Courtship Code

Courtship and dating can be a fun experience that gives you the opportunity to meet and enjoy new mem while embarking on a journey to meet your future husband OR It can be an anxious, stressful, heart wrenching and tiring road that leaves you feeling emotionally drained, undervalued, and completely over it. What if I told you YOU play a major role in which of these experiences you actually have? I...

Do you often feel like men aren't stepping up to pursue you and if you don't do the heavy lifting they won't ask questions, plan meetups, or move the relationship along? If so this episode breaks down the shifts you need to make to create a different experience for yourself and shift into the role of being led instead of leading. Join the free women's only Facebook Group at www.captivatingcourtshi...

Are you too busy with work and school to have time for your relationships or courting? Do you find yourself constantly putting family or your children's needs above your own? How would it feel to finally decide your love life is worth putting first? On this episode we discuss the real reasons you believe you don't have time for love. Join the FREE Facebook group www.captivatingcourtship.com/Facebo...

Short and sweet PSA about giving Yourself Grace with Relationships and remembering the tools in your tool box to do better and get it right.

Are you convinced your career, intellect, education, or income is too intimidating for men these days and has pushed men away? What If I told you being an independent woman has nothing to do with your challenges with finding a compatible partner who sees and aligns with your values? What if...there were things you’re doing or NOT doing energetically that’s repelling the types of men you desire to...

On this episode we discuss 3 things you're probably thinking right now that's sabotaging your love life and will continue keeping you stuck plus 20 things you need to gain to transform your love life and relationships right now. Doors to the 12 month group coaching program ends soon. To join, book a call at www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com OR send Zara a D...

Are you to receive a good man? On this episode we explore this question and being deeply transparent with ourselves about our alignment with the good partners we desire and the work required to attract the good man of your dreams. Ready to join coaching? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply or contact @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram to book a call.

Have you been asking yourself, where do I find a good partner or relationship? If so, this episode dives into why you've been asking the WRONG question and what you need to ask yourself instead. Doors are open to the 12 month Captivating Courtship Code coaching program and closes soon. Ready to join? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply to book a call. Follow Zara @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on...

Have you ever examined the REAL cost of courtship? Meaning, the impact of not making significant, long term changes in your relationships has on your overall life? You may be surprised there are things you're totally ignoring and preventing yourself from achieving simply by not knowing the impact and importance of the the things we're discussing on this episode. I'm going to share with you three t...

So your friends and family been telling you to let things come naturally, again? 🤔 While you sit and stress about your love life and possibly missing out on marriage connection, a family and deep intimacy...they're telling you to just wait and be patient? Or they'll pray for you...but no real action being put behind it? That sounds really good, but let's talk about the numbers of love...I'll call...

Who are the negative influences on your love life and relationships? How are they impacting your dating and courtships? If you're unaware of the impact or in need of a new circle of influence this episode will breakdown why the impact of the people around you are keeping you stuck in a major way. Join the FREE Facebook Group www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup to keep the discussion going....

Are you waiting for the pandemic to end before you put yourself back into the courtship and dating world? Are you tired of online dating and feel you've done everything you can do and nothing is working? That's because you're focused on the wrong step. You're more focused on where to meet partners that you're completely ignoring how you're showing up and the thought process you currently have that...

Are you struggling with relationship anxiety during dating, courtship, and relationships? Are you aware of what relationship anxiety is? How will you manage it? If you're a woman who struggles with managing anxiety in relationships this episode is for you. We discuss how to identify if you're feeling relationship anxiety, why you have it, and what to do about it. Join the FREE Captivating Courtshi...

Have you ever felt like you're consistently attracting toxic, emotionally unavailable, narcissistic men? Do you feel you keep attracting the same kinds of partners and experiences, just with different faces? There are reasons why this is happening AND you can shift this and turn your love life around. We're discussing this challenge on this week's podcast so you can dive deeper into your accountab...

Intimacy, courtship, and love can be extremely scary. Especially for those with a deep fear of being seen, heard, or rejected. It doesn't have to be such a major marriage and relationship challenge, you just have to learn to communicate from a place of courage and less fear. Join the FREE Facebook group for women and post your relationship questions. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup BOOK...

This week we discuss the problem and challenges of being a hopeless romantic and how focus on romance over reality usually leads to major red flags in love, courtship, dating and marriage. Join the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group and apply for coaching at www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Today we discuss a few reasons high achieving women tend to show up low value and with low standards despite feeling confident in other areas of their life. We cover topics such as compatibility, narcissistic partners, respect, materialism and the sabotaging mindsets that keeps this pattern going. To learn more or book a coaching call visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Follow Zara J. On I...

Have you been thinking about coaching? This episode is a quick overview about 1 on 1 and new group coaching Captivating courtship coaching programs.

Do you feel men don't commit? This episode discusses that myth and more. Join the FREE Facebook group for women only, Captivating Courtship Code and post a discussion comment to keep the conversation going. Learn more about coaching at www.captivatingcourtship.com

Continuing the conversation about wounded Passion Patterns, this bonus episode shares the 4th common wounded passion patterns. Passion Pattern Profiles are the signature 8 different patterns Zara J. Has uncovered over the years of matchmaking and relationship coaching that leads to single sabotage and staying in a single cycle for years and year. FREE MASTERCLASS How Successful Spiritual Women Bre...

What are 3 of the most common passion patterns? Today we discuss the 3 most common wounded passion patterns that sabotage your love life and keep you stuck in a single cycle. Breaking patterns can be hard but with clarity, intention, and inner work you can reprogram the way you've been attracting partners and now have an amazing love life with a partner who sees your value and desires commitment....

Been curious about Captivating Courtship coaching programs or Wounds to Worth coaching? This week we discuss 10 ways to identify if you have a wounded Passion Pattern. Grab a pen and paper and see how many times you say YES. Want to join the FREE training, How Successful Spiritual Women Break Their Single Cycle? Join the Facebook group, Captivating Courtship Code, to gain access to the FREE traini...

Back for another episode on this episode Zara J. Shares 5 tips she's learned by age 34, tips include how to appreciate and gain perspective on blessings, if not you then who, the number one thing she likes to remember about love, and more. Continue the discussion or post your relationship questions in the private, women only Facebook group, Captivating Courtship Code, and download your FREE Captiv...

Do you have children or open to marrying someone with children? This episode touches on a few tips you may want to consider when blending families or courting someone while being a parent. Visit captivatingcourtship.com for FREE resources

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