Courtship Code

Let’s address a big elephant you may not even realize is in the room. The belief that relationship coaching is for rich white women. The thought that only the privileged pay for relationship services like coaching, matchmaking, or other high-end love investments, and that it’s not what, “We do.” And you’re absolutely correct. So on this episode we discuss this very limiting belief and how to...

Courtship should be a memorable experience, not a discouraging one. High achieving women, like you, work hard enough daily. You carry mental weight from work. Emotional weight from your family. And right now, your love life may feel equally heavy. This is why you SHOULDN’T have to work hard at attracting a partner, and carry all of the weight to make it happen, alone. On today's episode we discuss...

Bonus Episode: 10 Mistakes Coaching Clients Make to Avoid  Apply to CCC 2.0 and Book your Consultation www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Free Breakup with your type masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup

You are not crazy for not being married yet. You are still a great catch even if you haven’t met your match, YET. Unfortunately, it’s normal to feel ashamed of your love life when you’ve done well in other areas of your life, yet, you still struggle with relationships. It’s normal to want to experience the next chapter of your life and be done with single life. And it’s okay that it’s taken some t...

There are three skills high achieving women need for better courtship experiences. Right now, you may be lacking one of these skills. Or you could be lacking all three. There’s also the possibility that you have all three of these relationship skills, YET, you’re not applying them in the right way when it comes to dating & courtship. But if you want to meet more men quickly, and have better co...

Do you have a hard time balancing your career and making time to attract a partner? If you want to attract a great guy, have an interesting social life, and lessen burnout from always having to put work life and responsibilities first then this episode is for you. Right now, you may want to feel confident about options available and actually meeting them. And you may want to finally let go of the...

On this episode Zara shares her journey with jumpstarting goals and coaching, the impact it's had on her life, and how to make the decision to jumpstart your love life with the same mindset and actions that's worked for her.  DOORS TO THE RELATIONSHIP RESET ARE NOW OPEN Apply to Coaching Now www.captivatingcourtship.com/application

On this bonus episode we discuss the importance of teaching men how to treat you and how to do it authentically to receive more love and commitment from men and the type of relationship you desire. Enrollment for The Relationship Reset Opens September 26th-30th Get on The Relationship Reset Waitlist https://app.convertkit.com/forms/designers/3485806/edit Questions? DM @zaracaptivatingcourtship

Today is a behind the scenes episode of our weekly Monday Coffee Chat. This live coaching snippet focuses on anxious attachment to men during courtship and the beginning of a relationship and how to reset it. Every week in coaching we bring you live coaching directly in our private student community, in addition to our weekly live coaching calls. The goal is to help you get clear and focused on ta...

If meeting men has left you feeling exhausted, not getting past a few weeks or a few conversations, or you’re anxiously attaching to men as soon as you meet them then you may be meeting men the wrong way. Meeting more men doesn’t have to lead to painful disappointment and frustration. You may think the men you meet aren’t ready for commitment. But this thought only makes you lean in with anxious c...

How you think about courtship will impact how you experience courtship. This means if you want courtship to feel good you must think good things about meeting new men, letting them know you’re single and looking, and accepting invitations to connect with them. When you tell your brain what to focus on, you will look for ways to make it happen. On today's episode we discuss how to train your brain...

A part of resetting your love life is releasing your childhood insecurities so you can stop letting your wounded inner girl attract men. You’re not broken. You’re not damaged. You simply have some healing to do, that’s normal and okay. Stepping out of your Wounded Princess Energy will require more than writing in a journal or talking about your wounds. That’s just a start. You need to dive deep in...

Anxiously attached women often find themselves putting all their eggs in one basket (the man) very early on in the dating and courtship process. When you first meet a new guy that you really like, focusing on him and pre-committing to the idea of the relationship may feel like the most natural thing to do. This often leads to cycles of hot-cold relationships, time wasted, and completely running pa...

If you think being an introvert gets in the way of attracting a partner, let me share a secret. Introverted women can experience courtship and meeting more quality men easier than you think. Your introversion will activate your authentic ability to embody feminine energy, communicate on a deeper level, and create authentic connections with quality men. This is a good thing. When a man feels safe w...

Right now, you may think you’ve made a lot of mistakes and feel hopeless. Or that you only attract men who aren’t ready, non-committal or emotionally unavailable. But the truth is you have to know how to qualify men and make high quality relationship decisions. Making decisions for your love life that don’t align or feel consistent with what you want is not creating the type of love life you want....

In this episode you'll learn 10 mistakes women make with courtship and attracting a relationship and how to avoid them. We also breakdown what's inside of the Relationship Reset coaching program, who it's for, and the enrollment process. JOIN THE RELATIONSHIP RESET WAITLIST CLICK HERE https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/5625f6a1a1 Questions? Send a DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

The gap between thinking and knowing is stopping you from attracting long-term commitment, today. Here's what you must understand, it’s not that men don’t see your real value or that men like the idea of you and not the real you. You simply aren’t communicating your value to the right men, in an authentic way, that makes your value UNDENIABLE. This is what closes the gap between thinking and knowi...

If you want to feel secure, valued and pursued by a man who wants commitment, letting relationship anxiety drive the courtship process will always backfire. Instead, you need to communicate your value without attempting to prove you’re good enough to be chosen by overthinking, overdoing, and desperate clingy energy. When you do this you will no longer overthink every interaction. You will feel saf...

What if you could hit the reset button on your love life and start taking action, increase your confidence, and meet lots of new men…would you? If so, then the first step to resetting is to break the pattern of not meeting men or meeting the wrong men. You can do this by getting clear on the current patterns that’s blocking love and reignite your intuition so you can trust yourself to make better...

Taking action, repeating experiences, not seeming to get past the same relationship point. You’re tired of hot-cold relationships and you've been in this cycle for years. What you really want a loving, committed relationship with a man who is emotionally available and ready for commitment without having to apply pressure or convince him. Here's the thing, you must actually believe that you can get...

Being a professional matchmaker taught me a ton of lessons that led me to creating the Captivating Courtship Code. Any of these lessons can get you one step closer to understanding what’s been making courtship difficult for you AND they will make all of your relationships better. Because how you do one thing is how you do everything. So, by improving your romantic relationships and applying the le...

In today's episode I share my own personal journey with commitment and how I've had to learn to think about my own personal struggles with staying committed, and what I've done to focus on my health goals instead of giving up. I also share how the same mindset will help you in your journey to finding a partner and your relationship goals. Doors to Coaching Close June 15th Apply now www.captivating...

Doors to the Captivating Courtship Code 1.0 are closing for good June 15th. Want to know how to make courtship fun again and get back in control of your love life? This episode breaks it all down for you. In this episode you'll know all the details to know if CCC is the right fit for you before the opportunity to get coached to your happily ever after goes away.  APPLY TO CCC AND BOOK CONSULT...

Getting to know your relationship patterns and breaking old patterns that no longer work for you is the first step towards attracting a stable relationship, all while not being hard on yourself. This isn’t easy. So today we have a testimonial episode of The Captivating Courtship Code student who not only broke old relationship patterns but also attracted her husband in less than 12 months. Join us...

If you have been stuck in a situationship more than once, it’s not by chance, it’s by design. It’s a pattern which you think you can’t break through because running back to the past seems familiar, safe and comfortable. OR You’re on the other end of the spectrum trying to desperately move on without resolving and working on your own past relationship trauma. You know you don’t feel valued or respe...