Marcus Goodwin & Keya McClain
Date, Affirm, The Real
Date, Affirm, The Real (DAR) is a group created to discuss healthy relationship with self, in dating relationship and marriage. The group focuses heavily on black healthy relationships. Our focus is on healthy, healing, positive and affirming love. The discussions range from topics related to all things self-love and healthy relationships.
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Marcus Goodwin & Keya McClain
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Latest episode
Oct 18, 2025
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Episodes
Seeking Relationship Partners and not Relationship Projects: The misunderstanding of potential 13.06.2024 1:17:36
Welcome to "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast!" In this episode, hosts Marcus and Don(Jr. Lily) dive deep into the often misunderstood concept of 'potential' in relationships. Are you choosing a partner based on who they are or who they could be? Join us as we explore the pitfalls and heights of understanding what potential truly means when selecting a partner. Tune in for insightfu...
Navigating Local but Long Distance Relationships 05.06.2024 1:11:18
In this episode, Keya and her special guest Toni (The Relevant Roundtable podcast) dive into the complexities of maintaining a strong relationship when one partner has to travel frequently for work. Discover practical tips and heartfelt advice on how to stay connected, build trust, and keep the relationship alive despite the physical distance.
Givers versus takers the give and take in relationships 03.06.2024 1:02:37
Are you a giver or a taker in your relationships? In this episode of DAR (Date, Affirm, the Real), Marcus and Don explore the intricate dynamics between givers and takers and how to achieve a balanced and healthy relationship
What’s Love Got To Do With It? 22.05.2024 1:28:17
"Love and Responsibility are often intertwined in relationships, shaping our actions and decisions. In this video, hosts Marcus and Don delve into the complex dynamics between love and duty. They explore scenarios where actions are motivated by either love or a sense of responsibility, challenging viewers to reflect on their own relationships. Join us as we navigate the intricate balance betw...
How’s that List Working out for you - has he or she showed up yet? 22.05.2024 1:03:30
In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Keya and Shi dive into the world of checklists. Are your requirements for a life partner realistic, or are they keeping you from finding true love? Join us as we discuss setting attainable expectations, the importance of flexibility, and how to balance standards with an open heart. Tune in to see if your dream partner is just a list item away!
Does your energy and words match? 22.05.2024 1:02:30
Join our DAR hosts Keya and Shimeka as they delve into the profound connection between your energy, words and your actions. In this enlightening discussion, discover the transformative power of positive energy and its impact on yourself and those around you. Learn how aligning your words with your energy can lead to a more fulfilling life and healthier relationships. Tune in for insights on walkin...
What Defines a Relationship 22.05.2024 1:08:57
"Join hosts Marcus and Jr Lilly as they dive into the heart of what defines a romantic relationship. From trust and communication to shared values and emotional connection, they explore the key elements that make relationships meaningful and lasting. Gain insights, perspectives, and maybe even a few surprises in this thought-provoking discussion!"
Critical mistakes that can ruin relationships. 21.05.2024 1:08:02
In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real hosts Keya and Shimeka dive into the critical mistakes that can ruin relationships. From communication breakdowns to neglecting personal growth, they explore the common missteps that lead to the downfall of many connections. Tune in for insightful discussions and valuable tips on how to avoid these pitfalls in your own relationships.
Waking up to the same person after 30yrs 20.05.2024 46:05
Join hosts Marcus and Keya as they explore the ways and positives of being with the same romantic partner. In this video, Marcus and Keya share their thoughts and experiences on the topic, offering valuable insights and perspectives. Whether you're curious about long-term relationships or looking to deepen your connection with your partner, this discussion is sure to inspire and enlighten!
Traits of Healed version vs unhealed version 20.05.2024 1:06:49
Discover the traits of a healed vs unhealed version of yourself with hosts Keya and Shimeka. Learn how to grow and heal in relationships and your personal connections!
Defining your challenges 17.05.2024 1:02:58
In this episode, we explore the importance of recognizing and defining personal emotional challenges within the context of relationships. We discuss practical techniques to help you identify and address these challenges, ultimately strengthening your relationship with yourself and others. Join us as we discover how to navigate emotional hurdles and foster healthier, more fulfilling connections.
Love Across Miles: part 2 16.05.2024 1:05:52
A couple returns to shares their secrets to a successful long-distance relationship. Discovering the challenges, triumphs, and valuable lessons that have strengthened her bond with a partner miles away
Generational love Curses 14.05.2024 1:12:27
In this episode, we delve into the impact of intergenerational patterns on our relationships and explore effective strategies for breaking free from these unhealthy cycles. From communication patterns to attachment styles, we'll examine how these ingrained habits can affect our romantic lives and provide practical tips for fostering healthier, more fulfilling connections. Join us as we unravel...
