Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

How well do you know yourself? Do you know what your purpose is and how true to yourself are you being when you put yourself out there into the dating universe? This week, Kim has a special returning guest who breaks down exactly what the most successful people out there do to find their purpose and passion (and how you can do it too). Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx and sought-after keynote...

Love is in the air this week and you deserve to soak it all up! With Valentine's Day on the way, now is your opportunity to invest in you by building your relationship with yourself and learning to attract love! Every day Kim hears from people who don't know where to go to meet their match and has been wrapped up with their work life. An email from someone who would rather be alone than pick the w...

Are soul mates real? Is there one special, perfect person out there made especially for you? This week on the show, Kim and her expert guest answer some soulful questions: Does your relationship have a destiny? How do you find your soulmate? You'll benefit from the wisdom of Cynthia Clark, who has helped more than 7,000 busy professionals find lasting love and soulmate connections through the soul...

Do you believe that you are capable of everything you want to achieve in your life? Do you believe you deserve a loving, happy, and healthy relationship? This week, Kim tackles a BIG question we've all had: are you GOOD ENOUGH? It doesn't matter if you're already successful by other people's standards or if you're just starting your life's journey--we all deal with feeling like we're not *enough*...

Are you afraid to put yourself out there or are you ready to speak out and be heard?  Did you know that finding and owning your voice is a huge part of interaction and attraction?  When it comes to finding love, owning your voice is essential - but finding the courage to speak up AND be vulnerable can be tough. Luckily, Kim's bringing on an expert at finding the voice from within - celebrated voic...

We're back with the first "What Would Kim Do?" segment of 2020! Write in your dating and love questions to @SeltzerKimberly on Facebook, and your question could be featured on an upcoming episode. This week, Kim talks through how to conquer your fears around rejection, get comfortable with who you are, how to date as a single parent and get clarity on what you want in a partner. If you've ever str...

Are you comfortable being seen?  Now that it is a new year, it's a great time to push yourself to be more visible so that you can attract great things.  The image you project to others is a direct reflection of who you are and how others perceive you. So, you won't be surprised to learn that image is the first key to your ability to find love. This week, Kim interviews Debbi Dachinger. She's a med...

Kicking off 2020 with an inspiring success story, Kim's back with another episode of Where Are They Now? You'll hear from Cathy, a client of Kim's who, after coaching with Kim, has made some amazing strides. Her confidence has soared! Her ability to take action in alignment with what she wants has built positive momentum in all areas of her life. When Cathy first got in touch with Kim, she was str...

This holiday season, Kim asks the hard question: Are you naughty or nice? What if this holiday season was about receiving more than giving?  On this week's show, Kim reveals to 5 Ways You Can Be Naughty Instead of Nice in your love life. Listen in, some of her tips might surprise you! When it comes to dating, you can achieve a healthy balance by being a little naughty! This doesn't mean being over...

So how many times do you cover your ears or put on a fake smile in fear of being yourself?  How much energy do you expend worrying about being normal, proper or polite in order to be accepted?  This week, we're getting *real*. Really  freaking  real by learning how to be your authentic self to attract love. Kim interviews Lisa Cherney, host of the ground-breaking Get F**king Real Podcast and found...

Many of you may have heard of the Law of Attraction which is the ability for you to attract what you're focused on into your life. However, many of you may not have heard of the Law of Action...taking intentional actions that are in alignment with your goals. Without implementing the Law of Action into your life, the Law of Attraction will never generate results. In this episode of the Charisma Qu...

It's time for another episode of Where Are They Now?, the segment where Kim brings back former coaching clients to share success stories and progress. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! This week, you'll meet Ivy, a podcast listener of 2 years and a veteran of Kim's Flirt and Femininity Challenge and private coaching program. When Ivy started with Kim, she had no dating experience and had...

What does it truly mean to move from surviving to thriving? How do you maintain optimism throughout the challenges that life and love present? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in the realm of thriving, Lou Diamond, host of the Thrive Loud podcast. Kim and Lou talk about the difference between surviving and thriving in today's digital age and how to push yourself to meet all the g...

Do you have a strong desire to change but lack the motivation? When you're trying to change your behavior, your motivation needs to be stronger than your fears, but how do you actually make it happen? This week, Kim delivers  6 Motivation Hacks  that will help you stir up your passion and drive to make the changes you want in your life. If you listen to this podcast as part of your routine (we lov...

This week on the Charisma Quotient Kim and her guest, host of the Men on Purpose Podcast Emerald GreenForest are talking two major topics you might be surprised to find out are totally related -- Love and Money! Known as the Wealthy Life Mentor, Emerald shares the steps to her wealthy life mindset. You'll hear client stories and examples that show how interconnected the success of your love life a...

Are you a leader in your own love life? Do you have the courage to take control of your love life? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in courageous leadership, Rich "Trigger" Bontrager. As a Motivational Speaker, Pastor, Storyteller and Coach, Rich helps people rise above what holds them back to create confidence and empower leaders and communicators. Rich and Kim jump right in to...

Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? This is the segment where Kim answers your questions by explaining what she would do in your situation. If you want your question to be featured on a future episode, connect with Kim on Facebook via direct message @SeltzerKimberly. On this show, you'll hear an answer for what to do if you're interested in attracting someone who you think is "ou...

Engaging in a healthy lifestyle and creating balance between your emotional and physical wellbeing is key to helping you find lasting love in your life.  That's why we're dedicating a whole show to helping you choose to live the lifestyle that works best for you and your health needs. This week on the show, Kim interviews Rob Dionne, a celebrated health and wellness coach based in L.A. who is the...

You've read every advice column on romance, endured years of therapy, bought every single book on how to find love...and yet you keep striking out in the dating scene! So, what's really going on? It could be any number of things, but... have you ever stopped to think that you might be overthinking things? If you find yourself getting stuck in your head, ruminating on what happened, what could happ...

When it comes to the initial phases in dating where it often feels like a whirlwind of emotions, romance and crazy-amazing sex, men and women have very different experiences. Why? Falling in love for a man isn't the same as it is for a woman. On this week's show, Kim interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray  for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. H...

This week, Kim connects with her recent coaching client, Amanda, for another episode of Where Are They Now?  This is the segment where Kim chats with the women and men she's worked with before to learn how their lives have transformed outside and in. When you listen to these episodes, you will be inspired and motivated to hear not only that these tips and tools actually work, but that there is sti...

Do you feel invisible? Do you think that people notice everyone else in the room but you? Do you wonder why others don't seem to hear you, or maybe... you'd rather they don't look at you at all? On this week's episode, Kim talks through the Top 5 Ways You're Making Yourself Invisible and gives you actionable strategies to break that pattern.  In fact, there are some crucial things you might be doi...

When you put yourself out there in the dating world, you're marketing your social capital. That means your interpersonal value, your looks, your income and more -- it's all the value you bring to the table. The more your self-esteem increases, the more your social capital increases. This week on the show, Kim interviews a master of social capital, Cayla Craft. Cayla is a bestselling author, self-m...

Would you describe yourself as someone who hates confrontation?  Do you do things simply to please others because you want to be a peacekeeper? Or  maybe you find yourself in constant discomfort when there are tense situations.  This week, tune in and listen to Kim's interview with powerhouse duo CrisMarie Clarke and Susan Campbell. CrisMarie and Susan co-founded the company Thrive! and have a bra...

We're back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers to Your Love Questions! On these episodes, Kim answers listener questions directly. This week you'll hear answers about how to stop attracting unavailable guys, how to gain the confidence to ask women out without using gimmicks or pick-up lines, and how to adjust your online dating profile to entice the kind of person you'll...