Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

Does it reflect badly on you? Does it mean you're the issue, or they were? Does it mean they cheated? Should it be a concern? Does it mean absolutely nothing at all? Let's discuss, shall we...

Don't worry, I gotchu. With love, Nixalina.

Are you desperate for a partner? Are you staying for the wrong reasons? Do you even know what you're worth? Let's discuss why we allow our significant other to treat us far less than what we deserve.

Since when did taking photos of yourself on repeat and videos of self-obsessed footage make someone a person of influence? Since when did people choose fame with zero talent over actually honing a talent? Who are these people even influencing? Why does everyone think that they have to become some social media influencer to be successful at what they do? I do not get it.

Ohhhhh, did you get together very quickly?  Is it a whirlwind? Engaged? Children?  Ohhhh it is all TOO SOON. RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG! But, is it? Who decides when 'too soon' is actually too soon? Who gets to decide what an ideal timeline is for your own love & life? Let's discuss shall we!

If you feel stuck with your trust issues, please do not give up - things can change. Rebuilding trust isn't easy but it is soooooooo worth it when you get there. Here are 10 ways to get your trust back, in both yourself and others.

Fancy having your own home bar cart? Want to know what drinks are the best this festive season to keep the ol' calories low, or even better, low abv? With thanks to The First Pour , I've got you covered!

So, what are your thoughts? It's a tricky one, isn't it.  Let's discuss, shall we!

If you can get through this episode without clamping your legs together, I salute you. 

It might get boring, it might become non-existent, but sex in a long term relationship can be rekindled. Here's how to keep the romance going...

Who is this guy? WTF did he come from? Did you...actually...do drunk first date dirty dancing on your IG stories? Tune in to my tea-spill, I know you want to. 

Did you want to know how it feels to marry a rockstar who was on a dark path? Or how about juggling being a mum AND keeping your career as a radio host? What about dealing with a loved one in prison? I sit down with Singapore's home grown Jill Lim of Kiss 92 FM to discuss all of the above, and then some. She's cool AF, you're going to love her. 

I can't even fathom that this is a real story, but yes, yes it is. *sigh* Please DO NOT do what I did, but instead take my tale as a precautionary one.  P.s always trust your gut instinct.

"Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love." Freud Freud's longstanding theory denotes men both consciously and subconsciously place women into TWO significant categories in their minds; - "The Saint" nurturing, homely, chaste, safe, mother-type, marriage material aka Madonna - "The Sinner" sexually pleasing, seductive, degraded, promiscuous figure aka Whore Le...

It is never an easy decision, but sometimes you need to learn when something isn't serving you anymore.. This includes friends too.  Find out on this episode what makes a toxic friendship, and advice on when you need to walk away. Snip snip baby, snip snip. 

Love conquers all, amiright? Love overcomes age, culture, background, religion... race... or does it? I talk to a couple who have received so much hate, trolls and racial comments on their TikTok, simply because - they're different.

Why don't the dead just stay buried? Tonight we're talking about the dating phenomenon of ZOMBIES - these people are the ones that previously ghosted you, only to return out of the blue, usually once you've finally got over them. Zombies need to just stay goddamn buried in the past where you left them, okay? 

Have you ever wondered how these epic brands ever began? How do you even begin to become a designer? How do you 'create' products that people want to buy? Is it profitable? What are the hardships you face? For this 'Girlboss' edit, I sit down with two Singaporean female designers who detail how they took their creative ideas to life - meet Made by Madre and Mrs Deco . 

Is it all simply fun, games and filters, or is there something dark and sinister going on behind closed doors and smartphone screens?

What makes a Dominant or a Submissive? What does BDSM even mean? Do you have a contract? Is it harmful or pure pleasure? Allow me to introduce you to the world of such sexual play...

What a tough question! Let's dive into the big L word shall we...

WOAH. Big subject.  Can you even actually unlearn toxic behaviours? If so, HOW? Let's discuss shall we...

It is a blurrryyyyyyyy minefield out there when you have a FWB.  Is it ever a good idea?  Is there ever a good ending? Let's discuss shall we...