Long term relationship with no ring. Is that their business? 13.05.2024 55:23
In this enlightening DAR episode, we delve into the concept of defacto union and discuss how living together without getting married is truly a personal choice. Join us as we explore the dynamics of relationships, societal norms, and individual autonomy in this thought-provoking discussion. Whether you're curious about defacto relationships or contemplating your own choices, this episode offer...
Everyone’s Relationship Goal 04.05.2024 1:10:19
In this episode, we delve into the universal relationship goal of healing and personal growth. We discuss the importance of healing from past experiences and how defining clear goals can lead to healthier future relationships. Join us as we explore practical strategies to enhance your self-awareness and cultivate fulfilling connections in all aspects of your life.
Long term relationship with no ring. Is that their business? 01.05.2024 55:23
In this enlightening DAR episode, we delve into the concept of defacto union and discuss how living together without getting married is truly a personal choice. Join us as we explore the dynamics of relationships, societal norms, and individual autonomy in this thought-provoking discussion. Whether you're curious about defacto relationships or contemplating your own choices, this episode offer...
Heart Aligned: Black Men standing with their Black Women 30.04.2024 1:15:02
A thought-provoking exploration of the vital support systems within the Black community. A delve into the significance of Black men standing shoulder to shoulder with their Black women in the pursuit of success. Join us as we discuss and celebrate the various forms of support that contribute to the success of Black individuals and relationships in today's society.
Love Through the Ages: A Comparison of Gen X and Gen Z Perspectives on Dating 22.02.2024 1:53:53
Explore the evolution of love and dating in "Love Through the Ages: A Comparison of Gen X and Gen Z Perspectives on Dating"! Join Date, Affirm, the Real as we dive into the contrasting views of these two generations with special guests Dallas (Successful Gen Z) and Floyd Boykin Jr. (The Exchange podcast and Gen X). Discover how attitudes towards dating have shifted over the years and gai...
What if Doesn't Work, Healthy ways to recover from break ups 15.02.2024 1:07:40
We will delve into effective strategies for healing after a breakup. Breakups can leave us feeling lost and heartbroken, but there are healthy ways to navigate this difficult time. We explore the power of introspection and self-reflection, allowing ourselves to process the emotions and thoughts that arise. We also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and taking time for oneself, allowing t...
Mind over Matter towards Relationships 08.02.2024 1:02:56
We explore the powerful concept of "mind over matter" and its profound impact on fostering positive relationships. From reframing negative thoughts to embracing gratitude, we delve into practical strategies for cultivating a more optimistic outlook in your interactions with others. Join us as we uncover how harnessing the power of positive thinking can lead to deeper empathy, stronger em...
The Healing Journey of Forgiveness for self and others 01.02.2024 58:55
Welcome to Date, Affirm, the Real. In this edition Keya and Shimeka will delve into the profound and liberating realm of forgiveness – both for ourselves and others. In this empowering segment, we explore the healing power that comes with letting go of resentment, guilt, and anger, paving the way for a brighter and more peaceful future.
Social Media and your Relationship Potential 26.01.2024 1:15:51
Welcome to Date, Affirm, the Real! In this insightful episode, our dynamic hosts dive deep into the fascinating realm of social media and its profound impact on romantic relationships and potential connections. Join us as we explore the positives and navigate the challenges that arise when technology meets matters of the heart. Whether you're in a relationship or navigating the world of dating...
3 Ways to Raise Awareness and Rise Up! 05.01.2024 1:02:14
As we step into the New Year, it's the perfect time to elevate your awareness and embrace the opportunity for personal growth. In this episode, we'll explore three powerful ways to raise your awareness, break through barriers, and become the best version of yourself.
Assessing Your Life: Addition through Subtraction 20.12.2023 53:52
Join special guest author and poet Don Jr Lily and myself as we explore the powerful principles of Lean Six Sigma in a whole new light. As we delve into the philosophy of "Addition through Subtraction" and apply it to your personal relationships! In this eye-opening episode, we'll break down the core concepts of Lean Six Sigma and how they can be seamlessly integrated into your inter...
Creating Healthy Habits for the upcoming year 12.12.2023 1:06:54
Looking to have a healthier year ahead? Join us as we dive into the topic of creating healthy habits for the upcoming year. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married, these tips will help you make positive changes in your life. Don't miss out on this valuable discussion - hit that subscribe button for more insightful content!
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