Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Have you come from being a target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse in a relationship? Were you blamed, belittled and isolated to the point that it clouds your ability to be open to meeting and trusting new people? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy takes a measured look at how to recover from a relationship with a narcissist. If you find yourself repeating a pattern of dating narc...

Let's face it, there's A LOT to pay attention to in your dating life nowadays. You're swiping through matches, trying to figure out if you'll have chemistry with your date virtually, all while dealing with living through a pandemic! At this point, you may have convinced yourself it's  not  even worth it to date right now. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives right into the Top 10 BIGGES...

Do you allow distractions to get in the way of your goals? Have you noticed that your ability to focus on achieving the things you want in your love life often feels impossible? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on an expert in helping people harness the power of focus, Debra Kasowski. Debra Kasowski is a Certified Executive Coach, a three-time bestselling author and the host of the...

Do you wonder if it's ever possible to find someone who actually cares for YOU for a change?  Are you done with hiding and dimming your light in fear of being seen?  These are some of the questions that Kimmy's client asked herself before she found love.   Kimmy's back with another installment of Where Are They Now? On these episodes, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who h...

Before shelter-in-place orders were enacted, you may have been a little pickier about who you were willing to date. But now, after months of relative social isolation, perhaps you're starting to think differently and value things you didn't before. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews one of the greatest authorities on relationships between women and men, Dr. John Gray.  Back by popular demand,...

Do you have an open mind when it comes to your dating life? Or are you so busy checking your list to see if your date has potential to be your long life partner in fear of picking the wrong one …again ?  In this segment of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Emily, a single mom who's on a quest to find her ideal date after getting out of a toxic marriage. If you find yourself struggling to progress o...

There's a new feeling in the air this summer in this unfamiliar world we're all in together. Maybe you're reopening your dating life or maybe you're feeling tired of trying the same things over and over with little to show for it. This week, Kimmy talks about how you can use this summer to redefine how you date so you can find a healthy, successful relationship.    EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quot...

Have you ever had a dating dry spell? No matter how much you're swiping or trying to put yourself out there, you can't get anyone to engage with you. While this is frustrating and can make you feel like there is no one out there, this episode will give you concrete tips on how to stop these spells in their tracks.    EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry...

Right now, you're probably longing for real, human contact and you might be feeling stressed out and lonely. Moving to socialize online as you're observing ever-shifting distancing guidelines can be daunting, but you may have a better opportunity virtually to connect with others than ever before!    EPISODE 146 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Digital Dating Trends And Social Connectio...

We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating, especially with the advent of online dating platforms.  Whether or not you have engaged in the online dating world, there are some very real trends that have a strong impact on the courtship process.    EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast i...

This episode proves that there is still potential for dating success despite the obstacles felt during this pandemic.   Kimmy's back with another inspirational episode of,  Where Are They Now?  On these shows, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success which will motivate and show you that finding love is possible, even during a pandemic!   EPISODE 144 of T...

Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps Moving Past Grief   How do you move past loss to find love again?   Grieving and loss are inevitable parts of life but right now, you may feel unprepared or overwhelmed. Before you can move forward in your dating life, you need to have the tools to move past grief and rebound.    EPISODE 143 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is: Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps to M...

How do you proceed to reopen your dating life and find love even in this new world where we continue to practice social distancing? ⁣ ⁣ As we all start talking about reopening, no matter where you are in the world there is a new normal.  And it looks quite different than the world we once knew.  ⁣ ⁣ EPISODE 142 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reopening your dating life again. A three p...

Our ideas about how the world works are based on how the world meets our own expectations.   Those expectations affect our experience - for good or bad- and can influence our reactions and responses to just about everything and everyone that we encounter.    Interview With Christy Whitman:  Managing Expectations And Detaching From Outcomes is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 141...

How to move conversations off of apps and dating sites and into actual dates.   Coaching With Kimmy:  Keeping Conversations And Dates Going is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 140 hosted by  Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer.   This week, Kimmy's back with another episode of Coaching with Kimmy. In this segment, Kimmy works with a caller live to cra...

How to get a great handle on the right mindset for your dating life in the middle of uncertain times.   Uncertainty While Dating:  The Benefits And The Bad Excuses is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 139 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer.   With all the mixed messages swirling around what will happen after this pandemic, it's undeniable th...

Do you have a hard time knowing what to say when you meet someone?  Are conversations boring and disconnected? Making meaningful conversations are key to having deeper connections with people. So what's the best way to engage someone in conversation? In this episode, Kimmy interviews entrepreneur, speaker and founder of the Turnkey Podcast Company, Doug Sandler. He's interviewed tons of celebs lik...

Do you truly feel confident in your body?  Do you lack self-confidence in how sexy you are?  There is a connection and symbiotic relationship between your health, body confidence and attraction. This week, Kimmy Seltzer is infusing fitness elements to your style, emotional and social intelligence and talking all about body confidence.   To help with this, Kimmy's bringing on an incredible fitness...

Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy:  Where Are They Now?  In this segment, Kimmy speaks directly with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with her and the secrets to their success! On this episode, you'll meet Heather who found Kimmy six years ago, recovering from a divorce as a newly single mom and how Kimmy...

Did you know that clutter can affect your love life?  If you're like us, you've been staying safe and healthy by sheltering in place to slow down the spread of coronavirus. With all this newfound time at home, you might be thinking it's time to purge your space of clutter! This week on the show, Kimmy Seltzer brings on Ken Lauher, a Feng Shui expert, consultant and coach who helps high-performers...

Do you have questions about dating during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer has surprising answers to your love questions on this special segment where she answers your dating and relationship questions during this uncertain time. With the advent of the coronavirus outbreak, those of us wading into the dating pool need to get creative with how we create connections with one another without being able...

Is it even possible with all that is going on in the media and across the world to be dating and staying connected to others during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer, shares her thoughts on maintaining personal connections in dating and in life with all the uncertainty and fear that is surrounding the coronavirus outbreak. Health officials and government warnings have kept an intense focus on a serie...

Why do some people actually accelerate and have success even when there are huge obstacles in their life and others don't? Do you allow the constant walls in front of you get in the way of achieving the life and love you want? You have the power to break down these barriers by challenging the way you think and act. When you're working towards a goal, how do you go about tackling your biggest obsta...

Welcome back to another episode of  Where Are They Now?  where you'll hear from inspirational women and men who have found success in love and life after coaching with Kim. In this episode, you'll meet Julie, a vibrant, classicly trained pianist podcast listener who found Kim because she was feeling paralyzed by her perfectionism and overanalyzed everything which was preventing her from finding lo...

Y ou're a smart, strong, successful woman. In nearly every area of your life, you're operating on the highest level. But when it comes to your love life you can't seem to find a worthy partner despite your best efforts. In this episode, Kim and her guest, dating coach Evan Marc Katz, debunk 3 major myths about why smart, strong successful women sometimes have trouble finding love. As a dating coac...