Clearing the Wreckage

Send us Fan Mail   What up my wreckage clearers. On this episode we get down and dirty and raw. Unfiltered truth and reality as always. We are going to talk about the victim mentality and how it holds us back from growth and personal development. How it can keep us stuck. Repeating the same cycles and same default behavior. Why? Because for the most part it is something we created ourselves so tha...

Send us Fan Mail  Hey my Wreckage Clearers! in this episode we discuss how comfort keeps up stuck. It keeps us bound to the same level of life. The same routine. The same behaviors. The familiar. The known. We all have vices and or something we escape toward to bring us comfort. It could be food, sex, drugs, alcohol, or it could be our default behaviors. Such as yelling, screaming, shutting down w...

Send us Fan Mail  Hey My Wreckage Clearers! In this episode we discuss how darkness has now fully enclosed around me. I am now in my cocoon and I am afraid of the dark. I don't know why this is happening. I don't understand and because I don't understand, I must escape. However, you cannot escape the darkness. Every where I turned it was more darkness, there was no light. You cannot...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers!! It has been a journey hasn't it. Well, it's time to go into the dark places where you and I do not want to go. It is total darkness and we can't see and it feels like complete desolation and doom. However, the darkness has to invade so that there will be light. Eventually we must and we will if we allow the process to take place without in...

Send us Fan Mail  Hey my wreckage clearers! Yes, we have anther great episode on our identity. Which could feel like there is a crisis going on when we cover ourselves with this constructed identity. I am here to share with you how from the very moment we were born, our identity is being constructed. The only issue is that it is being formed by others. However, the beauty in this is that it is nee...

Send us Fan Mail Hey My wreckage clearers! In this episode we discuss and dive a little deeper into the my old identity. We talk more about the pain and the pursuit of perfection. I also share with you more details of how I was really feeling at that time when I was grieving myself. I truly was dying and it was meant for me to die. Not a physical death but a mental and emotional death so that I ca...

Send us Fan Mail  Hey my wreckage clearers! What's up? We got a great episode today where we will discuss the feelings of sorrow and how being abandoned at an early age left a lot of wreckage. Trauma and wounds that I am still to this day healing from and growing. I share with you where these feelings stem from and how it affected my identity later in life. This conversation is gonna be raw,...

Send us Fan Mail   What's up my peeps? In this episode I share with you the process of grief. However, what you may come to find out is that I was truthfully grieving my old identity. My old false self had to come to an end and with that, it is a process. My identity started forming, well in my formative years. Maybe that's why they call it that? I believe that to be true and I lived a l...

Send us Fan Mail   Hey my wreckage clearers! This episode was really hard to do and to be honest I was afraid to share it with you all. However, we must continue to clear the wreckage, therefore I acknowledged that I was in fear and afraid of what you may think of me. Then I admitted that to myself and decided to not allow fear to define my self worth. Yes, this episode is titled weirdly for a rea...

Send us Fan Mail   Hey World what up? Do you have a place you can go to in order to be renewed? Do you have a place you can go to for restoration? Do you have a place you can go to find some peace? Are you able to sit still in quietness? Well, it took me learning about replacement behaviors from my therapist's before I realized that I had a happy place that I could go to. Then I realized I ha...

Send us Fan Mail       Hey World! In this episode I share with you how helping others, helps us. It helps us to feel better about ourselves, and to even feel a sense of purpose in life. It is time to clear the wreckage, as I share with you my wreckage and how at times in the past I allowed it to take over. How when it comes to helping others, I can allow myself to get too much of an ego boost and...

Send us Fan Mail   Hey World! In this episode I share with you the story of how I was raised and the structure that was given in the household. From morals, to instructions, to directions. We all were given a set of things to live by, to do, or how to be. To help us later in life in our adulthood become stable and have structure. Faith was instilled in me as a kid. You'll find out in this epi...

Send us Fan Mail   Hey World! In this episode I share with you how from my experience being grateful gave me a more positive outlook upon life. How expressing my gratitude changed how I was feeling, from negative emotions to positive emotions. I also share with you a few studies on how gratitude affects and improves our mental health. I have a lot to be grateful for. In this episode I share with y...

