Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

Calling all fellow empaths - you're going to want to tune in to this. Not sure if you're an empath? You'll do well from listening too!

Yes, he's back.  Season 2 sees my co-host Paul Foster return to the mic for more epic episodes of She Said, He Said. His returning topic? Double Standards!  Let's see what he has to say about this shall we...

When is it cool to introduce the person you're dating to your parents?  Is there a guideline or a rule to adhere to? Is it ever too soon? Worse still, can it put people off you if you ask to introduce them to your close friends or family? Let's talk about it! 

There you are, staring at a blue-tick situation in which the guy you like just decided to stop replying to you... at all. Given before it was back and forth conversation, or the fact you thought (and he acted) like your first date was epic - what the hell happened to turn him off? Is he even turned off, or is his phone simply turned off?  Rather than beat our brains for an answer, lets ask the guy...

For anyone and everyone who has ever felt this way or is currently living through this - you're not alone. I got you. This will pass, and it does get better. Trust me. 

Google 'flukes' I dare you. Sigh.

Want to be a blogger? Fancy becoming an influencer? Don't know how to even start? Need some inspiration on creating your own brand? Instead of answering individual interviews and questions in my DMs on social, I have put together this checklist on achieving success as a blogger / influencer. These are not set in stone, these are not the global rules and these are not verified by some 'blogging pow...

If you're tuning in because you think this will somehow be an audible version of soft porn, my apologies, but you'll be let down. If you're tuning in expecting to have a blow-by-blow (enjoy the pun!) tutorial on how to get the best oral sex, you'll also be let down. Besides, a tutorial on this kind of manner needs to be less audible, more visual, amiright?  But if you're keen for a general chat, t...

Hanli Hoefer - a Singapore based model, actress, host, presenter and podcaster, has lived a life fully exposed in the media spotlight. She embodies the idea of 'girlboss' and has inspired so many with her strong ethics, self confidence and career success. Aside from the glossy magazine pages, acting showreels and live presenting work (including MTV Asia), I sit down with Hanli to discuss what life...

You'll be very surprised to hear (as I am) what the average time people have sex is, and the 'desirable' length of time for having sex too. Let's dive in shall we!

Does it actually matter if the penis is really small, or XLL? Is it an issue for women as much as it seems to be for men? Do we really care about the size of your dicks? Let's Discuss. 

Why do we feel we have to have a break from social media? Is it addictive? Is it all negative?  Why can't we just limit ourselves, our usage, and not allow it to make us feel so overwhelmed that we have to physically remove it off our smartphones to try mentally sort ourselves out? I discuss this and more in today's episode. Watch the full insert of Simon Sinek's interview that I reference in my e...

Last week I discussed what it is like being in a relationship and confined to the home together during lockdown (I am so so so ready for a girl's night out nowwww) so this week I wanted to discuss the opposite = being single and isolated.  Are all the single people going to head out as soon as lockdown is over and find the first person available for some one-night fun? Or is virtual dating now pre...

If you're yet to read it, one of my recent blog posts details a serious issue - the decline of our mental health during this Covid19 lockdown. To read it now, click here . One of the knock on effects beyond our personal mental health, is negatively impacting out relationships. We're not used to being stuck in the house around one other person (or that person + extra family) for 24/7!  To try help,...

My sincere apologies for being quiet for a month or two - I'm finally back onto my content creating feet once more! Here's my quick catch up and to chat about the cool new reality dating TV show I present: Iso. Date.  

Here, Paul Foster and I chew apart the ins & outs of dating apps - what they mean, what they offer, the pitfalls and the positives! Let me know if you have any comments, feedback or epic/awesome dating app stories! IG: @nixalina  

Back in March 2020, the height and weight that dogs can be housed in HDB flats have been resized by the government scheme - you can now adopt a dog that is up to 55cm in height, with no weight restriction. There are so many slightly larger dogs out there that need your love and happy home life, and they can now get it. YAY FOR THE DOGGIES. Aside from the above, we're all dealing with the affects o...

Is cheating just physical? Or can it be emotional? Is kissing cheating? Or is full-on sex only classed as cheating? Is sexting someone else cheating? We discuss all here.... tune in!

You'd think unsoliticted dick pics from strangers in my direct messages are just a LOL myth - but nah. They're a real thing. And they happen ALOT. Let's discuss shall we....

Social media can be held accountable for a lot of relationship issues and downfalls. Damn you IG.  But what is okay, what is not okay and are there universal rules for social media, for all the couples out there? With my co-host Paul Foster , we try tackle this tricky terrain!

If you're in the early thirsty throws of dating a guy you're into and you want to ensure he sticks around for good, I have a few handy tips / nuggets of advice here to help you out! But as always - BE YOURSELF. That's the main and significant piece of advice at all times. 

It's totally a thing. A guy seems to only care once the girl stops caring. Why is that? Is it all about the chase for men? Once they 'win' the prize, is it suddenly a switch off? 

Whatever you ask me, I'll address it head on with nothing but honesty. 

We're back! Nixalina & Paul Foster here, battling it out for the genders, dissecting topics and issues that we all face during our single, dating and relationship lifelines. This episode explores - When is it time to break up with someone?

Newly single? Or have you been single for a long time? Whilst we're all 'yas free-time, girls nights out and zero man stress' when we're single, it can actually get a little tiring. Dating in itself is exhausting and when it comes to the month of February, those longing pangs for a partner always become that little bit louder. But it's not all doom, gloom and avoiding couples in the street. You ca...