Courtship Code

Author and Speaker of the books, A Taste of Honey and Kunyaza, Habeeb Akande, joins us for an amazing discussion on pleasure, sex, and insecurities both men and women face in the bedroom. Follow Habeeb on Instagram at @Habeeb_Akande to purchase his books or learn more about his work. You can follow Zara J. @_zaraj_ to connect. Don't forget to subscribe to Courtship Code and leave a Review!

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This week we're ending our Courtship series with Courtship Beyond Your 40s. Relationships and marriage can be a challenge for any group but when you're over 40 the intention and plan shifts and is focused even more on the long game. Ready to start coaching? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com . Follow Zara @_zaraj_ on Instagram Don't forget to leave a review...

In the Episode if the courtship code we continue the courtship bracket series and dive into courtship in your 30s. The 30s can be one of the most stressful yet most important brackets when it comes to finding the love, marriage, or partnership your desire. It takes a deeper level of patience and understanding to navigate this decade. Checkout the insight and tips from matchmaking and relationship...

Welcome to Season 3 and Happy New Year! In this week's episode we discuss Courtship in your twenties, mistakes many young Singles make when trying to get married, and tips you can use towards marriage and courtship before thirty. The keyword for this age bracket is proactive. Learning to be proactive about your love life is essential to make the most of your foundational years in your twenties. Re...

On this week's podcast we discuss 5 lessons Zara has learned from her late father about marriage, relationships, and communication that has impacted her and set an example for real life achievable relationship goals. Follow @_zaraj_ or visit www.captivatingcourtship.com to book a call or watch a FREE video about the Captivating Courtship program

On this episode we discuss what ego and mindset shifts you need to make in the new year in order to change your love life. Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com to book a discovery call or for FREE downloads to help you attract quality matches. .

You are what you attract. Don't like how that makes you feel? Listen up, on this week's episode we discuss how your own emotional Unavailability is attracting emotionally unavailable partners. You'll learn 3 questions you can journal and ask yourself to gain a deeper clarity on your own relationship sabotage and then you'll receive 2 tips to turn your emotional availability around in relationships...

I'm a huge fan of Real Housewives of Atlanta and couldn't hold back from discussing season 12 and Kenya Moore's narcissistic marriage. If you've checked out episode S2E20 Why Smart Successful Women Attract Toxic Men then this gives real life application to everything mentioned. From Kenya's unhealed emotional wounds to her deep need for validation, she is the perfect attraction for a narcissist. W...

Hey! On this week's episode of the Courtship Code we discuss fun facts about the psychology of Cuffing Season and why you're so drawn to coupling and relationships during this time of the year. It's more than just a feeling! Your desire to find a great partner and avoid loneliness is a natural combination of evolution and psychology. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit captivatingcourtship.com t...

This quick episode provides 3 Questions to ask yourself in order to get clear on your own trust issues and what you need to do to turn it around. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit captivatingcourtship.com to book a 20 minute discovery call. We will discuss your current dating/relationship struggle, a few tips to turn it around, and how the proven 6 week program can work for you. Follow Zara @_...

Ready to Captivate Courtship? Sometimes it's just a small gap between the mindset and actions you have and where you need to be that's keeping you stuck, frustrated, and wasting years not meeting quality partners. If you want to learn how coaching can help fast track your love life listen to this episode for all the details. Then, visit the website or send an email and book a 20 minute discovery c...

On this week's episode of the Courtship Podcast Divorce Coach Tonya Carter discusses with the us the importance and impact of divorcing your story, finding your purpose, and using your setback as a catalyst for get back. Follow Tonya on Instagram @mstonyaspeaks for more information and content about how you can divorce your story and turn heartbreak into a breakthrough. BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL www.c...

Why do smart, successful women attract toxic men? Why do good girls love bad guys? Despite what you may think it's not always as simple to break up with your childhood as you may desire. In actuality, toxic partners prefer high quality partners, and not the weakest link. Today, we discuss 5 reasons you may be attracting toxic relationships despite your career success. Follow Zara on Instagram @_za...

New season means a new opportunity to get the stress and sweat of the summer off of you can turn a new leaf with your relationship habits. Just like any other good or bad habit we’ve developed overtime, we also have relationship habits. So this week’s episode is about creating new, and healthy relationship habits that you can commit to before the year is out, even if you’re not currently seeing an...

Could you use an extra $5k a year? Financial Coach, Tasha Kinnard, brings us the mindset and approach to start making money moves and teaches how it starts with mindset. Tasha exposes how unmarried women have the upper hand to start getting ahold of their finances and leverage their spending money to increase a minimum of $5k a year. We had a ton of fun talking money, relationships, and how your c...

On this week's episode of the Courtship Code podcast we share with pastor, speaker, singer, and brand strategist Rachel Yvonne. Rachel is amazing at being fully authentic and shares some lessons with the importance of owning your story and embracing shame and guilt. Learning to embrace your shame and guilt in order to feel more authentic is extremely important in all areas of life, especially with...

Hey everyone, I was led to share a very personal forgiveness story in this episode because I know so many listeners are burdened by a lack of forgiveness. I want you to listen to and share this episode with someone you know who needs to learn about forgiveness. This was SUPER intimate and personal for me, so I thank you for listening and allowing me to share my story in order to help your story. T...

Do you want to attract better matches on online dating sites? We have created a FREE Popping profile cheat sheet for you to download as a go to checklist to enhance your profile. In this episode I share with you 3 ways to maximize your profile plus a reminder to get over the fear of being seen. These tips include: 1. Photo tips 2. High energy words 3. Non specific description you can get your FREE...

Do you know how to play your position? In this week's episode we share 3 ways to get out of your own way and start playing your position. You can checkout the Free Attract Your Match webinar at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/podcast/s2e14 www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/attractyourmatch Follow on Instagram @_zaraj_ @blackmuslimsinglessociety you can join the Match Society at www.blackmuslimsi...

Listen, I understand how easily it is to get emotionally triggered because you're not in the relationship you desire, but as one of my favorite rap lyric goes..."I'm not the captain of the yacht but I'm on the boat." You're still In the game. You have to practice gratitude for your courtship journey and relationships on your road to marriage. Youre probably doing better than most in your love life...

Have you ever felt like you're meeting the same types of people, experiencing the same relationships or courtships, and are going through deja vu experiences in your love life? That means that you're experiencing tests in your courtships that's telling you it's time to change up whatever behavior you're continuing to repeat and increase your self worth and make different choices that reflect that...

We interviewed Nyla and Fatimah from Outstanding Personal Relationships, a family, marriage and polygyny coaching business that helps families learn how to improve communication skills, and gain support on how to have healthy polygyny. The ladies broke down how they struggled with building a relationship and communication in the beginning of their poly family and how they finally came to a cross r...

Nadirah Pierre is a social media Influencer with a huge spirit, who uses her platform to Inspire change in the Muslim community. Today we interviewed her to dive deeper into her views on courtship, marriage, and even her personal experience as an Influencer and Muslim woman in the public eye. You can follow Nadirah Pierre on Instagram @nadirah.p Follow Zara on Instagram @_ZaraJ_ Follow BMSS @Black...

This week's episode of Courtship Code we discuss Q&A about wordly baggage, how everyone is struggling with something, and share an awesome listener review. Courtship Code is the go to podcast where we discuss all things related to relationships and courtship from the Muslim perspective. Check us out at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow on Instagram and Facebook @blackmuslimsinglessociety fo...