Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

COME AT ME 2023!!! ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Christmas can be a time of heightened loneliness and sadness for we singletons. But I say nay, let's make it FUN FUN FUN. ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Is there a designated timeline to healing from heartache? When is the right time to move on?   ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Oushhhh it's a tricky tricky thin line this one. Dating someone new is complex as is, let alone trying to understand if you're with a good soul or a toxic manipulator.   Are they lovebombing you aka tricking you into loving them? Or is this the genuine happy honeymoon period of authentic love? Let's try distinguish between the two shall we?   ​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fa...

Who else has found themselves single in their mid-thirties, unexpectedly? Do you find it so very different to dating in your twenties? We need to talk about it - I've got A LOT to say.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok...

Honestly, it's the law of attraction. Google it if you don't believe me. It just works...trust me on this.  Besides, I swear men can smell 'needy and desperate' 40 miles away.

The answer to this question is not what you'd expect, I assure you. Tune in to find out exactly what the f*ck has happened to me.

4 times. Did you hear me? I said 4 TIMES. 

Wave that disrespectful mofo off and don't let them back into your life.  

I am OVER it. OVEERRRRRRRR it. What do I need to do or say to stop people cheating on their significant other?  Since when did cheating become a fricking badge of honour for people to boast about?

Why shouldn't we want casual sex too? Why shouldn't we enjoy sex for the sake of sex too? Why should men assume we immediately want exclusive relationships if we want sex? 

Take my advice. Do what I couldn't do. And go no f*cking contact as soon as you possibly can. It's THE only rule I suggest you abide by.

In case you all needed a reminder (I know I do)  

Sure, some alcohol lubrication helps get things along between the pair of you, but the actual act of sex itself is much better sober. Here's why...

You asked, I delivered. I do so love going balls-deep on such topics!

Do you stay and help, or do you leave? When do you know it is time to go? Can they ever change?

I'm here for it. For all of it.  I want you all here for all of it too. 

Let's get to the final stage together because once you get there, you'll feel AWESOME!

You can boss it. I did it, you can too. I have faith in you.

It's not right, it's not okay and it is enough alone to be the reason you leave your partner. 

It's taken over 15 years, but I am finally telling my story.  If you or somebody you know are suffering from abuse in the home, please do reach out to the below Singapore based hotline for help: National Anti-Violence Helpline (NAVH) - 1800-777-0000 Alternatively you can call your local police department.

WE ARE FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. No more group restrictions or safe-distancing yas!!!! Here's how to return to normal dating life again, and my personal handy tips on how to approach a hottie in real life so you leave with their interest and number.  Thank me later.

Have you seen the Tinder Swindler documentary yet? What about the Inventing Anna series, based on fake German heiress Anna Delvey, real name Anna Sorokin? If you have, you'll know that these two human beings have SO many things in common - mainly, they're portraying NARCISSISIM 101. "Narcissism is extreme self-involvement to the degree that it makes a person ignore the needs of those around them ....

Kayne West, now known as Ye. Genius, or lost the plot? Loving concerned father, or abusive ex? Creating 'art' or creating online threats and bullying? We need to talk about Kayne....