Chatty Rats

this week on chatty rats: menty bs, character development, and life’s ebbs and flows • sheen and natalia’s menty b: both sheen and natalia are feeling the pressure this week. • character development era: we explore the concept of your "character development era" and what it looks like when you're right in the thick of it. • mental spiraling: how far can a mental spiral really go? and what it feels...

This Week on Chatty Rats: Navigating 9-5s, Relationship Boundaries, and Childhood Joys ​ Sheen’s Return to the 9-5: Sheen’s diving back into the 9-5 grind, and she’s spilling on what it’s really like to job hunt in 2024. ​ When to Mention Your S.O.: Is there a right time to tell a stranger of the opposite sex that you have a significant other? We break down the nuances of this tricky topic. ​ Chil...

This Week on Chatty Rats: • Rich Man Fantasies: Why do some women fantasize about dating a wealthy man who can change their lives? • The Rise of Trad Wives: What’s behind the resurgence of “traditional wives,” and why are they becoming more popular? • "Blink Twice" and Trad Wives: We connect the dots between the film "Blink Twice" and the trad wife movement, uncovering the deep...

This Week on Chatty Rats: • Natalia’s Inner Child Story: Get ready for a heartwarming story from Natalia's childhood and the full-circle moment that brought her inner child back into focus. • Sheen’s a Failed Influencer and ChatGPT is her BFF: Hear how AI has helped Sheen apply for jobs. Is AI the secret tool to navigating today’s tough job market? • Can Satanism Be…Good?: What is Satanism rea...

This Week on Chatty Rats: Exploring Our Shadow Self and Carl Jung’s Theory: • What Is Our Shadow Self?: We’re diving into what the shadow self really is, with real-life examples to make it relatable. • Carl Jung’s Theory: We’re breaking down Carl Jung’s concepts of the ‘personal shadow’ and ‘collective shadow,’ and what they mean for us today. • Living a Fulfilled Life: How can becoming aware of o...

This Week on Chatty Rats we are talking: Microdosing, Hypotheticals, and Measuring a Life Well Lived! • Microdosing 101: What’s it really like to microdose? We’re diving into the experience and answering all your burning questions about this topic. • Hypotheticals from "The Measure" : Sheen takes us through a thought-provoking scenario from the book "The Measure," sparking a de...

Hey Rats! We're back with another juicy episode packed with insights and personal stories: 
Exes as Friends: Life is messy, but does that mean there’s room for exes to be friends? Hinge Hell: What happens when a failed first date tries to recycle you? Sheen shares her latest Hinge horror story. Recurring Dreams: What does it mean if you’re having the same dream over and over again? Follow us o...

Hey Rats! We're back with another episode, this week we’re talking: • Reaching Out to an Ex-Bestie: What happens when you reach out to a friend who used to be close? Natalia shares her update of reaching out to an ex-bestie with us! • Triggers of the Week: Sheen and Natalia open up about what’s been getting under their skin this week. • Misogyny’s Impact on Single Women: How does misogyny shap...

In this week’s Chatty Rats episode, we're delving into the complexities of American culture and its unexpected side effects 🍵🫖 Is American culture breeding loneliness? In a world where individualism reigns supreme, we're exploring the hidden costs of this societal structure. Is the glamorization of living alone really a good thing? As modernity marches on, we notice a shift - we're l...

This week, Sheen dives deep into the dating world with a revealing survey about men's #1 dating complaints. Curious about what bugs men the most? • Sheen shares surprising results from her survey on men's top dating gripes. Discover what’s on their minds! • Dating Dynamics: we break down how these complaints reflect broader dating & society trends—and what they mean for both men and wo...

Welcome back to another episode of Chatty Rats! This week, we're diving into:
 • 20s vs. 30s: We chat about the optimism in our 20s and the reality checks that hit in our 30s. How do these decades shape our outlook on life? • Grieving Paths: Exploring how to come to terms with the lives we didn't choose and how to reckon with those closed doors. • The Illusion of Grass is Greener • Analysi...

Season 2 premiere of Chatty Rats is here!! Here is what to expect: • What is the right amount of pursuing a man should do? We unpack the delicate balance between showing interest and overwhelming someone, as Sheen shares her recent first date story! • Navigating female friendships in your late 20’s and 30’s: How do you keep those bonds strong as life gets busier and priorities shift? • A LOT of us...

