Cat & Nat Unfiltered

Ali Budd of Ali Budd Interiors joined us once again to talk about what it’s really like to put your life, your work and your voice out there for everyone to judge. From the unexpected backlash over her voice on House of Ali to why she refused to make the show unless she could do it her way, Ali gets into building a business, trusting your gut and why having haters might actually mean you’re doing...

While our Canadian friends are enjoying Thanksgiving, we are bringing you a repeat of one of your faves! Before we did the research on Roblox, we honestly thought it was just a simple video game. Most parents probably do. But the reality is far more complicated. Roblox is a massive gaming platform with millions of user-created games inside it. Anyone can build a game, and kids can jump in and play...

Hockey season is officially here, which means we’re back in the rink, yelling from the stands and trying to understand birth years and rankings. We’re talking tryouts that feel like The Bachelor , the pressure to win, and learning how to lose without rage-quitting. We also have strong opinions on hockey celebrations, including the mysterious post-goal “woo” that Cat absolutely cannot stand, and co...

As moms raising boys, how do we talk to our kids about sexual assault, consent, peer pressure and the bystander effect without making them feel ashamed of being boys? We brought in Registered Clinical Psychologist and Co-Founder of Toronto Psychology Wellness Group, Dr. Nina Mafrici to help us unpack what is happening when a group of young people knows something is wrong but nobody speaks up. We g...

*Trigger Warning: This episode discuss The Cornell 7 The Cornell 7 case has us asking some difficult questions as moms raising boys. How do we teach our sons about consent, respect and accountability without making them feel like they're being blamed for the actions of other men? And what happens when boys witness something wrong but stay silent? We discuss the importance of male friendships,...

How far would you go to help your kid make it to the big leagues? After watching Team Moms, we’re questioning the world of ultra-competitive youth sports, where kids are spending their childhood training for the MLB, parents are dissecting every practice, and sometimes an entire family seems to revolve around one athlete. We get into the pressure and whether all of it is worth it. We also get into...

We couldn't wait to bring you part two of our conversation with Dr. Jeremy Alland! In part two we ask the question, is your kid actually loving their sport, or have we turned it into a full-time job? We’re talking youth sports, burnout, the pressure to go “elite,” endless tournaments and the growing expectation that more training always means better athletes. Dr. Jeremy Alland talks about how...

Youth sports have officially gotten out of control. We’re talking year-round training, travel teams, rankings, social media, parents spending a small fortune and the pressure to figure out your kid’s “next level” before they’ve even hit puberty. We sit down with Dr. Jeremy Alland, a sports medicine physician in Chicago where he serves as a team physician for the Chicago Bulls and Chicago White Sox...

We’re talking college athletes making millions, kids becoming “famous” on Instagram, parents turning into sports managers, and somehow… Taylor Swift sitting beside Tom Cruise at a football game. Just your average day with ADHD. College sports have changed, and athletes can now make money from their name, image and likeness, which naturally leads us down the rabbit hole of whether parents should he...

Natalie sent her daughter off to university and, surprisingly, she’s… fine? We’re talking about the reality of sending your kid away, why the transition can sometimes be easier than you expect, and how university forces kids to figure things out for themselves. Then, of course, we get into Taylor's Pottery Barn dorm room makeover which sparked plenty of opinions. Some loved it and saw it as a fun...

We’re feeling a little overwhelmed by the world right now. AI is moving faster than we can keep up, and somehow we’re supposed to teach our kids how to navigate all of this when we’re still trying to figure it out ourselves. We’re talking about schools going back to pen and paper, kids using AI, algorithms deciding what we see, and whether we’re actually losing some of our ability to think, focus...

Youth sports can start out so innocently: your kid loves the game, you sign them up, and suddenly you’re spending your weekends at rinks, tournaments and fields, rearranging vacations and wondering how one sport became a full-time job. We get into the reality of competitive youth sports, from the time, money and commitment to the bigger question: How do you know when your kid really wants it, and...

