Marcus Goodwin & Keya McClain

Date, Affirm, The Real

Society EN ↓ 122 episodes

Date, Affirm, The Real (DAR) is a group created to discuss healthy relationship with self, in dating relationship and marriage. The group focuses heavily on black healthy relationships. Our focus is on healthy, healing, positive and affirming love. The discussions range from topics related to all things self-love and healthy relationships.

Author

Marcus Goodwin & Keya McClain

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dateaffirmthereal.com

Latest episode

Oct 18, 2025

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Episodes

Empowering Masculinity: Finding Your Role in a Relationship 08.11.2023

In this thought-provoking edition, we explore the concept of masculinity in relationships and how men can assume their positions in a healthy and fulfilling way. We'll discuss the importance of mutual respect in creating a strong partnership. Join us as we provide practical tips and insights to help men confidently embrace their role while nurturing a loving and supportive connection with thei...

Break Free from Insecurities: Embrace a Confident You! 27.10.2023

Welcome to Date, Affirm, the Real! In this enlightening episode, we embark on a profound journey, delving into the intricate landscape of personal insecurities and the uplifting process of nurturing self-esteem. It's a journey we all undertake at some juncture in our lives, a shared experience that binds us together. Today, with genuine care and a wealth of knowledge, we're here to extend...

Moving On from Your Ex: Embracing New Love 20.10.2023

Are you struggling to let go of your past and move forward in your love life? In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of not letting your ex hold you back from finding happiness in a new relationship. Breakups can be tough, but they don't have to define your future. We'll share valuable insights, tips, and personal stories to help you navigate the journey of moving on and embraci...

Soul Ties Explored: Pros, Cons, and How to Break Free 10.10.2023

In this episode, we're going to explore the concept of soul ties and how they can affect your life. We'll look at the pros, cons, and ways to break free from them. If you're curious about soul ties and how they can impact your life, this episode is for you! We'll talk about the different types of soul ties and how to identify and deal with them. Whether you're looking for advic...

Transforming Relationships: The Art of Being a Better Husband 22.09.2023

In this episode, we explore the daily challenges, triumphs, and lessons that come with being the best partner we can be. From effective communication tips to nurturing emotional connections, we delve into the essential skills and qualities that make a loving marriage flourish. Join us as we candidly share our experiences and insights, providing a supportive space for husbands everywhere to learn,...

Going from pause to play: Don't let your anger mature into bitterness ! 15.09.2023

In this episode, we discuss how to deal with anger and bitterness in your life, so that you don't get stuck in a cycle of bad relationships and anger. Many of us have experienced anger in our lives – sometimes it feels like it's always there, and other times it seems to take over completely. In this episode, we're going to talk about how anger can develop into bitterness, and how to br...

Why staying in an unhappy relationship is more expensive than you think 14.09.2023

In this episode, we're going to discuss the financial cost of being in an unhappy relationship. By examining the costs of both staying in an unhappy relationship and breaking up with an unhappy partner, we'll learn how important it is to find a relationship that's right for you. We'll explore the various costs associated with being in an unhealthy relationship, including financial...

Demystifying Life Insurance: Everything You Need to Know 13.09.2023

In this episode, we're going to take a closer look at life insurance. We're going to discuss the important things to know, the why behind the need for life insurance, and the different options available to you. If you're curious about life insurance or want to know more about the importance of life insurance, then this episode is for you! We'll cover everything you need to know in...

Rebuilding Your Heart: 3 Ways to Heal and Prepare for a New Relationship 04.09.2023

In this episode, we'll be discussing the topic of rebuilding your heart. We'll be covering the topics of healing and preparing for a new relationship, as well as giving you some thought on how to navigate the single season. If you're feeling broken inside after a failed relationship, this segment is for you. We'll discuss the steps you need to take to heal and prepare for a new rel...

Its Okay, I am not your person! 30.08.2023

In this episode, I'm sharing a way of thinking that can help you when it comes to breaking up and releasing someone who you are not meant for. This way of thinking is called "It’s okay, I am not your person." and it can help you be happier in the end. Breaking up is never easy, but by adopting this way of thinking, you can release the person without feeling negative or sad. Staying f...

Unlocking Single Season Success: 5 Game-Changing Techniques 17.08.2023

In this episode, The Therapist and The Poet are going to share with you 5 ways to maximize your single season. Whether you're looking for fun things to do or milestones to reach, these tips will help you reach your goals! Whether you're new to being single or you're a seasoned pro, these 5 ways will help you reach your goals and maximize your single season. Whether you're looking t...

"Rekindling the Flame: Reuniting after Drifting Apart" 08.08.2023

In this episode, we will talk about the struggles we face when we drift apart, how to come back after a drift, and how to reignite the spark in our relationship. Whether you're married, dating, or just friends, it's important to know how to deal with the struggles that arise when we drift apart. In this episode, we will share with you our tips on how to reignite the spark in your relations...

