Choosing Us

From Baby News to Building Better Relationships: A Journey of Growth and Accountability Exciting changes are on the horizon as the hosts announce they're expecting a baby girl, adding a new dynamic to their family of two energetic boys! This episode of Choosing Us takes listeners on an intimate journey through the complexities of family life and relationship building. The conversation weaves throu...

Money, Marriage, and Making It Work: A Journey of Financial Growth Discover how one couple transformed their relationship with money, going from just $100 in their account to building a thriving financial partnership. In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," Brad and Michaela Draper candidly share their journey of navigating financial differences in marriage.  Learn how they overcame challenge...

The Power of Vulnerability and Communication in Relationships *Can saying "I'm fine" be damaging your relationship?* This eye-opening episode dives deep into the transformative power of genuine communication and emotional vulnerability between partners.  Discover how different parenting styles can coexist harmoniously when couples focus on their shared goals rather than their contrasting approache...

Ever wonder how to juggle family traditions without dropping your own marriage in the process? In this compelling episode of Choosing Us, Michaela and Brad dive deep into the delicate dance of managing family dynamics in marriage. Through a candid and sometimes humorous discussion, they share their personal journey of balancing extended family commitments while building their own traditions. A par...

Exciting News Alert: The Drapers Are Expecting! In this heartfelt episode, Brad and Michaela Draper share their joyful announcement of expecting a new addition to their family. Through candid conversation, they open up about the challenges of early pregnancy, with Michaela battling severe morning sickness while Brad steps up to manage additional responsibilities. The couple reflects deeply on the...

Dancing in the Rain: Finding Joy in Imperfect Relationships Ever wondered how successful couples navigate the messy reality of everyday life? Join the Drapers as they unveil their secret to building a thriving relationship - embracing imperfection with grace and humor. In this candid episode, Brad and Michaela tackle real-life challenges, from grocery shopping mishaps to conflicting Mother's Day e...

**Did you know that many women in long-term relationships have never experienced an orgasm?** This eye-opening episode of "Choosing Us" with the Drapers tackles the often-overlooked topic of female pleasure and sexual wellness in relationships. Michaela and Brad dive deep into: - The surprising statistics about women's orgasms - The importance of open communication about sexual needs - Understandi...

Love as a Daily Choice: Beyond Just Feelings Discover how spontaneous adventures and intentional choices can transform your relationship from mundane to magnificent! In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," Brad and Michaela reveal how treating love as a daily commitment rather than just a feeling can prevent couples from becoming mere roommates. They share their personal experience of a 24-ho...

When Life Hits Hard: The Power of True Partnership Ever wondered what makes a relationship truly resilient? Dive into this heartfelt episode where Michaela and Brad unpack the essence of genuine partnership through their own experiences. When Michaela fell ill, Brad's seamless handling of everything from school runs to household chores became a powerful testament to real teamwork in action. The ep...

Setting Boundaries: The Key to Stronger Relationships Ever wonder why some relationships thrive while others struggle? The Drapers dive deep into the transformative power of setting healthy boundaries in relationships, work, and social media. Through personal stories and practical wisdom, they reveal how establishing clear boundaries has strengthened their own partnership and enhanced their family...

Finding Joy Through Service and Play in Relationships Discover how a couple transformed their relationship by combining the power of playful connection and meaningful service - from jamming to Linkin Park with their kids to teaching in prisons. Michaela and Brad Draper share their inspiring journey of building an extraordinary relationship through simple yet profound practices. In this heartwarmin...

Breaking Down Communication Barriers: From Taboo Topics to Deep Connection Dive into a powerful discussion about shattering communication barriers and creating meaningful connections through radical honesty. This episode explores how embracing uncomfortable conversations - from menstruation to relationship dynamics - can transform our personal relationships and family dynamics. Learn how the speak...

Finding Faith Together: A Journey of Individual Spiritual Growth in Marriage Discover how the Drapers transformed their marriage by embracing individual spiritual journeys while maintaining a united front. In this powerful episode, they reveal the secret to building a faith-based relationship that doesn't compromise personal growth or force beliefs on one another. The couple shares their unique ap...

