Clearing the Wreckage

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! We got to see loss, pain, trauma, as an opportunity to grow. I had to become intentional with my life after my marriage. That old building had to be demolished and rebuild. Just in the same way, I had to be demolished so that I can rebuild. I wanted to become someone that I didn't even know existed. that old me could not comeback, it was time to beco...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers!! It is important for you to feel all the feelings so that you can heal. you can only find the wreckage by taking time to look inside and that means feeling how we feel in order to clear the wreckage. We must not become the trash or the damage or the garbage that we feel. We are still good and that will never change. It will always remain a fact that you a...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! I'm back and today I want you to hone in on this episode because this is something I learned that I had to hold on to for dear life. That is, I am always with me. I am in relationship with me. first and foremost and always will be, no matter where I go, who I am with, I will be the common denominator. I might not have been married anymore but I sure...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers!! I openly share with you how it is important to grieve yet it is also important to restart your life. Yes, after my divorce I felt it all from pain, anguish, hurt, sadness, and I did not know what life would look like without her in it. going through loss is hard but I am here to help you navigate through it as I share my experience with you. To learn mor...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! After my divorce in 2019 I had a gripping overwhelming feeling of loneliness. I mean I was and I didn't have any to come home to anymore. If you have experienced loss or a break up or heart break or even divorce than you know that feeling or you maybe can empathize with me a little bit. I was reassured by the fact that we are never alone. I may feel...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! This conversation is based on my experience of my marriage from 2017 to 2019 and how I lost myself but finally came home to my true self. I go over the analogy of baseball with you a little deeper than last time and how it relates to life's journey and my journey then. I hope this conversation is relatable and impactful to you. Let's continue to...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! As you know I get real and personal and vulnerable with you. Listen as I share about how I learned where my anxiety was stemming from and the why behind it all. I am sharing this with you because this is where we clear the wreckage and I hope that this conversation will enlighten you and as always take the time to look inside so that the wreckage can begi...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Today I get vulnerable with you and share with you how I was feeling during parts of my marriage to my ex wife. I was only feeling the way I was due to my ego. Feeling great then feeling horrible was all produced by my ego and only that. It was not until I took the time to look inside that the wreckage begin to clear. Let's walk together on this jour...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Do you feel that someone else's happiness or unhappiness is your fault? Do you offer unsolicited advice? Do you derive your self worth from being needed? Do you struggle to say "no"? Well, I do and I did. I don't as much as I did back then and I'm here to share my story with you. So come along on this journey with me and let'...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! This is probably going to bruise your ego and may even hurt your feelings and may even cause you to judge me. That's all ego by the way big head. Go ahead, I get it. I am hurt and offended and sensitive also!! hahaha!! This is the main root cause why I would have any trouble accepting myself, accepting others, and reality. My ego. Me, me, me, I, I, I...

Send us Fan Mail Hey My Wreckage Clearers! We can only practice acceptance in the present. Our reality only happens in the now. Everything else is false. The past and the future. Not that the past didn't happen, it did, but it's no longer present. The future is completely fictional. Because we have no idea what will happen. When we embrace the what is that is when we can accept our reali...

Send us Fan Mail   Hey My Wreckage Clearers!! This is one of those life changing episodes! It is time to accept others and stop judging and placing them into categories. I am no different than you and you are no different than me is the attitude that I have learned to take on which has helped me clear the wreckage and accept others. When you are able to see yourself in others than it is a lot easi...

Send us Fan Mail   Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Today it was time to have the talk of self acceptance and how this is the starting point of growth. Do you accept yourself? Let's dive a little deeper on this shall we? I am sharing with you my journey of self acceptance and being real with how this is a process. Let's grow together in clearing the wreckage. I shouted it out my boy Trent Shelt...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! I opened up with a poem so don't be alarmed but I know you will love it. It is a special poem I wrote when I was beginning to grow in love with myself and with the Divine and experience that greatest love which is the divine love and we will be discussing about how both divine love and acceptance interconnect. I give you some homework on this one. Do...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Today this is going to change your life! Think of Divine love as something everlasting, infinite, present always, un-conditional. This love is not like the selfish love with conditions we may show each other. No, this love will never leave you and always forgive you and always will hold you and comfort you. do you know of this love? Have you experienced i...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Well today I expose myself and share a little more wreckage with you as always...haha! Let's get deep into what it looks like to have no or low self worth when it a relationship and how it affects the dynamics of it. I got real honest with y'all today. Why we need self worth in order to grow in love with ourselves and others? To learn more about...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! I wanted to do a little deep dive and kind of unpack what it looks like to receive genuine love and what it looks like when we lack that genuine love for ourselves. I wanted to give you something to grasp hold of and take with you. I always share my experience with you so I know you have that but today I wanted you to have a little bit more knowledge on t...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Are you ready for love? Well first you must love yourselves. You cannot give what you don't have. You cannot give love to anyone not genuine love at least of you don't love yourself genuinely. As you are and for who you are. So my question is, Are you ready for love? To learn more about this podcast you can direct message me @clearingthewreckage...

Send us Fan Mail Hey My Wreckage Clearers! Well February 22 was my ten year anniversary of sobriety and recovery. No drug and no alcohol for the past ten years. As you know over the course of these years I have been clearing the wreckage or learning how to in my daily walk. Now my purpose is to share with you my experience and give life back especially since I was dead and came back to life. I tal...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! I was told this several times and I didn't get it until I faced the fact that they were right. I did not love myself. Do you love yourself? our natural response is to say, Yes to that question immediately. But do we really love ourselves? I share with you authentically as always how I come to that realization that I don't love myself and of cour...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Today we discuss how after I came to life it was about me bringing life to everyone. realizing that I belong and we belong together. I no longer viewed myself as separate from anyone. I knew that I am interconnected to all beings. Which fostered a deeper empathy and compassion for myself and well really myself because there is no such thing as other. We a...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! We dive s little bit deeper into what it looks like to be spiritually dead versus spiritually awakened. Of course as always, I share my life with you and in that you will see how I was a dead man walking. The walking dead for sure, a zombie. I also talk about how I walked differently after my transformation. I was a totally new person. I hope that you lov...

Send us Fan Mail Hey wreckage Clearers! Get ready for an explosive episode of rebirth, enlightenment and freedom. After I had practiced all those principles we discussed in previous episodes, I began to have a spiritual awakening. I began to see that I am a spiritual being having a human experience. I realized my purpose and that I was put here on purpose for a purpose. Do you realize who you are...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Wreckage Clearers! On this episode we will discuss how it was for me back then learning that I needed to meditate to improve my connection with God. I share with you how it is important to be silent and sit in stillness for a little while. I also share with you some tools that I used back then to help me meditate. I just needed to learn how to sit still and be with God and be...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my Wreckage Clearers! Yep it was that time in my journey where I needed to improve my connection to and with God. My wifi signal needed to go from poor to excellent. I had a different viewpoint of God and even what prayer was all about back then. I thought prayer was just asking for what I need all the time. I found out though that prayer was a way for me to communicate and gr...