Grieving Together: Navigating Loss with Your Partner 24.07.2023

In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the difficult topic of grieving with your life partner. Join us as we explore the profound impact of loss and provide valuable insights on navigating this challenging journey together. Loss is a deeply personal experience, but when shared with your other person, it can present unique dynamics. "Grieving Together: Navigating Loss with Your Partner"...

Escape the happiness trap: Change your relationship expectations 20.07.2023

In this episode, we're going to discuss how to escape the trap. This trap can have a negative impact on us seeking a relationship, as we end up setting unrealistic expectations. We'll discuss ways to change our expectations and set ourselves up for success in future relationships. If you're finding it hard to find lasting happiness in your journey, then this episode is for you. We'...

Discovering the Key to Lasting Love: Compromise or Sacrifice? 12.07.2023

In this episode, we'll explore the concept of compromise, and ask the question: is it better to sacrifice our wants in order to have a good relationship? Or is it better to compromise and find a way to get what we want without sacrificing our hard-won relationships? We'll explore this question by looking at examples of compromise in different relationships, and ask the question: is it bett...

What did I hear? ABC's of Finding Love: Affirm, Bond, & Communicate! 06.07.2023

In this episode, I'm sharing my interpretation of what ABC's of Finding Love means. Affirm, Bond, and Communicate! Affirm your goals, bonds with those who are good for you, and communicate your desires and thoughts to ensure healthy relationships. These three principles form the foundation of love, and they're essential for anyone looking to find love. In this episode, I'm sharing...

Pee-Pee in the pool: Black Men's Impact on the Dating World. 04.07.2023

In this episode, I'm breaking down the Dr. Umar Johnson video clip and discussing why black men have unknowingly contributed to such a hard time in the dating pool. As a black male, it's important for me to talk about the Dr. Umar Johnson video clip and what it means for us. This video has triggered a lot of emotions and I wanted to share my thoughts on it with you. It's an important t...

Uncover the ABC's of Finding Love: Affirm, Bond, & Communicate! 03.07.2023

If you're looking for ways to improve your dating life, then look no further! In this episode, we'll be discussing the ABC's of Finding Love: Affirm, Bond, and Communicate! Affirmations are a great way to build self-confidence, self-esteem, and manifest. Healthy bonding is what creates strong relationships, and communicating is essential for maintaining healthy communication channels....

Honoring you: Discovering the Six Self Care Categories for a Happier life 01.07.2023

In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between self-care practices and healthy relationships. By prioritizing our own well-being, we can strengthen the bonds we share with our loved ones, whether they are romantic partners, family members, or friends.

Breaking the Cycle: The Impact of Upbringing on Healthy Arguments 30.06.2023

In this episode, we're going to discuss the impact of upbringing on healthy arguments. We'll talk about how to break the cycle of arguing and how to have healthy arguments.  One of the keys to resolving conflicts peacefully is to understand the impact of our upbringing on our arguments. This video will help you learn how to have healthy arguments and resolve conflicts peacefully!

Is This Person Mistaking Generosity for Love? Find Out Now! 01.06.2023

How often have we met a kind and generous person and created relationships that didn't exist or become an affection for someone else with no reciprocity? Marcus and Keya discuss our personal experiences in the past, where we either mistook someone's kindness for something more or we were the ones on the receiving end. Healing and self love raises our self-awareness to identify these things...

"Why Do Women Attract Specific PART 3. I Forgive Myself! 12.05.2023

In part 3, we're continuing our discussion on why women attract specific types of men. In this part, we'll be talking about how to use tools to forgive yourself and move on. In part 2, we talked about why women attract men who aren't healthy for them. In this part, we'll be talking about how to use tools to forgive yourself and move on. By forgiving yourself, you can start to heal...

Solo to Soulmates 11.05.2023

Join us as we follow the heartwarming story of a once-single people who decided to change their ways and embark on a journey to find true love. In this inspiring interview , we'll hear about transformation, commitment, self-improvement, and genuine connection. Listen as they navigates the ups and downs of dating, discovers the importance of vulnerability, and ultimately find the perfect match....

Does being insecure hurt your relationships?! 04.05.2023

Learn about the different types of insecurities that can come up in dating and relationships. We'll discuss what to do if you're struggling with insecurity in your dating life, and how to work through those obstacles. If you're looking to improve your dating life, then this video is for you. We'll cover topics like understanding your insecurities, how to deal with dating challenges...

How Couples are Transforming Lives By Merging Households! 02.05.2023

In this episode, we're talking about couples merging households. We'll discuss the benefits and drawbacks of merging households, and help you decide if merging is the right decision for you and your partner. If you're thinking about merging your households, then this episode is for you! We'll discuss the benefits and drawbacks of merging, and help you decide if it's the right d...

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