Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Are you a leader in your own love life? Do you have the courage to take control of your love life? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in courageous leadership, Rich "Trigger" Bontrager. As a Motivational Speaker, Pastor, Storyteller and Coach, Rich helps people rise above what holds them back to create confidence and empower leaders and communicators. Rich and Kim jump right in to...

Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? This is the segment where Kim answers your questions by explaining what she would do in your situation. If you want your question to be featured on a future episode, connect with Kim on Facebook via direct message @SeltzerKimberly. On this show, you'll hear an answer for what to do if you're interested in attracting someone who you think is "ou...

Engaging in a healthy lifestyle and creating balance between your emotional and physical wellbeing is key to helping you find lasting love in your life.  That's why we're dedicating a whole show to helping you choose to live the lifestyle that works best for you and your health needs. This week on the show, Kim interviews Rob Dionne, a celebrated health and wellness coach based in L.A. who is the...

You've read every advice column on romance, endured years of therapy, bought every single book on how to find love...and yet you keep striking out in the dating scene! So, what's really going on? It could be any number of things, but... have you ever stopped to think that you might be overthinking things? If you find yourself getting stuck in your head, ruminating on what happened, what could happ...

When it comes to the initial phases in dating where it often feels like a whirlwind of emotions, romance and crazy-amazing sex, men and women have very different experiences. Why? Falling in love for a man isn't the same as it is for a woman. On this week's show, Kim interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray  for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. H...

This week, Kim connects with her recent coaching client, Amanda, for another episode of Where Are They Now?  This is the segment where Kim chats with the women and men she's worked with before to learn how their lives have transformed outside and in. When you listen to these episodes, you will be inspired and motivated to hear not only that these tips and tools actually work, but that there is sti...

Do you feel invisible? Do you think that people notice everyone else in the room but you? Do you wonder why others don't seem to hear you, or maybe... you'd rather they don't look at you at all? On this week's episode, Kim talks through the Top 5 Ways You're Making Yourself Invisible and gives you actionable strategies to break that pattern.  In fact, there are some crucial things you might be doi...

When you put yourself out there in the dating world, you're marketing your social capital. That means your interpersonal value, your looks, your income and more -- it's all the value you bring to the table. The more your self-esteem increases, the more your social capital increases. This week on the show, Kim interviews a master of social capital, Cayla Craft. Cayla is a bestselling author, self-m...

Would you describe yourself as someone who hates confrontation?  Do you do things simply to please others because you want to be a peacekeeper? Or  maybe you find yourself in constant discomfort when there are tense situations.  This week, tune in and listen to Kim's interview with powerhouse duo CrisMarie Clarke and Susan Campbell. CrisMarie and Susan co-founded the company Thrive! and have a bra...

We're back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers to Your Love Questions! On these episodes, Kim answers listener questions directly. This week you'll hear answers about how to stop attracting unavailable guys, how to gain the confidence to ask women out without using gimmicks or pick-up lines, and how to adjust your online dating profile to entice the kind of person you'll...

How many times have you been asked, why are you still single? Sure, it's frustrating to hear - but what if you knew you were self-sabotaging and contributing to your own single status? This week on the show, Kim interviews women's addiction and recovery expert, Tracy O'Malley. Tracy has helped thousands of women emerge from overwhelm to create thriving businesses. Kim and Tracy have a lively, pers...

What are your dating fears? It's easy to say that you haven't met the right person or you're not ready for a relationship. With the potential for great love and happiness comes the risk of disappointment. This week, Kim knocks out the Top 5 Dating Fears  that keep you from finding love AND gives you actionable tips to conquer them. Whether you get uncontrollable butterflies in your stomach before...

How do you maintain confidence throughout the dating process, even when things don't work out? Online dating has produced so many changes to how we date. Now, you can connect with thousands of singles in seconds, but how do you find the best match for you? When you operate from a  fear of rejection, even the most confident people are not immune to the negative impact it can have on your dating lif...

