MJ Murray Vachon LCSW

Creating Midlife Calm: Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships

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Coping Skills for Midlife Stress and Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships Forget the midlife crisis—how about creating midlife calm ? The anxiety and stress of this life stage can drain your energy, fuel overthinking, and make it hard to enjoy what should be the best years of your life. This podcast offers practical coping skills to help you reduce anxiety, manage stress, and rediscover a calmer, more confident version of yourself. In Creating Midlife Calm , you’ll discover how to: Be happier, more present, and more effective at home and work. Transform stress and anxiety into powerful tool...

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MJ Murray Vachon LCSW

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mjmurrayvachon.com

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Jul 10, 2026

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Episodes

Ep.131 5 Simple Words That Will Transform Stress, Anxiety & Chaos Into Calm, To Make Better Midlife Decisions 20.02.2025

Feeling  overwhelmed by anxiety? Discover  five powerful words that can help you move from chaos to calm and help you  make better decisions in your daily life. In this episode, you’ll discover 1. How to recognize and shift from mental chaos or rigidity to a state of calm flow. 2. Discover actionable steps to re-regulate your body and observe your mind for           better  emotional control and d...

Ep. 130 1 Simple Coping Skill To Stop Stress & Anxiety From Spiraling Out Of Control & Derailing Midlife Calm 17.02.2025

Have you ever felt like anxiety hijacks your day, leaving you overwhelmed and disconnected from peace? Anxiety can strike at any moment—whether it’s an email, a text, or an unexpected life challenge—and derail your calm.  In this episode you’ll discover:  The transformative practice of noticing, naming, and taming anxiety to break free from overwhelming thoughts. How to harness the power of your b...

Ep. 129 From Criticism to Connection: How to Embrace Your Partner Imperfections & Quirks This Valentine’s Day 13.02.2025

What if the most meaningful Valentine’s gift you could give your partner also turned out to be the best gift you could give yourself? Whether you're feeling disconnected from your partner or caught up in midlife expectations, this episode provides a practical path to creating deeper love and connection. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How to embrace your partner's quirks and imperfe...

Ep. 128 The 1 Coping Skill That Will Transform Your Relationship This Valentines Day, For Reduced Stress & Anxiety & Joy In Midlife 10.02.2025

What if the most meaningful Valentine’s Day gift you could give this year doesn’t cost a penny—and could transform your relationship? In midlife, juggling work, family, and daily stress often leaves little time for meaningful connection. Traditional Valentine’s gifts like roses and chocolates might check the box, but they rarely spark lasting connection. By listening to this episode, you’ll discov...

Ep. 127 Emergency Episode: 5 Effective Coping Skills to Calm Overwhelming Stress & Anxiety Caused by Donald Trump & Elon Musk 08.02.2025

Is President Trump & Elon Musk governing style making you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or on high alert, you're not alone.   In this emergency episode, we address how to care for your mind in unpredictable times and regain a sense of calm—even when the world feels chaotic. In this episode, you’ll discover:  1. Five powerful coping strategies to reduce anxiety and regain control of your ment...

Ep. 126 The Incredible Way Mel Robbin's 'Let Them' Theory Can Help You To Navigate Midlife Stress & Anxiety with Confidence 06.02.2025

Have you ever found yourself caught in frustration over someone else’s choices?  Whether it’s your partner glued to their phone or a coworker missing deadlines, other people's behavior can trigger anxiety and stress . In this episode you’ll discover: Why letting go of control over others often brings up unexpected emotions—and how to address them. Practical strategies to move from “Let Them”...

Ep. 125 How Mel Robbins ‘Let Them’ Mindset Can Help You Reduce Midlife Stress & Anxiety with Simple Coping Skills 03.02.2025

Have you ever found yourself drained by trying to control other people’s decisions, only to realize it doesn’t work?  What if two simple words could change that and bring you more peace? In this episode you’ll discover: How the "Let Them" mindset can help you stop wasting energy on things outside your control, fostering inner peace. Learn practical steps to pause, breathe, and refocus yo...

