Courtship Code

It’s hard not to feel anxious, fearful of rejection or try to control the outcome with men when you don’t know how to court for commitment. Relationships can feel scary. You don’t want to get hurt or repeat past mistakes. And when you’re trying to figure out what you don’t know about courting for commitment on your own it’s easy to run back to past patterns or avoid meeting new men. Courtship beco...

If you’re meeting men and not happy with the experiences, you have a connection block or a communication block. You can turn this around, learn to court for commitment, and feel good doing it in the next 90 days with my simple 6 step process . But right now, it’s either your communication or your connection skills that’s blocking love. It’s simple because the Captivating Courtship Code guides you...

If you hate dating apps you don’t have to use them to meet men. You can delete every single app, come off social media, and never use a third party connector to introduce you to new men, ever again. Because the truth is HOW you’re meeting men isn’t WHY you’re not meeting men, or why you don’t enjoy courting for commitment. Listen, dating apps aren’t your enemy no more than being an introvert is st...

If you haven’t gotten to a space in your love life where you’re meeting new men, getting in person experiences, and working towards commitment with a man who is ready there are 3 simple things you can change to increase your pool of compatible options for a committed relationship. Yes, it’s just that simple. Any one of these 3 steps can increase your pool of options, get you lots of new real life...

If you’re feeling lost with where to start, how to actually court for commitment, courting a man who won’t commit, or can’t figure out why you’re always so close to being in the relationship you desire but conversations around commitment always go left, and you can’t figure out why… You’ll want to pay close attention to this episode. The path to courting for commitment can easily be broken down in...

Do you have a fear your relationship options are limited so you'll be single forever? If you've had those thoughts or want to run far away from similar thoughts, this is the episode for you. Thinking your options are limited is exactly what limits your relationship options and creates the feeling of hopelessness and pressure during the dating & courtship process. This is the opposite of what y...

Do you believe you haven't met your partner because you just don't know where to meet a man? If so, this episode is for you. Many women think that they're limited to finding a partner because they just don't know where to meet a partner, but that's not true. The truth is, there are other things that's causing you to not meet your partner, and until you work that noise out of your love journey you...

There are 3 high value mindsets that make you more attractive to the types of men you desire. However, there are also 3 main low value mindsets that will sabotage your love life. And if you have any of these mindsets you'll find yourself having a lot of noise in your head when it comes to courtship and dating. This noise will make your question your value, waste time, and be highly attracted to me...

So often as women, we mistake high value relationships with materials or high earning men. And this can cause a ton of confusion and low value dating & courtship experiences. You may also believe that courting high value as a woman is about playing games, making the man chase you, or making the man jump through hurdles to prove he’s “the one.” On today's episode we discuss what high value cour...

On today's episode we're sharing with you a clip from a Monday Coffee chat about trust & intentions from the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program. Every Monday Zara goes live in the private coaching community for Q&A and in depth coaching on a particular topic. This episode is from a livestream on trust, pure relationship intentions, and feminine intuition for those needing to self-...

You’ve been making efforts to get your love life on the right track and that’s not easy, especially if you struggle with trusting the courtship process and feeling confident you can attract better relationships. So I want to share with you today key steps to increase trust that I share with the ladies of the Captivating Courtship Code program , so you can turn this around and open your heart fully...

Have you ever opened your heart to a courtship that eventually led to a disappointing breakup? We’ve all been there. In fact, it’s really hard to feel confident to trust again after disappointment and believing your guy was truly the right one for you… Want to know what I’ve learned? Oftentimes positive courtship experiences don’t fall off because a man wasn’t seriously interested in you. On today...

When you’ve been through heartbreak, disappointment or trauma, no matter how big or small, it’s hard to trust yourself…let alone trust others. In Captivating Courtship Code we give you the tools you need to rebuild your trust muscles and get out of a scarcity mindset. Getting out of love survival mode and stepping into love abundance is required for you to finally trust yourself and create the rel...

Do you remember Merida from Brave? Yes, Humairah reminds us of a disney character! A student of Captivating Courtship Code, she hit rock bottom when she felt disconnected not only from others around her but even herself. She knew something was off, she wasn’t showing up authentically in her relationships and always second guessed her own decisions. In this episode, Humairah tells us how exhausted...

Are you ready to stop questioning if you’ll ever find the one? What if you could do it in 6 simple steps and use a process that has been proven to help women just like you attract their partner and change their love life within months? And what if you could do it without all the guesswork and heartbreak? In today's episode I share with you the 6 steps you need to attract your partner along with a...

If you’ve ever felt like your career, ambition, intellect or independence makes you the type of woman men look over, I want to offer you consider this: Everyday I coach women who are the total package, beauty and brains. And even if you don’t believe that you’re the smartest or the prettiest woman in the world…the man who connects with your heart and values who you authentically are, DOES. Here’s...

On today's episode we have an intimate conversation with a member of the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program about her journey from ex to next. She details her painful breakup and past toxic relationship, along with the inner and actionable changes she had to make to attract her husband within months of getting started with coaching.  Are you ready to move on from your ex and step into you...

Are you a busy woman who feels clueless about how to meet compatible men who actually want to commit to marriage? Maybe you’ve already tried online dating and haven’t had any luck? Two mistakes many women make is taking a lot of the same efforts to meet men that’s not working…and not knowing how to meet and qualify lots of commitment ready men WHILE being pursued. NO CHASING. No more treating cour...

Have you ever experienced conflict during courtship that stirred up the fear of being ghosted and never hearing from your guy again? Now you’re feeling super anxious, checking your phone hoping he’ll text back, and deep down inside you know your emotional reactions may have been a little too much? And then you think…every time you get close to men and they see your flaws they leave? Because men li...

This is a very vulnerable episode for me. There have been a lot of things occurring in the past 24 hours that inspired today's episode. Are you a spiritual woman who's had the burden of having to break generational patterns and make new and different changes for your family tree? If so, this episode is for you. In this episode I'm sharing some personal things I've experienced in the past 24 hours...

Are you a career ambitious woman who worries your success will make you less attractive and desirable to the types of men you want to marry? Have you had men tell you your past or your love journey makes you unworthy of the partner you'd want? If so, this episode breaks down the truth and what you need to know about being an ambitious woman and finding your life partner or a committed relationship...

March kicks off the first Captivating Month of the year, our group coaching enrollment period. During this month I'm going to share lots of information on how you can Captivate Courtship, Testimonial case studies, and lots if information on the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program. Have Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship APPLY NOW TO BOOK YOUR CALL www.captiv...

Have you recently gone through a breakup or divorce and have a hard time believing that you're going to be able to find love again? You're not alone. Many women share this experience and avoid taking a chance on love again out of fear of being hurt, or finding out they are no longer desirable. That's how one of my clients thought prior to working with me. She felt totally discouraged about getting...

Have you ever tried online dating or asking friends to introduce you to men and feeling like nothing is helping you meet compatible, quality men? Now you’re feeling clueless about what to do or where to start meeting great guys, so you avoid the entire process? Maybe you’re burnt out from trying to figure why didn’t the guy who seemed interested call? Or why are all the men you’re meeting never th...

When I owned a matchmaking service I used to believe where to find a partner was the biggest challenge singles faced. But, I quickly realized there were key things women were overlooking and didn’t know how to identify that kept them single or wasting time way longer than they had to be. Yes, you do need to know the best actionable places to meet men, but what’s more important is meeting men who a...