Discover the Power of Small Moments in Building Lasting Love Want to keep your relationship thriving in today's fast-paced world? Join Michaela and Brad Draper as they reveal how simple, intentional moments can transform your connection with your partner. From longer hugs to surprise love notes, learn practical strategies for maintaining intimacy despite busy schedules. The Drapers share their per...

Breaking Free from Social Media's Grip on Relationships Discover how a couple's contrasting approaches to social media - from complete detox to strategic usage - revealed surprising insights about modern relationships. Brad and Michaela Draper candidly explore how digital distractions affect genuine connection and share their journey to finding balance in an increasingly connected world. The episo...

Transform Your Relationship: The Power of Giving Over Taking Want to revolutionize your relationship? Discover why being a giver rather than a taker could be the game-changer you've been looking for. In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," hosts Michaela and Brad dive deep into the transformative power of prioritizing your partner's needs and finding joy in making their life better. They expl...

Reigniting the Spark: Why Intimacy Matters More Than You Think Discover why physical intimacy is the vital force that transforms a relationship from "just roommates" to passionate partners. Best friends Michaela and Brad Draper dive deep into the often-overlooked importance of maintaining a healthy sex life, especially after life's major transitions like parenthood. The episode explores how hormon...

The Power of Small Moments: Building Connection Through Physical Touch Discover how taking just 20 seconds for a meaningful hug or kiss can transform your relationship! In this intimate episode, Michaela and Brad reveal their morning ritual of physical connection and how it sets the tone for their entire day. They share powerful insights about the impact of intentional physical touch and affection...

Supporting Your Partner: The Art of Being There Without Fixing Everything Ever wondered why sometimes your well-intentioned advice falls flat when your partner is struggling? This enlightening episode dives deep into the delicate balance of supporting your spouse through difficult times. Hosts Michaela and Brad share authentic insights about the crucial difference between being a listener and a fi...

Building Real Love in a World of Highlight Reels Ever wonder why your relationship doesn't look like the perfect couples on social media? The Drapers get real about the daily work of building authentic relationships beyond the carefully curated posts we see online. In this candid conversation, this married couple shares how they navigate their own relationship challenges while maintaining a strong...

From Blind Date to Beautiful Life: The Minetto's Love Story Ever wondered if blind dates can lead to lasting love? Sydney and Tyler Minetto's story proves they absolutely can! Despite Sydney's initial skepticism about men and Tyler's packed schedule during their first meeting, their connection was undeniable. Tyler even rescheduled multiple flights just to secure a proper date with Sydney - talk a...

Finding Balance: The Power of Self-Care in Marriage Discover how a simple "gym date" and some quiet time can revolutionize your relationship! Join the Drapers as they candidly share their journey of maintaining a strong partnership while juggling life's demands. Learn why taking strategic breaks - from sneaking away to the bathroom for 10 minutes of peace to planning weekend getaways - isn't just...

Did you know hormone imbalances could be silently affecting your mental health? In this powerful episode of "Choosing Us," the Drapers tackle the critical connection between hormonal health and mental wellbeing, sharing their personal journey of hormone testing and its life-changing results. The conversation delves into the alarming rise in male suicide rates and the importance of breaking down ba...

Making Your Marriage a Priority: A Love Language Journey Discover how understanding and speaking your partner's love language can transform your relationship! Join The Drapers as they dive deep into the art of prioritizing your marriage through intentional actions and quality time together. They share their personal "FFF" philosophy - putting fitness, family, and faith first - and why self-care is...

Building Stronger Relationships: The Power of Intentional Connection Discover how a friend's tragic loss inspired the Draper's to revolutionize their approach to relationships and personal growth. In this heartfelt episode, Michaela and her husband share intimate insights on transforming your relationship from mere coexistence to a thriving partnership. Key Takeaways: - Creating meaningful morning...