Courtship Code

Have your relationship patterns been keeping you in a loop of attracting the same men and courtship experiences? What if I told you my clients are able to drastically improve the quality of their love life by breaking their relationship patterns, get engaged or even married within a year of working with me? There are some key things you can shift in the next 6 months that can truly change your lov...

If you’re used to being the strong friend and the one everyone leans on for advice, you may feel really isolated when it comes to your love life. You may turn to your friends for advice on where to meet someone, why your ex won’t commit, or what you may need to do differently but their answers are vague, negative, or just plain unhelpful. On today’s episode we’re chatting about why your friend's a...

Have you ever met a man and after one conversation you’re planning the wedding, baby names, and your life together in your head? And then you experience a major shift in the developing relationship. Suddenly, he’s no longer pursuing you and appears to have lost interest. You then become even more anxious and do anything you can to keep his attention or the connection, and before you know it the ho...

When I first started matchmaking I was naive to the psychology of relationships and why people continued to create the same experiences over and over again. No matter the degree, income bracket, or desire for marriage I’d see the same behaviors that caused clients to sabotage their own happiness. After my 5th year of working in the industry, one day it just hit me what was really going on. I’m goi...

Want to know a secret most relationship coaches won’t tell you? Looking for Red Flags is the WRONG way to Attract Quality Men. You need to shift your focus away from Red Flags because it’s making you anxious, judgemental, and taking you out of your feminine energy. You’re so focused on trying to see if a man is Bad for you that you’re not paying attention to who’s ACTUALLY right for you. Then what...

Believing being a feminine woman means shrinking yourself, people pleasing, or being inauthentic so you can be seen as wife worthy is the complete opposite of being feminine and causes low value attraction, relationship anxiety, and for some high achieving women, you’ll avoid meeting men altogether out of fear of rejection and not being “submissive enough” for the types of men you desire. This is...

If you’re a high achieving woman who wants to attract a masculine man without shrinking or feeling unworthy, this is for you! First, I want you to know and understand that masculine & feminine energy exists in both sexes, so being a feminine woman is already within you. Right now, you just feel disconnected from it. So If you want to stop feeling disconnected and reignite your high value femin...

Missed us? Courtship Code Podcast is BACK! And we've got some super exciting news for the New Year. Here's everything you can look forward to and so much more.

We’ve been flooded with lots of questions about the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program, especially wanting to know, what’s inside? So here’s all the program details . We want you to have as much information as you need to feel good about moving your love life forward and finally taking a step in a new direction. Captivating Courtship Code walks you through EXACTLY how to break relat...

Do you run the other way or feel super anxious when it's time to take action in your love life? If you can relate, listen to Sumaya share her story of going from avoiding and anxious with relationships to getting engaged in less than a year. This quick episode comes from our Case Study Tuesdays every Tuesday on Instagram. Enrollment is Closing 12/23/21 Apply Now www.captivatingcourtship.com/coachi...

You’ve been trying to do this love thing for quite some time, and all of the almost-kinda relationships just haven’t been as fulfilling as you may have hoped. When you’ve been in a loop of hot/cold relationships, non-committed connections, or spending more time thinking about relationships than actually having relationships. The fear of wasting all of your primary love years feeling clueless and r...

In this special episode of The Courtship Code podcast, we have a discussion with a Captivating Courtship Code alumni who shares her experience with coaching, and why joining The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program was so much more than learning how to get a man. Instead, Tamara shares how coaching gave her the opportunity to rediscover herself. When we first met Tamara, she booked a call t...

If you could avoid this courtship pitfalls and attract a loving relationship sooner, would you? Everyday at Captivating Courtship we work with smart, successful, powerhouse women who are ready to meet the love of their life. They’re done with feeling relationship anxiety and uncertain about how to attract the right man, and even though they may have some relationship fears, they’re committed to be...

Have you ever built a relationship with a man who appears to be exactly the kind of man who would be a perfect fit for you, and he just won’t commit? You two have a connection. Maybe even common education or ambitions...so the relationship SHOULD work, right? He seems really invested, values your intelligence and communication, yet, he just won’t move the relationship forward? Next thing you know...

What does it mean to manifest your relationship goals and does it really work? One special part of making your relationship goals come to life is spirituality and energetics of love and attraction. Knowing how to trust your intuition and align with the right partner and relationship for you makes courtship more enjoyable and speeds up the process of getting your prayers answered and meeting your r...

If you’re like many ambitious, high achieving women you probably struggle with your feminine energy and feeling fully emotionally connected. This can appear as being slightly emotionally unavailable, uncertain about how you truly feel when engaging with men, or a fear around being vulnerable, seen and heard. While this disconnect may have helped you zero in on your analytical side and accomplish m...

When you’re a woman who’s been holding onto a non-committal or emotionally unavailable man, you can feel like you’re in a hopeless cycle of attracting the wrong kinds of men and relationships with no possibility of having the type of relationship you actually desire. Especially when you feel addicted to the man and the pain of breaking away seems like too much to bear. And you don’t want any man,...

When you’re a woman who’s never seen a happy healthy relationship, lack a circle of girlfriends who are happy with their love lives, or simply feel clueless about what steps to make or how to attract the right man for you dating & courtship can feel extremely stressful and cause you to overthink your way into feeling discouraged. Clarity is what stops your relationship anxiety and repeat exper...

If you’re a woman who’s ready to set the new year on fire and finally take steps to commit to being committed, this podcast series is for you. For the rest of the year we’re focusing on Relationship goals, what they are and how to make them come to life. So grab a pen and paper, and let’s get serious about your dream relationship. On today’s episode, we discuss 6 shifts you can make in the new yea...

When you’re communicating with a man do you lean more on intimacy or commands in order to get what you want? For some women, who aren’t avoiders, manipulation, demands, and over-explaining is their go-to tool to make a man hear their point of view. Only this way of communicating typically backfires and causes him to go cold, pull away, or place walls around his heart. Instead, what if you mastered...

Are you ready to meet more men in less time? In this special segment of the Courtship Code Podcast, we discuss a match game plan hack to help you increase your pool of options so you can get clear and intentional about meeting your Mr. Right, and attracting your dream relationship sooner. So often single women wait and avoid taking the best steps with dating and courtship, and only believe simply...

If you’re ready to become a queen of courtship this is the episode for you. You opportunity to enroll in the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program during our Captivating Month, ends tonight. Have you been curious about what happens when you decide to captivate courtship and finally create your match game plan? What about the path to success and the promise we make to our coaching community o...

It’s time to have a real conversation about getting the relationship you actually want. Too often, women settle for relationships they don’t desire because deep down inside they don’t believe they can actually have it. They operate on love survival mode, and allow themselves to create stories that are rooted in a lack of trust, fear, disbelief, and clarity that keeps them safe and unhappy, despite...

Many women underestimate the power and value of their feminine energy, and exactly how special you are as womb carriers. You have the magic to move mountains, if you learn to work with your body and stop fighting against it. On today's episode, womb health specialist, coach and doula, Odessa Thornhill dives deep into the energy and power women hold to manifest major change, generational trauma, an...

Are you feeling clueless about how to navigate courtship and attracting compatible men and wondering if your mother would've given you more insight on how to date & court for commitment you would be in a better place in your love life?  This is a common concern many women face when it comes to their love life, and feeling stuck and confused about why they're so unsupported when it comes t...