Whether you're casually dating, or you're in a long-term relationship, setting boundaries is imperative! In order to have a healthy relationship, both parties need to be comfortable sharing their needs without fear of judgment or retaliation. This week on the show, Kim interviews relationship coach, and host of the podcast Love with Integrity, Silvy Khoucasian. Silvy has coached countless singles...

This week, we're doing something special to mark the 100th Episode of the Charisma Quotient! This episode is a conversation between Kim and the never heard before show's producer  Anna , counting down the Top 5 episodes thus far. You'll hear a short clip from each episode and Kim breaking down the biggest Life Love Lessons while sharing some incredible client success stories around each lesson.  ...

What do men  really  want? Are they only looking for physical attractiveness and sexual chemistry, or something more meaningful? On this week's show, Kim interviews dating and relationship coach Scot McKay, founder of X & Y Communications with his wife Emily. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, Scot hosts the popular podcast Moutain Top and he has been invited to speak at high profile co...

Do you consider yourself a relationship person and hate dating? Do you find yourself going 0-60 on the first date, interrogating the other person to see if they're your next soulmate? Or perhaps you are getting attached to the outcome with your dates.  On this episode of Coaching with Kim, you'll meet Louise and hear about some surprising mistakes relationship-oriented people make when dating. Lou...

Do you ever wish you could change the story to your love life?  Have you thought about talking to someone to help you do that?  After today's special episode, you will be inspired to do both! On this powerful episode, Kim interviews the popular Lori Gottlieb, a celebrated psychotherapist and NY Times bestselling author of the new book, "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone."  https://amzn.to/ 2JK3DqX...

Welcome back to the segment called, What Would Kim Do? Kim dedicates these episodes to answering your questions directly. In this episode, you'll hear a strategy for overcoming past trauma that may be infiltrating your dating life.  And if you're struggling to determine what exactly it is you want in a relationship, Kim dives into several tips on how to gain the clarity you need to attract the rig...

Be vulnerable, be authentic... be yourself! It's a lot easier said than done. This week, Kim interviews Robert Kandell, a speaker, Amazon bestselling author, and host of the podcast TuffLove. Robert has taught more than 10,000 people using his expertise in interpersonal communication in relationships. On this show, you'll hear an honest conversation where Robert shares the defining moment in his l...

Have you ever heard of emotional attraction? Do you ever wonder how to create more meaningful connections with someone when you first meet?  Most of us are familiar with physical attraction, but to build a strong, connected relationship it's important to move beyond the physical and learn to be more open in letting the opposite sex really feel you. This week, Kim dives into ways you can create a d...

Are you that super nice person who has a ton of friends, but not a lot of girlfriends or boyfriends?  Do you find that no matter what you do, the opposite sex puts you in the friend zone?  Everyone knows the feeling of crushing on someone who doesn't seem to notice or be at all receptive to your interest.  And if  you've ever been coached by Kim and you're a guy -- you'll recognize this week's exp...

Welcome back to the second installment of Where Are They Now!  These episodes are a great chance to catch up with people who have previously been coached by Kim who are now in happy, successful relationships. On this show, Kim has a conversation with Stephen back from Episode 24 in 2018. When we last heard from Stephen, he was trying to figure out how to balance not diving in too deep, too soon an...

Do you believe that you have the power to grow and develop your dating skills, or do you think you get what you get out of pure luck? This week, Kim has a conversation with Melanie Benson, a performance optimizer, author and business coach about how to have a growth mindset. Melanie hosts the Amplify Your Success Podcast and  her success tips are featured in Bloomberg Business Week, Woman's Day, a...

Every week, Kim talks through dating difficulties and how to overcome them. One challenge many people experience is trying to date while straddling two cultures. Whether you grew up in a family with strong cultural values that differ from traditional American ones or are exploring the dating scene from a foreign perspective in any capacity, this episode is here to help! On this show, you'll meet F...