Christian Advice for Single Christians Podcast

Do you know the covert narcissist signs of Christian singles?  In the journey of Christian dating, where faith and values play pivotal roles, recognizing the subtle signs of narcissism in singles can be particularly challenging. Narcissism, a trait marked by an inflated sense of self-importance and a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, often hides beneath the surface. This article ai...

One of the most contentious issues is dealing with sexual sin within a dating relationship. I think the issue of masturbation  is a close second. Should Christian couples who fall into sexual sin break up, or are there steps they can take to redeem their relationship and grow stronger in their faith together? This article aims to explore this sensitive topic with compassion, understanding, and bib...

25 years ago as a single Christian, I probably needed Christian counseling, but most churches considered the term “ Christian counseling” an oxymoron. Well, today Christian counseling services are in the mainstream of church body life. In fact, many larger churches employ ministers who provide professional Christian counseling services for their congregations. The journey of singleness, with its j...

Early dating mistakes. We’ve all made them. Dating, dear friends, is like stepping into a dance floor for the first time—terrifying, exciting, and prone to the occasional misstep. Now, if you’re a Christian single navigating this world of modern romance, the stakes may feel even higher. You’re not only trying to find someone who makes your heart sing, but also someone who shares your faith, values...

The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In t...

Wondering how to guard your heart as a Christian dating a single person? Navigating the world of dating can be exciting, challenging, and sometimes overwhelming. For the Christian single, dating takes on an additional layer of complexity – guarding one’s heart while seeking a life partner. This task, while daunting, isn’t impossible. By grounding oneself in faith, establishing boundaries, and list...

Ever wonder how to cure boredom as a Christian single? That pesky little feeling that creeps up when you’ve scrolled through your phone for the 152nd time, checked in on that distant cousin’s Facebook drama, and even reorganized your sock drawer for the thrill of it. Being single as a Christian can sometimes feel like you’ve been given the ultimate time-out—especially when you’re trying to remain...

If you’re a Christian single, conquering holiday depression is a thing. The holidays—is a time of joy, twinkling lights, and peppermint-flavored everything. For some, it’s all about cozy family gatherings and finding love under the mistletoe. But for us singles? It’s often a cocktail of loneliness, awkward questions from relatives, and an overwhelming urge to retreat into a blanket fort. If you’re...

As a Christian single, it can feel like you’re constantly navigating a sea of advice and pressure about finding “the one.” Friends, family, and even pop culture might tell you to hurry up, settle down, or lower your standards because “nobody’s perfect.” But here’s the truth: You should never settle for less than what God has planned for you, especially when it comes to something as sacred as a lif...

In a world where dating norms are constantly evolving, thirty-something Christian singles face unique challenges in finding love that aligns with their faith and values. This article delves into the complexities of dating in your thirties as a Christian, exploring societal pressures, the role of faith in relationships, and the struggle to find a place within the local church community. In a recent...

What does gaslighting mean in a Christian relationship? Gaslighting is a term that has steadily garnered attention over the past few years, particularly in the context of relationships. Derived from the 1944 movie, “Gaslight”, it denotes a manipulative tactic where one person makes another doubt their perception, memory, or reality. As opposed to breadcrumbing, in a dating setting, gaslighting can...

Are you looking for third date tips? The third date will make or break whether your Christian dating relationship will be long-term or short-lived. I know. I know.  As a Christian single, you may still be working on getting that first date or second date.  But today, we are going to share some third date tips. The first date and the second date are inextricably connected to the third date because...

Dating within the Christian community can feel like a breath of fresh air. You’re navigating values, faith, and goals, hoping to find that deep, spiritual connection that’s more than just skin-deep. However, as with any dating pool, you might come across people who aren’t quite as sincere as they seem. Maybe it’s subtle—an offhand comment, a questionable reaction during Bible study, or the way the...

Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?”  You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep bre...

Relationships can feel like walking through a field full of butterflies… and the occasional landmine. You’re navigating romance, friendship, and faith—trying to stay balanced while ensuring no one gets hurt. One of those tricky situations is figuring out whether it’s okay to stay friends with a guy when you’re dating someone else. Let’s dig into this complex question, mix in a little humor, and wr...

Many Christian singles find themselves juggling demanding careers, a deep commitment to their faith, and the desire for meaningful relationships. As a working professional, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by long hours at the office, church obligations, and the search for a compatible partner who shares your values. But here’s the good news: with intentional Christian singles advice, you can achieve...

Situationship Red Flags: Christian Single Situationships Ever wonder where to meet Christian Single women or men?  I know some lonely Christian single guys in one of the small groups I lead who sure do. A typical question in our support group goes along these lines: “So how and where do I go about meeting a nice Christian girl?” Since we were curious ourselves (aren’t you guys?), we decided to do...

Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone forever. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old, and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. Understanding the Fear of...

If you are seeking practical advice for widowed Christian singles, you came to the right site. But let’s get one thing straight: Being a widow is hard. No one enters a marriage thinking it will end that way, especially when you’re someone who holds faith close to your heart. But as life can sometimes be messy, so too can our relationships. So here you are: a widowed Christian single. And you know...

Are you a Christian single man or woman suffering from fear of commitment, especially when it comes to dating? The journey towards finding a life partner is an intimate voyage, filled with moments of joy, introspection, and sometimes, anxiety. One of the more daunting feelings that some Christian singles grapple with is the ‘fear of commitment.’ But what exactly does that mean, and how can a Chris...

As a Christian single, how to get over someone you never dated can be a uniquely challenging experience.  Dealing with unrequited love is challenging as well. But this type of situation is different because the object of our love does not even know we have feelings for them!  Have you ever felt deep feelings for someone who never knew you felt that way?  I know I have! Like myself,  maybe you were...

So, you’ve got your eye on that special someone at church, and you’re wondering how to make them fall in love with you. As a Christian single, you’ve got some divine tricks up your sleeve, along with a good sense of humor. Let’s dive into this holy quest with grace, love, and a few laughs along the way. top 10 tips on how to make someone fall in love with you Step 1: Pray Like You Mean It First th...

So, you’re a Christian, and you’re wondering if Hinge is the right place to find that special someone who loves Jesus as much as you do. It’s a fair question. Navigating the world of online dating as a believer can be tricky. You don’t want to swipe your way into some weird, faithless fling, but you also don’t want to limit your options to a super niche, gospel-centric app where every profile pic...

Need advice on how to break up a Christian dating relationship? A famous 50s break-up song gives us this little bit of dating advice on how to break up: “Breaking up is hard to do.” No, ya think? Whether you are a Christian single couple in a courtship or an online dating relationship, how you break up a relationship will be emotionally painful for both of you. If you are contemplating a break up...

Do you need to gain self-confidence for asking someone out on a date? Some have lost that “confident dating” edge because they have just suffered through a failed long-term relationship, and wonder if it’s worth the risk of getting heartbroken or hurt again. Instead of approaching dating with a confident and expectant outlook as they wait on God, they approach relationship possibilities with fear...