Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

Do you even really know the damage caused and long lasting effects that ghosting leaves on the other person?  

Do you dread having this conversation? When do you even bring it up - is the first date too soon?  Are they such big deal breakers? Paul Foster & I are here to talk it out...  

Being cheated on by your partner, albeit short or long term, is one of the most devastating situations that someone can go through. Here's how you can start to recover from this painful experience and get over that person, to move on to healthier, happier future memories.  You know where I am if you need me: @nixalina  

Honestly, I've changed my mind about this particular question. It used to be a hard NO, but now, I see things less black and white, more shades of grey in between. What do you guys think? Yay or nay? Let me know!

It wasn't fun. It wasn't pretty. The morphine was great though. 

Here's some serious irony: The Toxic Positivity culture of Instagram is actually NEGATIVE. Negative for both the user and the follower.  Say it louder for the people at the back! Let's delve in shall we?  

How much do you really know about contraception? How much do you know about STDs? (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) Do you know the pros & cons of each contraception? Which ones protect against STDs & act as birth control? Paul Foster and I are here to talk it out.

I just can't even deal with this storytime. I just can't.  For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instagram: @ nixalina

Happy International Women's Day everybody!!! To celebrate all the women out there, here's my handy guide on tips to help us all become the best, most badass, versions of ourselves:   Scrap the success, live for the passion. Always follow your own wild heart. You have a voice. Use it. Understand that opinions are not fact. Drop the fear and take the leap. Understand the difference of being confiden...

Have you ever been "friendzoned"? Have you ever had to friendzone someone else? Can it ever work out just fine, or is there always one side wishing for more than just mates? Let's discuss shall we!  For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instagram: @ nixalina

Recovering from a toxic relationship is probably one of the hardest things you'll ever have to go through. There are things you can do to help speed up the process and push forth with your own healing and growth. From my recent personal experience, I hope these tips help you all in a time of need. For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instag...

Recovering from a toxic relationship is probably one of the hardest things you'll ever have to go through. There are things you can do to help speed up the process and push forth with your own healing and growth. From my recent personal experience, I hope these tips help you all in a time of need. For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instag...

Whilst we're all 'yas free-time, girls nights out and zero man stress' when we're single, it can actually get a little tiring. Dating in itself is exhausting and when it comes to the month of February, those longing pangs for a partner always become that little bit louder. But it's not all doom, gloom and avoiding couples in the street. You can (and you will) make some changes your end to give you...

I swear, only I could go to the most romantic city in the world, for a long romantic weekend break with a man...only to end up teargassed in the face by the police. Tune in and find out why...  For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instagram: @ nixalina

Let's normalize self-pleasure shall we? Allow me to explain, my lovely ladies, why there are so many benefits to masturbation and discovering your own body. For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instagram: @ nixalina

Rebounding is the worst idea you've ever had... ever. It's also a fake AF relationship and bound to fail / head for absolute disaster: It reflects badly on you to everyone else.  It disrespects what you had with your ex.  It makes you appear like you have zero concern for other's feelings, which are huge red flags. It leaves no room for reflection, growth, repair and healing.  It pulls an innocent...

Is it ever a good idea? How do you know if it is just loneliness driving you back, or if they're 'the one' and you made a big mistake?  Can trust be re-built?  Is there an option of a reconciliation and happy ever after? Let's discuss shall we?  For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instagram: @ nixalina

Being in a relationship with someone who has a Narcissistic Personality Disorder is soul destroying, traumatic and emotionally damaging. Unfortunately, it's more common than we all believe, very hard to actually diagnose, and rarely spoken about.  Narcissist's gaslight you, cheat on you, lie to your face, devalue you, control you, use you emotionally and financially, and in general...leave you wit...

Is it just a dry spell? Does it mean the love has gone? Or is it purely circumstantial? Let's discuss! For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say Haiiiiii Nixxxx on Instagram: @ nixalina

Do we ever know the difference? How does one know if you're having sex, fucking or making love? Can you 'make love' with someone you're not in a relationship with? I grab my buddy Paul Foster to thrash this out (pun not intended) together.  For more content, head over to: http://sexandsingaporecity.com/ Or come say HAIII Nixxxx on Instagram: @ nixalina

Alas, it is true. Find out how and why and WHYYYYY my engagement went so very south, so very quickly.  I can laugh about it now of course. Sort of. 

Fare thee well, hangover. You will not be missed. Want to live your best (and healthiest!) life? Start with what you eat - find out more over on Sweet Life Asia by clicking here . 

"People could alleviate almost all lifestyle diseases if they just ate real food "blessed by the sun" -- meat, vegetables and avoided food in bags and boxes." Heather, Co-Founder of Sweet Life Asia . I love having guests on my show, and Heather was no exception. She sat down with me to discuss the importance of healthier eating, high sugar diets, obesity, her own epic 55kg transformation (seriousl...

Have you ever been a victim of internet catfishing? I'd love to hear your story - DM me on Instagram: @nixalina

Yes, it's more sex talk. Yes, it's honest. Too honest, some might say. Do I care? Do I f*ck.