Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

Toxic breakups are harder to recover from than normal, it's just fact, sadly. What makes it even HARDER, is that you might end up stuck in a rumination loop that starts to damage your mental health. Let's delve into what this is, what it does and how to get over it.  ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform ww...

Are they mindblowing spontaneous epic sex with a stranger, OR, are they awkward, embarrassing, regretful rubbish sex where you wish you could forget the entire thing? Let's discuss one night stands shall we!   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com . Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to...

Point one...OMG point one. It infuriates me. STOP DOING IT. Point 8 isn't a f*cking vibe either.  ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com . Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Aim of the game? Get wind of the red flags BEFORE you get in too deep, and then run a mile in the opposite direction. Let's go! ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com . Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Aim of the game? Get wind of the red flags BEFORE you get in too deep, and then run a mile in the opposite direction. Let's go! ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com . Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Where are all my fellow Phoenixes at?   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com . Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Why is the world breeding fuckboys like there's some fuckboy farm out there making billions for every fuckboy let out into society? ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com . Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

It's interesting, to say the very least. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com . Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

It suddenly came to me (call it a shower thought, if you will)  They teach us all how to love, but they don't teach us how to STOP. We need to discuss the ability to stop loving people . For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform  www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tikto...

I swear, 'stuff' just happens to me.   Ridiculousssss stuff.   This is a story of aforementioned stuff.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform  www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

​​I just felt, how do I say, 'stuck' and needed to reconnect with my inner self, which is why I took myself off to REVIVO Wellness Resort in Bali for a wellness retreat. It was my first ever wellness retreat and I had no idea what to expect, but it exceeded all my expectations.   Check out what happened during my stay there and my life-changing takeaways from my trip.   For more awesome content to...

Spoiler alert...I have. And I don't regret it.   ​​ ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.  

I have had it with this negative narrative of men treating their women like rubbish.   I am fed up of women emigrating to other countries because they cannot find true love on this island, as the main stories that run on repeat is the women being f*cked over. These are high-value women too, being treated appallingly by absolute losers.   I. AM. OVER. IT. ​​   ​​ ​​ For more awesome content to read...

If you adore fitness classes but fancy something different, why not head to the beach on Sentosa and workout against a stunning sunset or sunrise?  Check out all the classes available and book online here:  https://islandhappenings.sentosa.com.sg/Activity   ​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalin...

"You open the door to the firefighter, and the next day you wake up next to the arsonist." Toxic relationships is well up there on the list of my favourite topics to discuss.   Today, we're looking at the CYCLE of toxic relationships and how people remain stuck in them for yearssssssssssss.   ​​ ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head...

I had the pleasure of catching up with Daniel Chidiac, the best-selling author of 'Who Says You Can't? You Do' and 'The Modern Break-up', to talk about the trials and tribulations of writing a novel, finding career success in the unknown and navigating break-ups and dating in this modern world.    ​​ ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do...

I sit down with Ashley - one of Singapore's Dominatrix - and we delve into the world of BDSM, femdom, Shibari and allllllll things KINK. Enjoy everyone! For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

What's the difference between just dating multiple people in the early stages (which is totally fine) vs cookie jarring? How can you work out if you're stuck in a cookie jar? What does it even meannnn? Allow me to enlighten you all...  ​​ ​​ ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't...

​​ We have 6 'T' tips here that I believe, if used correctly, can lead to a fantastic blowie. Don't take my word for it, ask my exes.   Time - Tongue - Temperature - Talk - Two Balls - Tightness   Let's get down, shall we? Pun intended. ​​ ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't b...

I hope these tips help you if you're wanting to find 'the one' ... or even just to give you an emotional boost over the romantic valentines period.  ​​ ​​ ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DM

Jacqueline Kee from Singapore's sexual wellness brands Hedonist & Genvie talks to me about the introduction of toys into the bedroom and why toys are actually a fab way to ensure your sex life keeps getting better and better. ​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say...

​In my opinion, this stuff needs to be included in school education. For your own help and understanding, I've detailed the cluster B personality disorders that make for toxic relationships that may cause you long-lasting trauma and damage.   My advice? Run for the hills.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platf...

Do you find that often as soon as you like a guy, he seems to distance himself? Do you struggle to secure second or third dates? Are you fed up of never being the girl they want to chase?   Fear not, here are my 10 tips to help you secure your desired man.    ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixa...

​But...but why?   Is it real regret and remorse? Or is it purely for a quick shag? Let's explore why boys ALWAYS come back.  ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform  www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Is there a running theme that women don't realllyyyyy like giving blowies?   Are blowjobs a much-needed part of a great sex life between you both?   Do I personally believe in blowjobs? Let's open up (oi oi) and discuss!   ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com .   Don't be shy, come say h...