Christian Advice for Single Christians Podcast

The question of “how long should Christian couples date before getting engaged?” is one that sparks plenty of debate. Some might say, “As long as it takes to learn their favorite pizza topping,” while others might suggest a timeline that feels more like the gestation period of an elephant. Here’s the truth: there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Every relationship is unique, but there are some princ...

A lot of singles write me wondering how to deal with sadness. I understand. It doesn’t always feel comforting when you’re alone on a Saturday night with nothing but a tub of ice cream and your thoughts. And when the holiday season rolls around? Oh boy, bring on the awkward family gatherings and unsolicited questions about your love life. But here’s the good news: sadness is not your permanent room...

If you’ve been out there long enough, you’ve probably encountered someone who checks all the boxes—charming, confident, smooth-talking… but something just doesn’t add up. Chances are, if you’re dealing with this type of personality, you might have run into a narcissist. Narcissists can be challenging, and, unfortunately, they’re masters of mind games. But don’t worry, I’ve got your back! Let’s div...

Being a Christian single in today’s world is like playing a never-ending round of dodgeball—with society, culture, and sometimes even yourself throwing curveballs. But lurking behind the scenes is Satan, whispering lies to sow doubt, fear, and discouragement. Don’t worry, though; we’re about to unmask these lies like unwrapping a stale granola bar you didn’t want anyway. Let’s break down the top f...

If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Is this love, or am I just really, really into that person’s haircut?“—congratulations! You’ve entered the grand ring of Love vs. Lust, a battle fought by many, but understood by few. For Christian singles, the struggle to discern between love and lust can feel like trying to navigate through a fog with only a flashlight. But don’t worry! In this article, w...

Breaking up is never easy—whether you’re on the receiving end or initiating it yourself. But what if you could spot the signs before the big conversation happens? If you feel like something’s off in your relationship, this humorous and heartfelt guide will help you navigate the red flags, offering wisdom (and a dose of laughter) from a Christian single’s perspective. 1. The Text Messages Start Fee...

Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out. As single Christian parents, it is important to know how to reduce or relieve stress in your life. E...

Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first-date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to cons...

Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. ? One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate C...

Learning how to deal with peer pressure is essential if one is to grow in the Christian faith.  Being a Christian single person comes with a lot of peer pressure. There is peer pressure inside and outside of the church. It’s amazing how much peer pressure is put on single Christians to conform to other Christians’s wishes and ways of living. And how about those singles outside the church? Peer pre...

Learning how to enjoy living alone as a single Christian is a great way to grow as a person as you wait on God for the “ONE”.Living alone can be a mixed bag of experiences. For the single Christian, it can offer moments of deep spiritual reflection, but at times can also evoke feelings of loneliness. However, the Bible reminds us that solitude can be a period of growth and deepening our relationsh...

Don’t you just love that title? I do. Christian dating without losing your brain. Now there’s a novel thought. How many Christian dating singles have acted irrationally in pursuit of their perfect date? From Christian single girls who date bad guys, to dating mistakes by both guys and girls, it seems many need a little help in this area. And it’s especially the case with internet dating. Well. her...

Looking for great sex tips for Christians anyone? I know some of you may be thinking, “Great sex tips? Why in the world is the topic ‘great Christian sex tips’ on a Christian website?” Just chill, ok? Great Sex Tips-Why Talk About It? First of all, God created sex and He wants us to enjoy it to the max in the way in which he designed it. Second, just because the world has turned something God has...

Do you embrace your identity in Christ as a Christian single? How does your identity in Christ affect you as a Christian Single? When you think about being single, it can sometimes feel like you’re in some kind of waiting room—waiting for that special someone to walk into your life and sweep you off your feet. For Christian singles, that waiting room can feel even more complex. There’s the usual d...

Knowing the top red flags in a  Christian dating relationship is important,  The problem is that many Christian singles ignore the silent red flags in a relationship and so stay longer than they should have.  The top three reasons daters give for overstaying a romantic or dating relationship are as follows: Fear of being alone Fear and/or guilt over what the other person will feel or do Fear of ex...

Are you looking for Christian dating tips for men or women? Dating tips are welcomed by most Christian singles, whether they are new to the dating scene, introverts or extroverts, or just looking to find additional dating advice and assistance. After all, how many of us are dating tips experts with no need for learning anything more about the opposite sex and dating? Although there are tons of dat...

Learning how to argue and fight is the best dating tip we could give Christian singles. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. ? This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating advice a different way: Learning how to fight and argue successfully is t...

Finding the “one”, that special soul mate you wish to spend life with can be a tedious experience. This is especially if you’ve been through a couple of bad Christian dating relationships that have left you heart broken, burnt out or rejected. Finding true love is a pursuit that has occupied human hearts for generations. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it may often seem like an overwhelmin...

Looking for Christian dating advice for men seeking marriage? Are you a Single Christian guy looking for that perfect Christian single girl to marry? Are you waiting on God for the special spouse? In the quest for love and companionship, Christian men seeking marriage often face unique challenges. In a world that often emphasizes superficial connections and casual relationships, it can be difficul...

Learning how to deal with rejection as a single Christian is very important. If you are a single Christian who recently got dumped, or been told by the other party that they don’t want to date you, this could be very painful. ? In this regard, some people suffer from  Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, which entails having such an intense emotional response to being dissed or criticized, that it bring...

Do you know the top 10 signs from God that you are dating the wrong person? As Christian singles, our journey towards finding the person with whom we will share our life is a spiritual path guided by the principles of our faith. Recognizing the signs from God about the suitability of our partner can be challenging, but it’s crucial for a fulfilling, God-centered relationship. The Bible provides ma...

Are you one of the thousands of people waiting on God for a spouse? It’s a delightful mix of faith, prayer, a touch of confusion, and maybe the occasional “Lord, did You hear me?” moment. As Christian singles, we know the Bible has a lot to say about patience, trust, and the whole shebang when it comes to waiting on God’s timing. So let’s dive into this exciting (and sometimes amusing) rollercoast...

Ah, election season. It’s a time of high stakes, passionate debates, and the occasional urge to yell at your TV screen.  But here are 4 Things Christian Singles Need to Remember About the 2024 Presidential Election.  And no, it’s not just about picking the right candidate, but also about maintaining your faith and possibly even meeting that special someone along the way. Let’s dive in with warmth,...

“How to Stop Porn Addiction” is a popular search term among  That’s because many Christian single men and women struggle with pornography and its negative effects. In fact, surveys show 25% of pastors suffer from some form of porn addiction.  His addiction not only poses spiritual dilemmas but also impacts his mental and emotional well-being. The fact is, having a porn addiction will also keep a s...

Are you dealing with addiction as a Christian single? It’s a shame but true. Many Christian singles, married and divorced people have addictions and strongholds in their lives that hold them in bondage. Porn addiction, for example, is one of the most serious addictions that trap single Christians. Although dealing with addiction is essential if we are to enjoy our relationship experiences and life...