Cheating on Fear

It’s the Holiday season and Beatrice and Dante are spending time with their families. See you all in 2022! Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order! Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t for...

This week Beatrice and Dante sit down with our long-time friend, and friendly neighbourhood lesbian, Alex, to discuss some misconceptions many straight people have about the queer community. Check out our pegging episode - To the Hilt! with Ruby Ryder (episode 043) Same Time Next Year - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Queer as Folk - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca The L Word - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Orange is the...

The year was 1993. Dante was in high school, Beatrice was an exotic dancer, Royce Gracie had just won UFC 1, and Indecent Proposal was lighting up talk radio and office water coolers everywhere. This week we revisit Indecent Proposal and herald its arrival on streaming video. Indecent Proposal - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca 50 First Dates - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca The Wedding Singer - Amazon.com , Amazon...

Almost 2 years to the day, Beatrice and Dante returned to their friendly neighbourhood sex club and it was even better than they remembered! Dante’s Christmas Movie Playlist: Elf - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Scrooged - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca The Family Man - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Die Hard - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca The Holiday - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Your sex club primer podcast episode! - So You Want...

Dante spent a week exploring the northern backcountry, leaving Beatrice all alone. What could she possibly do to entertain herself? Well… she spent a week on dating apps gathering intelligence for the Brave Ones. What did she find? You'll hear the good, the bad, and the ugly on this week's episode. Top Gun - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Your Manosphere primer - Breaking the Iron Rules (episode 009 ) and...

After six seasons, Sex and City ends on arguably the strongest season, with a satisfying resolution for the four main characters. All the feels in this one, and be sure to have a box of tissues handy! And also… fu*k Berger! Sex and the City - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Good Fer You! - Christian Bale’s NSFW on-set rant Samantha and Smith and Richard Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Rea...

The fifth season of Sex and the City picks up with Miranda as a new mother, Carrie mourning the relocation of Mr. Big, Charlotte picking herself up after the end of her marriage, and Samantha dealing with Richard's infidelity. Being the shortest of the six seasons, there is a surprising amount to unpack in the penultimate season of the beloved show. Sex and the City - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Inspec...

This week Beatrice and Dante speak with Victoria Parsons Gracie, choreographer, actress, author, mother and empowerment coach (and member of the Gracie Brazilian jiu-jitsu dynasty). Victoria shares her experiences being a woman in Brazilian jiu-jitsu, her struggles with body image, how BJJ doesn't eliminate fear (but gives you options), and the dangers of belt worship. You can find Victoria Parson...

After the darker tone of the third season of Sex and the City , season four strikes a more optimistic tone, despite all the break-ups and hardships the four experience. Beatrice and Dante discuss whether soulmates are thing, questioning your sexuality, and how getting with an ex is rarely a good idea. Sex and the City - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Find Melissa Kelly on Instagram ( @melissakellyboudoir...

The third season of Sex and the City features the sexiest, and the cringiest, scenes of the series. Beatrice and Dante dive into height differentials in dating, sexual incompatibility, and stuffing affairs down the memory hole. Sex and the City - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Horrible Bosses - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Internal Affairs - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca The Wedding Singer - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Sam...

Decade birthdays are always the trickiest to navigate. For women, getting older presents its own set of internal and societal challenges. From La Belle Province, Beatrice and Dante discuss what it means to get older, how that seems to be getting harder and harder for women while men seem to breeze through it, and what we should be focussing on as we age. The Storm is Upon Us: How QAnon Became a Mo...

Beatrice and Dante dive back into the highlights of Season 2 of Sex and the City . Discussions include women being punished for being successful, bi invisibility, fragile masculinity and pets as partners. Sex and the City - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Explained Season 3 Trailer - Ep. 04 - Dogs Ali G Indahouse - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Boomerang - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca The Way We Were final scene - Amaz...

Ahead of the much anticipated reboot, Beatrice and Dante begin a multi-part series revisiting the characters and themes of the beloved HBO series Sex and the City . Sex and the City - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Big Trouble in Little China - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Love in Paradise: The Caribbean, A 90 Day Story will fill that 90 Day Fiancé-shaped...