Ep. 124 3 Science-Backed Coping Skills to Overcome Exercise Challenges in Midlife to Reduce Stress & Anxiety 30.01.2025

Struggling to stay consistent with your exercise goals? What if you could conquer the three biggest obstacles that hold you back? In this episode you’ll discover: 1. How to face the "I don't want to exercise" mindset with practical tools to stay committed. 2. Why patience, not quick results, leads to long-term success 3. How to distinguish between genuine rest and excuses, so you ca...

Ep. 123 Simple Hacks to Conquer Midlife Exercise Resistance, Shift Your Mindset, Decrease Stress & Anxiety This New Year 27.01.2025

In the New Year, are you tired of feeling stuck on the couch and longing for a way to embrace exercise—even if you’ve always hated it? In this episode, you’ll discover: A midlife mindset update to see yourself as someone who exercises to decrease anxiety and improve  your health.  How to choose movements you genuinely enjoy—no spandex required. Practical tips to find the time and energy for exerci...

Ep.122 3 Proven Coping Skills to Outsmart Your Smartphone and Decrease Stress & Anxiety & Reclaim 2 Hours a Day for Midlife Calm 23.01.2025

Do you ever feel like your smartphone is outsmarting you?  Want to gain two more hours in your day and decrease your anxiety? In this episode, you'll discover:   How the simple 3-step ACT plan can strengthen connections with yourself and others while easing tensions between parents and children over phone use. Why creating daily phone-free time can boost your mental health, productivity, and...

Ep. 121 Outsmarting Your Smartphone – The Science and Solutions You Need To Decrease Stress & Anxiety To Increase Midlife Calm 20.01.2025

Is your smartphone  increasing your anxiety, decreasing your focus, and preventing you from being productive and happy?   Discover the surprising science behind its impact—and how to take control. In this episode, you’ll discover: How excessive phone use rewires your brain, diminishing your ability to focus and enjoy everyday activities. The hidden ways your phone affects your sleep, relationships...

Ep. 120 3 Coping Skills To Decrease Overwhelm, Stress & Anxiety During The LA Wildfires & Mass Shootings 16.01.2025

How do you navigate the overwhelming emotions that come with hearing bad news in today’s world? Without the right tools to process these challenges, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, hopeless, or even numb.  In this episode you’ll discover:  A powerful three-step plan to process bad news while maintaining emotional balance. Practical tips for limiting and balancing your news consumption to protect yo...

Ep. 119 5-Minute Meditation to Ease Stress & Anxiety and Cultivate Compassion for LA Wildfires 12.01.2025

Are you heart broken and overwhelmed by the wild fires in Los Angelos? What if a simple five-minute meditation could help you transform those feelings into calm and compassion? In this episode you’ll discover:  A simple guided, five-minute meditation to calm anxiety and re-regulate your nervous system when bad news feels overwhelming. How to process difficult emotions like sadness and fear while c...

Ep. 118 4 Proven Coping Skills To Overcome Weight Loss Obstacles During Midlife 09.01.2025

Do you find yourself constantly battling obstacles that make losing weight feel impossible? In this episode you’ll discover:  How to stay focused on your weight loss journey, even in a world designed to tempt you. Creative, time-saving, and budget-friendly approaches to meal prep and healthy eating. Explore solutions for menopause and mental health related challenges so you can transform emotional...

Ep. 117 5 Proven Hacks to Achieve Midlife Weight Loss & Stop Feeling Stuck 06.01.2025

Is weight loss your New Year’s Resolution? This episode gives you 5 Proven Hacks to help you stop feeling stuck and finally see real results. In this episode you’ll discover:  How to shift from "needing" to "wanting" to lose weight and why this mindset change is crucial. Why setting realistic, manageable goals makes all the difference in long-term success. Find out how to enjoy...

Ep. 116 Crush Your New Year Goal With This One Surprising Coping Skill That Decreases Stress & Anxiety 02.01.2025

Are your New Year’s resolutions setting you up for failure? Do you want to  find a new way so you don’t give up on you?  In this episode you’ll discover: 1. Why focusing on one goal with a clear timeline boosts your chances of success. 2. How the power of moderation can help you set achievable goals and create lasting change. 3. How moderation creates space for flexibility, kindness, self-compassi...

