Marcus Goodwin & Keya McClain

Date, Affirm, The Real

Society EN ↓ 122 episodes

Date, Affirm, The Real (DAR) is a group created to discuss healthy relationship with self, in dating relationship and marriage. The group focuses heavily on black healthy relationships. Our focus is on healthy, healing, positive and affirming love. The discussions range from topics related to all things self-love and healthy relationships.

Author

Marcus Goodwin & Keya McClain

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dateaffirmthereal.com

Latest episode

Oct 18, 2025

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Episodes

"Why Do Women Attract Specific Types of Men? PART 2! 28.04.2023

In part 2, Keya and our DAR therapist Shimeka go further into answering the question: "Why do women attract specific types of men?" explain how the dating process works, and why women usually end up with the wrong men. They will also offer some advice on how to change the way you attract men, so you can find the man of your dreams. So, if you're wondering why you're always the on...

Self Sabotage: Some traits of self sabotaging that could prevent a healthy relationship 27.04.2023

Are you sabotaging your relationship? In this episode, we're going to talk about some of the traits of self sabotaging that could prevent a healthy relationship. If you're struggling to find the right words to say, or you're always putting your partner off, you may be sabotaging your relationship. In this episode, we'll discuss some of the common traits of self sabotaging that can...

Uncovering the Unexpected: Old School vs New School Dating - Which is Better? 25.04.2023

In this episode, we're gonna explore the pros and cons of old school and new school dating. Which is better for your dating goals? We all want to find a healthy, sustainable relationship, and sometimes it can be tough to figure out which type of dating is best for you. In this episode, we'll explore the pros and cons of old school and new school dating and help you decide which is right fo...

Unpacking the Risks and Rewards of Relationships: A Man's Perspective 18.04.2023

In this episode, I'm talking about the challenges and rewards of relationships – from the male perspective! I'll share with you my thoughts on dating, men in relationships, and healthy relationships, and explain what I think are the key things to keep in mind when it comes to relationships. Relationships are a challenge and a reward – and I want to share my insights and experiences with yo...

Why Do Women Attract Specific Types of Men? 14.04.2023

In this segment, We are going to address the question: "Why do women attract specific types of men?" explain how the dating process works, and why women usually end up with the wrong men. They will also offer some advice on how to change the way you attract men, so you can find the man of your dreams. So, if you're wondering why you're always the one going home with the wrong guy...

Who's Really in Charge? Unveiling Surprising Secrets of the Head of the Household! 13.04.2023

In this episode, we're going to talk about what head of household actually means and how it can benefit your relationships. We'll also discuss some of the household decisions that need to be made and who ultimately has the final word. If you're looking to strengthen your relationships or make decisions in your household, be sure to watch this video! We'll discuss everything you nee...

What about bitter women? Angry, Bitter, Attitudes and Energy 11.04.2023

Keya and her guest discuss the bitter and angry woman. There is some truth to this and although we are not attacking we are bringing to light the obstacles men face as it relates to the women who possibly made bad choices, accepted bad behavior from men and held animosity which emerged into the bitter woman.

Uncovering the Family Tie That Could Change Your Relationship Forever 07.04.2023

In this episode , we're going to explore the surprising link between your childhood and love life! By understanding what led to your current relationship status, you can take steps to improve your chances of success in the future. Whether you're single or in a relationship, this segment will teach you some important insights about your past and how it impacts your present. By learning abou...

What Is Emotional Cheating? Is He or She is Doing This 27.03.2023

Emotional cheating can be as dangerous as physical cheating. We discuss the signs, how it happens and what can be done positively to change the outcome. Emotional cheating can start in a subtle way, so it's important to maintain communication with your partner, be honest and respectful.

“Is there a desired dress code around friends mates?” 10.03.2023

In this video, Marcus and Keya will be discussing proper attire around your friend's husband, wife, or mate. Dressing appropriately in different social situations can be tricky, but it's especially important to be mindful of your clothing choices when you're around your friend's significant other. We'll be sharing our thoughts and different mindsets on dressing respectfully and appropriately, incl...

Healthy Relationships interact with other Healthy Relationship Friendships (Single or Coupled) 23.02.2023

Being in a healthy relationship means also having healthy relationships around you. Friends who are positive and healthy are the types of friends you want around you. Toxic, negative and unhealthy relationships can spill over and you don't want your healthy relationships affected adversely. 

Clarity in a relationship 09.02.2023

Clarity will avoid assumptions, arguments and attitude. By gaining clarity you are focusing on healthy communication and dialogue. We discuss how we have different communication styles, but clarity is the main objective. 

Communication Barriers to Work through 06.02.2023

Communication is vital to the success of any relationship. Having the ability to listen for clarity and maneuver through healthy dialogue is essential to understanding. Transparency about how our communication affects relationships helps with the emergence of healthier love. 

Platonic Friendships with Opposite Sex 02.01.2023

How do you feel about platonic friendships with opposite sex while in a relationship? We discuss this very dynamic and would love to hear your thoughts on this topic.  Many do not feel this is possible, yet many do.  Friends that become family.

Are Relationship Goals BS? 01.01.2023

Do you believe that relationship goals are b.s?  Are you basing your ideas and beliefs about relationships by watching others or are you creating the relationship that is best for you and your partner?  

Why Do Men Cheat 01.01.2023

This is not the answer for all men, but two men discuss their reasons for cheating.  They discuss the various things that caused them to cheat and they are open, honest and sincere.  Join in by listening to this conversation between two men sharing their journey.

Healthy vs. Toxic Relationships 01.01.2023

Healthy relationships are obvious? Are they really that obvious? It is time to heal so we can identify healthy people to develop healthy relationships and gain a healthy partner.  Toxic relationships are obvious? Not all that obvious if you are used to that and have been in unhealthy relationships.  Doing the work is not always easy, but so necessary.  This conversation brings aware...

Should a man be Financially Stable and Date 01.01.2023

How do you feel about a man dating has he is financially struggling or enduring some hardships?  Everyone hits some hard times right?  Are you willing to sacrifice in a relationship based on his "potential" or do you pass?  This conversation will have you considering the options and the opportunities that could come of this.  Let us know your thoughts.

Happiness is Not Predicated on Relationship Status 01.01.2023

Your happiness doesn't rely on relationship status.  You create the happiness you deserve and desire.  You get to choose every moment of every day.  Relationships are great, but better when your relationship with self is the greatest, healthiest and healed relationship.

Women discuss cheating 01.01.2023

Two women speak candidly about cheating.  Join Felicia and Keya as they openly discuss their reasoning for cheating and how emotional and mental health is essential to recognizing patterns.  

Baggage in Relationships 01.01.2023

Do you carry baggage in new relationships?  Do you understand how baggage can be detrimental to relationships?  Are you clear on what baggage is and how you can change that?  Is there an opportunity to heal and recover from the baggage.  Do you need to call it something else?  Whatever you need to do just release and heal going forward.

Sex vs. Intimacy 01.01.2023

Do you and your partner share the same ideals as it relates to sex vs. intimacy? Have you discussed what is important to you and how to create a closer relationship with your partner?  Sex is important in a relationship, however intimacy is equally important.  We delve into this and the difference between the two.

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