Send us Fan Mail   Hey world! In this episode I share with you all how vulnerability produces more vulnerability. In a relationship there are two of you and both parties grow into a deeper connection through both becoming vulnerable. If one person is and the other is not then perhaps, that is not a relationship. How it took me becoming vulnerable you will find out in this episode and the amazing g...

Send us Fan Mail Hey World! In this episode I do a more deep look inside of the emotions that were suppressed for years. I also didn't realize I was carrying and exhibiting symptoms of PTSD. These symptoms had being occurring for years before I even was able to realize it. The only reason I was able to see it was because I took the time to look inside so that the wreckage can begin to clear....

Send us Fan Mail  Hey World! In this episode I do a deep dive into where it all started. Yep, pretty early huh? That's right, just as a very young kid, the wreckage starts creeping in. I give you an inside look on what it was like being the youngest child of five and having them grow up and leave the house. The feeling of sadness and abandonment, how that all came into play at an early age. H...

Send us Fan Mail Hey World! In this episode I share with you my journey into therapy. How the notion and question came about asking or wondering if I may need to seek out therapy? How it all came about was because I was willing to become a better version of myself. I was on the path of choosing to no longer escape but instead deal and heal. Have you ever felt alone? Have you ever felt broken? Have...

Send us Fan Mail Hey World! In this episode I share with you my daily and weekly routines. A bit of a system, I might add that I followed which helped me clear the wreckage. One of the things that I noticed about myself is that I had a lot of wreckage up in my noggin. You know, that big head of mine and how the way that I thought about myself was pretty, well not pretty at all, destructive. It was...

Send us Fan Mail Hey world! In this episode I dive deep into the power of journaling and why it was so crucial for me to see my thoughts on paper. How it helped me to discover myself more? How it helped me to find a solution within my thought process and think a little bit more rationally? How it helped me stay clean and sober? How by taking the time to look inside the wreckage began to clear? Thi...

Send us Fan Mail Hey World! In this episode I share with you the fact that my brain was arrested at age 12. We get real in this one! How I had to look at myself and see that my gosh, I am still a child. How I began to clear that wreckage and what are some of things I did in order to create a new identity. What did I do to become the man I wanted to become and learn to be an adult? To learn more ab...

Send us Fan Mail Hey World!! In this episode I share with you how valuable a mentor was for me in clearing the wreckage in my life. Not only valuable in helping me stay clean and sober but in ways of helping me mature and grow. He was someone I could trust. Someone I admired and also he was someone who let me in. He was vulnerable with me and was his true authentic self every waking moment. He tau...

Send us Fan Mail Hey World!! In this episode I share with you clear concise definition of wreckage. I think some of you are confused as to what this podcast is about. With that, I decided to clear it up or clear the wreckage...LOL. Bye telling you exactly what and why I am all about clearing the wreckage. I also share with you the back story of my relationship with my ex and how I was the cause of...

Send us Fan Mail Hey World!! In this episode, I share with you the part of the my story where I was coming to that place of surrender. How I got there and what it took for me to surrender. The definition of surrender is to give up oneself, as into the power of another, as by agreeing to stop fighting because of defeat. Well, have you ever felt defeated? Have you felt like you were tired of being s...

Send us Fan Mail Hey world! In this episode, I give a first hand experience of when I was feeling alone and how just one encounter gave me reassurance and comfort to know for a fact that I am not alone. I was lost and feeling alone and still a little hopeless but once I reached out, there was a hand there to comfort me and hold me and walk with me through it. Our thoughts come first then our feeli...

Send us Fan Mail Hey world! In the very first episode we dive into what it means to clear the wreckage and what this podcast is all about. Why do we have wreckage? Why is it necessary to clear it out? Why am I doing a podcast about this? Why I am clearing the wreckage in my life? Where it began, and how I wrecked up my life? Join me on this journey as I share with you simply in a real authentic wa...