Cheating on Fear

All too often we pack up our lives and transplant it somewhere else… with palm trees and sand. What happens when you take the time to get off the beaten path, learn the local language, and get to know the people of the place you're visiting? In this episode Beatrice and Dante talk about the differences between vacationing and travelling, and what the experience of travelling has meant to both of t...

Sex makes the world go around. It influences almost everything we do every day. It defines who we are in so many ways. But how did we get here? Have you ever thought about what influences have shaped you as a sexual being? In this episode, Beatrice and Dante talk about their early sexual influences and how they have affected their sexuality growing up, and who they are today. 21 Jump Street - Amaz...

Studies have shown that learning self defense techniques decrease incidences and severity of sexual assault. But is a weekend course where women learn to jam their keys in someone’s eye the answer? This week, Dante and Beatrice discuss Brazilian Jiu Jitsu training and its benefits as a self defense modality, and as a vehicle to improving your whole life. Looks Matter: How Criminals Choose Their Vi...

Do you ever feel like you are stressed or anxious and cannot place the reason why? In this episode Beatrice and Dante talk about how our environmental "noise" is contributing to the stress and anxiety of so many, and how we do so much good by simply being outside in nature. Silence, Please article at the American Psychological Association The Big Year - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Se7en - Amazon.com ,...

You and your partner have decided that you would like to visit a lifestyle (sex) club. What now? How do you choose the type of club that you go to? What sorts of things do you prepare for? Do you even need to get naked and/or have sex at the club? These questions and more are answered by Beatrice and Dante as they delve into your friendly neighbourhood sex club! BDSM Test Bedazzled - Amazon.com ,...

In the second part of this two-part episode, Beatrice and Dante wrap up Rich Cooper's 20 Red Flags and we discuss how human relationships are more complex than a collection of arbitrary traits. Good communication is key to having, and building, strong relationships. BBC Short Film Leading Lady Parts Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup....

Continuing the discussion from the 9 Iron Rules episode, Beatrice and Dante start to unpack the 20 Red Flags that Rollo Tomassi fanboy Rich Cooper identifies for men who date women. Dummy on Quibi Athlete A on Netflix Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Everything is F*cked: A Book About Hope by Mark Manson - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacie...

Beatrice and Dante talk about Rollo Tomassi's 9 Iron rules and red pill philosophy, and how kernels of truth can be wrapped up in misogyny and packaged as a way to "deal" with the opposite sex. Warning: heteronormative relationship strategies ahead! The Matrix - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca One Percent Better’s 9 Iron Rules video Hitch - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca How to Get Rid of a Plantar’s Wart video Ch...

The expectations put on men today have led to a rise of negative outcomes, and an entire industry of male self-improvement, both positive and negative, has risen as result. In this week's episode Beatrice asks Dante about his experience doing a Warrior retreat and how it led to bettering himself as a man, a father, and a partner. The Good Men Project Billy Madison - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca The Inbe...

Everyone can agree that your health is the most valuable thing you have; something that most of us probably aren't prioritizing as much as we should, and something we would all like to be better at. In this episode Beatrice and Dante talk about their individual fitness stories and how they got to the point they are at today. They discuss how training is good for their relationship AND sex life, as...

What's the best way to find you potential life partner? Should you use online and mobile dating apps? Should you be setup by friends and family on an endless string of blind dates until you either find your mate or give up? Or, should you outsource your matchmaking to an expert? In this episode Beatrice and Dante discuss the Netflix series Indian Matchmaking and whether having Sima Auntie find you...

What do you do when your relationship has hit a road block? Do you end the relationship, or do you take a break and regroup later? Beatrice and Dante talk about their "freezer", how it came about, how to negotiate a freezer that doesn’t kill the relationship, and what the experience was like for both of them. And the best part: what their relationship developed into after the freezer. It - Stephen...

In 2003 the original Fab 5 broke ground and changed lives, while helping to normalize their sexuality and lifestyle. 15 years later a new Fab 5 are changing lives and opening hearts and minds, and being more inclusive and accepting of even more people. Beatrice and Dante talk about what the original series meant to them, and the reboot is changing the lives of not only the heroes being made over,...

In the second part of our two-part series, we dig into how to get started with consensual non-monogamy and the various smartphone apps that are out there that put potential play partners just a swipe away. We’ll also dig into the different types of swaps, our relationship origin story, and some pitfalls and highlights of our journey so far. Plus, how tribe building became an unexpected outcome of...

It’s fairly easy for someone to define monogamy, and almost as difficult to define non-monogamy. In the first part of a two-part series we delve into what monogamy and non-monogamy are (including the differences between cheating and consensual or ethical non-monogamy), some useful terminology, and some resources to get you started in learning the language and skills that will be useful if you are...

Welcome to the Cheating on Fear podcast! Beatrice and Dante talk about fear, what it means to them, and how overcoming fear can change your life. Rick and Morty - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca We Bought a Zoo - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% of...