 We couldn’t have asked for a better way to kick off a new season than with an incredible interview with Dr. Shefali!  Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist, New York Times bestselling author, and founder of the Conscious Parenting movement. She helps parents break generational cycles, build deeper connections with their kids, and raise emotionally resilient humans. In her new books, Ra...

Back to school has us questioning everything. How much should we be helping our kids? When does supporting them turn into micromanaging? We get into learning differences, accommodations, executive function and the very real challenge of helping our kids figure out how to work smarter, not harder. We talk about building systems that actually work for your child, knowing when to step in, when to bac...

In this repeat episode we’re diving back into the ’90s classic Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus because, honestly, some things about the opposite sex will never make sense. Men try to fix our feelings. Women try to fix the men. Everyone ends up feeling misunderstood, unappreciated and annoyed. This book spent 121 weeks on The New York Times bestseller list, and somehow, decades later, we st...

We’re talking about ALL the feelings that come with sending your kid off to college/university — the nostalgia, the anxiety, the excitement, and the very weird realization that they’re basically going to a resort where they can do their own laundry, eat unlimited food, go to football games and make their own decisions. So… what exactly are we sad about? Every child is different when it comes to le...

In this repeat episode we’re talking about doom scrolling — why we do it, why our kids do it, and how it can quietly become the way we mute feelings we don’t want to deal with. Scrolling can make you feel everything, or it can make you feel nothing at all. Either way, it pulls you out of your own life without you even noticing. At some point, your kids will need to study or focus without you takin...

In this repeat episode we’re diving straight into 21 bizarre things that can happen to your body during sex! From sneezing mid-orgasm to getting Charlie horses in places you didn’t even know could cramp, we’re unpacking the wild, weird, and slightly concerning “body glitches” that apparently come with getting it on. And because we can never stay on topic, we somehow end up talking about messy hous...

In this repeat epsiode we get real about the “bubble”, that sweet spot where friendship, trust, and boundaries collide. We share stories of teenagers making rebellious moves (like hiding tequila in laundry baskets – yes, really!) and teach how patterns, signs, and a good analogy can reveal what’s really going on in your kid’s brain. Plus, discover how to teach resilience by letting them walk in th...

This is a personal story. Every child is different, every family’s experience is different, and this is simply our story. Kids can be masters at being chameleons. They often don’t want to stand out, be different, or admit that they learn differently. They can become incredibly good at hiding their struggles—until, one day, the wheels come off. The truth is that teachers and school systems aren’t a...

What if the key to finding more happiness, success—and maybe even a missing coat—is as simple as believing it’s possible? In this repeat episode, we get a little woo-woo as we dive into the power of energy, intuition, and putting our belief out into the universe. From unexpected signs and small miracles to test scores and lost coats, we explore what can happen when we stop doubting and start trust...

We’re officially entering our university/college drop-off era! We’re talking about the emotional roller coaster of sending our kids off to university, and the insanity of university dorm rooms — from $20K–$30K makeovers and peel-and-stick wallpaper to the question of whether we’re making college too comfortable for our kids. Do they really need a perfectly decorated room, stocked snacks and fancy...

As we get ready to ship one kid off to university we felt it was a great time to bring back this repeat episode! We have been touring universites and wow - these kids are putting so much pressure on themselves to figure it all out. Our advice is start early. Exploring options sooner helps to take the weight off and make the decision process simpler in Grade 12/seniour year. Remind kids that their...

In this repeat episode, we explore the complexities of relationships, especially the challenge of maintaining intimacy in the chaos of parenting. We candidly talk about how our attention is so often consumed by our kids that there’s not always much left for romance. Even though date nights may not be a huge priority for us right now, we both feel secure in our marriages and know that our relations...

In this repeat episode we are talking about when our kids become teenagers and they start to pull away. One minute they’re cuddly and telling us everything, and the next they’re distant, and those easy little check-ins seem to disappear. Suddenly, connecting with them takes a little more intention. Sometimes it happens in the car. Sometimes it’s shoveling snow side by side. It’s not about rules, r...