If you can imagine your worst nightmare as someone trepidatious about non monogamy, Sex/Life is it. In this episode Beatrice and Dante do the dirty work of watching the first season of the Netflix original Sex/Life and pull apart the little bit of good with all the bad and ugly. MAJOR SPOILERS , especially about Season 1, Episode 3 @ 19:50. 44 Chapters About 4 Men by BB Easton - Amazon.com , Amazo...

A quick programming note for the all the Brave Ones out there. Summer in Canada is measured in days, not months, so we're taking advantage of the our short summer, but we'll be back next week with our breakdown of the Netflix original series Sex/Life. Until then, click the link to see what Beatrice is going to be up to. Bea be like … (SFW!) Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to...

Why is pleasure the first thing to go in our busy lives? Why are we so quick to deny ourselves the simplest of pleasures? Why should we prioritize pleasure in our lives? This week we talk with Melissa Louise, pleasure advocate, sex educator and cockologist about why pleasure should be a priority for everyone. Check out Melissa Louise on Instagram @thepleasurestudio or on her website . Sex at Dawn...

Would your best friend tell you if you had toilet paper stuck to your shoe if there was a cute guy at the bar? Research says: probably not. This week on the podcast, Beatrice and Dante speak with Dr. Maryanne Fisher about how and why women compete, and the benefits of cooperation over competition. You can find Dr. Maryanne Fisher at her website . Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda R...

If it takes coercion, trickery and manipulation to get someone into bed, it's not enthusiastic consent. This week Beatrice and Dante unpack the 2019 documentary The Pickup Game . They discuss the origins of the "pick up artist" industry, the exploitative nature of the business, and how pick up artistry can quickly turn from aggressive to criminal. The Pickup Game trailer - Amazon.com The Game: Pen...

It's our first anniversary! Since there is no paper in a podcast, Beatrice and Dante talk about the origins, challenges and lessons learned about the podcast, and share listener feedback of favourite moments, episodes and guests. Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Queen’s Gambit trailer - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this...

Creating a work life balance has always been something entrepreneurs have had to grapple with. Over the last 500+ days the majority of the working population is working from home, and more people than ever have been coming to terms with what it's like to live and work in the same place, with the same people, 24 hours a day. This week on the podcast Beatrice and Dante welcome Kelly Rolfe, multi-pas...

How do you know when a relationship is over? This week Beatrice and Dante talk about the subtle, and not so subtle, signs of the end of a relationship. The break-up scene from The Break-Up . The Break-Up - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Hitch - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca A little Worth It by Fifth Harmony to get your day started right! Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing...

Quiz time! Beatrice quizzes Dante on some pervasive myths about non-monogamy, and Dante draws on his anthropology background to provide some context to these fears, and how we can overcome them. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be su...

The whoring twenties are upon us! Beatrice and Dante discuss what the world is going to look like as the pandemic recedes, how to get ready for the whoring twenties, and how this collective global experience will shape our society in years to come. Find Melissa Kelly on Instagram ( @melissakellyboudoir ), Facebook and at her website ( www.melissakellyboudoirphotographer.com ). Lil Nas X provides d...

Fun fact: butts have no sexual orientation. This week on the podcast Beatrice and Dante speak with THE Ruby Ryder. She is a sex educator, podcaster and shame slayer, who believes pegging will save the world. You can find the wonderful Ruby Ryder online at her websites Pegging101.com , PeggingParadise.com as well on social media: Twitter - @ruby_ryder Instagram - @therubyryder Tik Tok - @peggingpar...

This Week Beatrice and Dante discuss the takeaways from Season 1 of HBO's docuseries on the NXIVM cult, The Vow. Cult leader Keith Raniere used guilt, shame and emotional blackmail to control and exploit his members, both male and female. The Vow trailer NXIVM brand on DOS members (NSFW) Seven Years in Tibet - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Role Models - Amazon.com , Amazon.ca Paul Rudd and the Venti scen...