Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

When you're at a place when you've learned to say no to things that don't feel right...how do you also strike that balance of saying yes without settling or sacrificing? For the last #brunchtalk of the season (don't worry, there will be more!), we're discussing how to assess your compatibility meter, the proper expectations of when you should "know" with someone, and wh...

Are setbacks inevitable while dating? We think so – and it's more about how you handle them to move forward. We're joined today with setback expert Amy Shoenthal to take us through the setback cycle to navigate everything from breakups, rejection, thinking you met “the one” only to realize it wasn’t, and everything in between. We're discussing what constitutes as a setback, how they ca...

What happens if you have totally different political views than someone you're seeing...or in this case have been f*cking for the last 15 years? Join us for this week's brunch talk as discuss how much political affiliation matters in the scheme of your relationships, what the line is between a friends-with-benefits and someone you date, and how you can decide if you can come to terms with...

We've talked about Dating Sabbaticals but what about Relationship Sabbaticals? Yue is reflecting on the conversation we had with Mark Groves this week about the need to take an intentional pause and how this could serve her relationships – past, present, and future. If you've wondered before if you should stay or go, or when the relationship is worth fighting for, this one is for you! Rela...

We're so excited to have long-awaited guest, Mark Groves in the house! And even more importantly, diving into his story about breaking up – and getting back together– with his now-wife Kylie McBeath and what this experience taught him about relationships. We're discussing how both parties must take responsibility owning their sh*t, what it actually means to build a relationship 2.0, and wh...

What's the difference between a little road rage and an abusive partner? How do you know what signs end up being a problem later on? Join us for this week's brunch talk as discuss what to do if your partner's anger is making you uncomfortable in any way, how to consider your own triggers and why this may be bothering you, and ways to share your concerns about their activation. Got a da...

Whether you're into the woo-woo sh*t or not, there's no denying the power of asking for what you want from the universe – especially when it comes to love. Join us as we chat with Erin Rachel Doppelt about how she manifested her highest powered soulmate (i.e her husband) and how you can also create the love life you desire. We're discussing everything from feeling states to snapshot ma...

Co-workers can be that great untapped resource for love...or potential nightmare if it doesn't work out. So what do you do when you have feelings for a coworker? And what happens when you've either asked them out before or hinted to it? Join us as we discuss the intricacies of moving from coworkers to lovers, how to take each other out of a "work" context and get to know them on a...

It's time to celebrate y'all....because it's our 500th episode!!! And for this special occasion we're getting raw and real about relationships and what we've learned going from confused daters to being in committed long-term partnerships. We're discussing how even the healthiest of relationships can be triggering, the types of things that are completely normal in a relation...

What do you do when you're on a great date....and your date calls you the complete wrong name? Is this a total dealbreaker or a funny story you can laugh about later? Join us for this week's brunch talk as we debate how big of a deal this is (we have differing opinions here!), ways you can come back from this mistake if you want to, and why modern dating is set up to make situations like t...

We're dropping another quickie as Julie reflects on her biggest fear that was triggered by last week's episode 'Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone?' Find out why this apprehension still creeps in even in her current relationship and how she could relate to Ryan's ex from her experience in the past. If you've been in a situation where it felt like someone pulled the ru...

We've all heard the latest buzzword to "date intentionally" but what does this even mean? And how can it help you? We're chatting with Talia Koren about putting it all into practice and how she went from newbie dater to engaged in less than 2 years. We're discussing the types of shifts to your dating behavior that can bring more alignment to what you're looking for, how you...

What happens when you finally get the courage to confess your feelings....and then they just don't feel the same? It can be so difficult –regardless of your gender or sexuality – to have to see this person out and about who rejected you. We're discussing the time needed to break away from the situation, how to know if eventually regaining a friendship is in the cards, and ways you can move...

It's been one-year from that fateful day when Yue learned her partner of 5 years had been unfaithful. Join us for a heartfelt quickie as Yue shares what she's learned in the last year about love, relationships, and persevering through it all – to a happier and more fulfilled place than she ever imagined she'd be. This is an emotional one, but also certainly uplifting for anyone else st...

What happens when you – or the person you're dating – just can't commit to a relationship past the honeymoon stage? We're getting a look inside the mind of return guest Ryan Van Duzer about why he wants to flee once things get serious – even with people he thought were 'The One.' We're discussing the differences of being ready for love versus a relationship, the line of sta...

You start talking to someone you're interested in. You get busy. They get busy. And then you start to fear that the connection will just fade out...all before you even met IRL! Join us as we chat about how to keep the momentum going in early stage dating. We're discussing the reasons that things start to fall apart in the first place, the balance of how much to text before meeting up, and...

Can you predict what's going to happen in your love life? We're joined with the fabulous AstroTwins Ophi & Tali to dive into all things astrology – from each signs outlook for love to general dating shifts that are happening as we speak. We're discussing why dating is in the middle of one big iOs update, what mercury in retrograde really means for your love life, and how you can us...

What happens when you reach a certain age and realized you haven't been prioritizing dating and relationships as much as maybe you would have liked? How do you "catch up" and get back on track? Join us as we chat about feeling behind in the love department – and what to do about it. We're discussing how to share your story with dates, the reasons past relationship experience ultima...

Is it possible to change your type? Do you like who you like? Join us as we dive into what it even means to have a type – and how it's helping or hurting your dating life. We discuss where your type comes from and how it's influenced, ways you can expand your type without necessarily going for your complete opposite, and why dating different types of people can help you determine what it i...

If they flaked, ghosted, or slow-faded away, do you give them another chance if they come back into your life? Join us this week as we chat about why – or why not –  someone may deserve a second chance. We're discussing what to look for in their words and actions, how you can hold your ground and share your needs, and why the early stages often reveal a lot – but not always everything. Got a d...

We're back for another “Quickie” where we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie shares the one quality that's pivotal to look for when you're dating – a foundational trait that you need in a partner in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. Enjoy! Follow us @dateablepodcast, @julie...

In today's fast-paced dating world where it's so easy to be distracted, we're diving into how to bring more focus into dating – whether you're diagnosed with ADHD or not. We're also bringing in an expert: Sussan Nwogwugwu, PMHNP to talk about ADHD's impact in dating and relationships. We're discussing the difference of having a short-attention span and ADHD, how you can...

A debate only this generation would have: should couples be able to check each other's phones freely or is each person entitled to their level of own level of privacy? We're digging into our thoughts as we discuss the motivations for needing to look at your partner's phone in the first place, the benefits and downfalls of giving one another access, and how you can actually discuss with...

We're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Yue is sharing how with all the changes with the eclipse, now is the perfect time to take control and move out all the noise of what has been clouding your path before. Enjoy! Follow us @dateablepodcast, @ju...

Are there universal signals of digital body language? What does your DBL say about you and the way you date? We're chatting with licensed marriage and family therapist Moe Ari about the virtual cues we send in our online communication that are crucial to dating in today's digital world. We're discussing why understanding DBL can help you while dating, how to avoid overanalyzing/ misint...