Ep. 115 Overcome Fear and Anxiety & FINALLY Achieve Your New Years Resolutions With This Surprising Coping Skill In Midlife 30.12.2024

What if the real reason you struggle with New Year’s resolutions isn’t a lack of willpower?  In this episode you’ll discover: 1. Why fear of failure-not willpower- sabotages your goal and how to break free this New  Year 2. Practical tools to sit with discomfort, rewire your brain, and turn fear into possibility. 3. A way to visualize your success through “mental movies,” a powerful technique to b...

Ep.114 The 6 Minute Year End Review: That Will Change Your Life & Decrease Midlife Stress & Anxiety 26.12.2024

Have you ever stopped to celebrate what you’ve done right this year to decrease anxiety and increase calm?   In this episode, a six- minute reflection will help you : 1.Discover how reflecting on small, intentional changes can significantly decrease your stress levels and increase your mental clarity. 2. Evaluate your coping strategies by their effectiveness, time investment, and impact on  your w...

Ep. 113 4 Coping Skills for Managing Stress, Anxiety and Grief in Midlife During the Holidays 23.12.2024

Are the holidays bringing more heartache than joy this year? Discover practical ways to honor your grief and find moments of calm amidst your pain.  Holidays can be emotionally overwhelming, especially if you’re grieving the loss of a loved one or supporting someone through terminal illness.  In this episode  you’ll discover:       1. How to tune into your inner voice and trust it to guide your un...

Ep. 112 3 Practical Coping Skills to Decrease Stress & Anxiety To Navigate Toxic Family Dynamics During the Holidays 19.12.2024

Do you struggle to stay safe while spending time with toxic family members this holiday season? The holiday season often brings families together, but for those with toxic relationship patterns in their family, it can also bring tension, conflict, and emotional strain.  In this episode you’ll discover:  1. How to identify toxic behaviors and distinguish them from hurtful but resolvable actions. 2....

Ep. 111 3 Midlife Coping Skills for Family Stress & Anxiety During the Holidays 16.12.2024

Do family gatherings sometimes leave you feeling hurt or upset? Wondering how to keep the holidays joyful while handling tricky dynamics? The holiday season often brings people together, but it can also resurface old family dynamics and lead to hurtful interactions.  In this episode, you’ll discover:  1.     The key difference between hurtful and toxic behavior and why it matters. Learn three esse...

Ep. 110 Turn Holiday Shopping Into a Midlife Meditation & Coping Skill to Ease Stress & Anxiety 12.12.2024

Are you someone who loves shopping but struggles with anxiety, especially during the holidays? What if you could turn shopping into “shopitation”,  a mindfulness practice that actually helps decrease your anxiety and increase your calm?  .  In this  episode you’ll discover:    1. The definition and  science behind “shopitation” and  why shopping calms your anxiety.  2. How shopping can serve as a...

Ep. 109 5 Science-Backed Coping Skills To Conquer Holiday Shopping Stress & Anxiety To Find Calm 09.12.2024

Is holiday shopping making you anxious and overwhelmed? Dive into this episode to discover how to replace shopping stress with peace and calm.  Shopping anxiety is a common challenge during the holiday season, stemming from tight budgets, perfectionism, or sensory overload in busy stores.      In this episode, you’ll discover    1. How to manage shopping stress through grounding techniques and sma...

Ep. 108 Coping Skills To Bridge the Political Divide & Decrease Stress & Anxiety During The Holidays 05.12.2024

Are you worried that post election-related anxiety might cast a shadow over your holiday celebrations?  In this episode you’ll learn how to:      1. Use the science of emotional contagion to avoid spreading or absorbing anxiety during gatherings.       2. Set boundaries with grace, including one-liners and humor, to steer conversations away from divisive topics.      3. Regulate your emotions in g...

Ep. 107 Midlife Coping Skills for Anticipatory Anxiety & Stress Post Election 02.12.2024

Does the aftermath of the election leave you feeling stuck in a cycle of worry and dread--especially as you head into the holiday? You're not alone.    In this episode  you will learn how the uncertainties of our current political climate trigger anticipatory anxiety—a mental loop of fear about the future—as well as practical strategies to regain control of your mind.     You’ll discover: 1....

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