We have a new season coming next week but here’s a little catch-up episode for y’all!! This week on Chatty Rats, Natalia and Sheen finally got to hang out in LA, and we're recapping our weekend escapades. Curious about the Renaissance Fair? we’re giving you the inside scoop! We’re diving into the whimsical world of knights, the hidden kink community, and medieval fun. If you've ever wondered what...

Strap in for a special edition of Chatty Rats this week, as we're flipping the script with a voice memo update straight from Sheen and Natalia! Dive headfirst into our Coachella reflections! Sheen's getting deep with a dive into a self-rumination spiral. It’s been a week of funk and contemplation, a raw look into the ups and downs of navigating life's curveballs. Then, brightening the...

This week on Chatty Rats, we're venturing into the world of the unexpected joys of pushing our limits. From the ancient Japanese Misogi challenge to the modern craze of cold plunges, we're exploring what it means to do hard things and how these practices can surprisingly make life feel a little easier. Why embrace discomfort? It turns out, there's a wealth of science supporting the ben...

This week on Chatty Rats, we're dissecting the latest trends in personal boundaries and friendship dynamics. In an era where "protecting my peace" has become the mantra, we're pondering the question: Has this well-meaning pursuit started to erode the meaning of friendships? Dive deep with us as we explore the delicate balance between maintaining personal tranquility and nurturing...

A look back when we were questioning the impact of dinner-only hangouts on their relationships. Is limiting social interactions to the dinner table hindering the depth of our friendships? Join us as we unpack Sheen's provocative anti-dinner series, challenging the norms of how we connect with our friends. We're also tackling the pivotal question: does catching up with friends truly fortify...

In this week’s episode, we dive into the friendship deep end with us this week as we tackle the ultimate question: How do you spot your next best friend? Get the inside scoop on signs that scream bestie😌 Ever heard of the Bird Theory? We’re going to spill the tea on what it is and why it’s the KEY to a fulfilling relationship. Poor little Sheen opens up about a universal pain point: rejection. Ho...

This week on Chatty Rats, dive into the complexities of forging deep friendships as we grow older. Why does it feel like a Herculean task to make best friends later in life? We're unpacking the hurdles and sharing our own tales of friendship trials and triumphs. Ever heard of stacking plans? We're breaking down what this modern scheduling strategy means for our social lives and how it migh...

In this week’s episode, we're unpacking Natalia's international exploration through Asia. Join us as she shares the vibrant encounters and the profound lessons learned from a continent rich in tradition and modernity. Why traditions seem to fade in American culture while other societies continue to weave them into the fabric of everyday life? What makes these enduring practices so vital, a...

In this week’s episode, we're tagging along with Sheen to O'ahu – Sheen spills the tea on the craziest travel drama, mishaps, silver linings, and a surprise catch-up that turns the tide of her entire trip. But there's more on the menu – we're dissecting the world of dating, delving into what it means to have "expanders" and how our 'types' have evolved as we do. A...

This week the Rats dive into The Atlantic’s article “ How Anxiety Became Content” . They discuss how social media has turned mental health into a trendy phenomenon and how this discourse can have negative consequences. Does too much exposure to mental health content actually make us more depressed and anxious? Does identifying ourselves with our mental illnesses stop us from healing and growing? T...

We are bringing you a special Valentine’s day episode this week! Forget the clichés; we're diving into the heart of modern dating with stories the cringiest stories you’ve heard! And these dating horror stories will completely redefine "scary" for you. Ever felt like your love life was either an overwhelming tsunami or a barren desert? You're not alone. So, whether you’re riding solo, hitched, or...

In this week’s mini episode, Sheen opens up about a past relationship that took a toll on her self-image. Discover how an ex's unhealthy obsession and fetish not only challenged how Sheen saw herself but also influenced how she viewed her social media presence. We're diving into the tricky territory of identity – how easy it is to lose ourselves in one that's been handed to us — making...

In this week’s Chatty Rats episode, we're delving into the complexities of American culture and its unexpected side effects 🍵🫖 Is American culture breeding loneliness? In a world where individualism reigns supreme, we're exploring the hidden costs of this societal structure. Is the glamorization of living alone really a good thing? As modernity marches on, we notice a shift - we're l...