George Lizos

Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

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Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right pl...

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George Lizos

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Health

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georgelizos.com

Latest episode

Jun 19, 2026

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Episodes

Ep.41: Raising LGBTQIA+ Allies with Chris Tompkins 12.01.2024

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, we embark on a thoughtful exploration into the crucial topic of raising LGBTQIA+ allies with Chris Tompkins. Join us as we navigate the nuances of discussing LGBTQ issues with children, gaining insights into the right age to broac...

Ep.40: Gay Men’s Guide to Healing with Britt East 05.01.2024

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Join us on a transformative journey as we explore the top fears and limiting beliefs shaping the experiences of gay men. Britt East unravels the barriers hindering us from engaging in the essential work of healing, offering insightful tools and mo...

Ep.39: Coming Out and Coming of Age with Josh Sabarra 29.12.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, we explore the journey of coming out and coming of age with bestselling author Josh Sabarra. Join us as we navigate the challenges of stepping out of the closet, unraveling the fears and limiting beliefs that often hinder this tra...

Ep.38: Do Bisexual Men Exist? With Vaneet Mehta 22.12.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, we navigate the intricate landscape of bisexuality with the insightful Vaneet Mehta. Join us as we delve into the unique challenges and experiences that bisexual men encounter when coming out, unraveling the complexities of their...

Ep.37: Changing Black Queer Narratives with George M. Johnson 15.12.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, we explore the transformation of Black queer narratives and their profound impact on societal perceptions. Join us as acclaimed author and activist George M. Johnson delves deep into the stories that challenge the conventional nar...

Ep.36: Queer Sex, Magic and Spirituality in the Ancient World with Tomás Prower 08.12.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this riveting episode, we journey back in time to explore the intertwined realms of queer sex, magic, and spirituality with renowned historian and expert Tomás Prower. Dive deep into understanding the essence of "Queer Magic" and grasp its prof...

Ep.35: Toxic Masculinity Pop Culture Stereotypes with Manuel Betancourt 01.12.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, we dive deep into the intricate relationship between film, media, and pop culture and its influence on our perception of masculinity. Join us as queer film critic Manuel Betancourt takes us on a captivating journey, shedding light...

Ep.34: Chem Sex, Party and Play (PnP), and Crystal Meth Addiction with Jason Yamas 24.11.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Uncover the allure behind drug-fueled sex and the root causes of addiction in the gay community, particularly the lasting trauma experienced during one's formative years. Why is crystal meth the drug of choice and what roles do other substances pl...

Ep.33: Masturbation Techniques for Men with Cam Fraser 17.11.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, men’s sex coach Cam Fraser shares how to move away from goal- and performance-oriented sex and masturbation, and towards exploratory sexual experiences. You’ll learn how to overcome shame around self-pleasure, ways of releasing to...

Ep.32: Cruising, Group Sex and Fetishes 23.06.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ After a four-month break, Can’t Host is back and it’s sexier than ever! In this episode, I review the lessons I learned during my summer sexcapades. Specifically, I share a radical thing to ask your partner/s during sex (it’ll take your sex life t...

Ep.31: Sex Positivity, Semen Retention, and Being a Side 16.06.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this bonus episode, I wrap up season 1 and share the lessons I learned so far in this journey. I share the episodes that have impacted me mostly, my sex plans for the summer, and the topics I plan to cover next on the podcast.   &nbsp...

Ep.30: Ghosting and Kinder Ways of Rejecting People 09.06.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Have you been ghosted before? Or, have you ghosted people yourself? In this episode, I share the various ghosting scenarios when dating and the reasons people ghost in the first place. Rather than rejecting someone by ghosting them, I share two fr...

Ep.29: Fat Shaming, Body Image, and the Pressure to Look Ripped with Todd Masterson 02.06.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Is your sense of self-worth tied to your weight and body image? In this episode with the creator of @gayfatfriend Todd Masterson, we talk about fat shaming, body dysmorphia, comparison, and the pressure of being fit and looking ripped in the gay c...

Ep.28: How I Healed My Sexual Trauma 26.05.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this solo episode, I share with you the full story of healing my sexual trauma. We start by defining our terms – PTSD, Complex PTSD, and Developmental Trauma – my traumatic childhood experiences growing up gay in a homophobic community, the sub...

Ep.27: The Benefits of Being Single 19.05.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this solo episode, I share with you the benefits of being single. We live in a world that’s constantly pushing us to be in a relationship, and whereas it can be fulfilling to do so, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Simultaneously, even if you wa...

Ep.26: Multiple Orgasms Without Ejaculation with Johnathan White 12.05.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, Taoist sex expert Johnathan White introduces the practice of semen retention that allows men to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation. Johnathan and I talk about ways of overcoming premature ejaculation, the causes behind low/...

Ep.25: Fitness Hacks for Looking and Feeling Good with Steven Goldsmith 05.05.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, gay fitness coach and former Broadway actor Steven Goldsmith busts common fitness and nutrition myths, and shares tactics and strategies for losing weight and sculpting our ideal body. Steven and I talk about the biggest mistakes...

Ep.24: Overcome Sexual Shame and Embrace Your Sluttiness with Zachary Zane 28.04.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, bisexual sex expert Zachary Zane shares how to release sexual shame and fully embrace our sexuality. Specifically, in the episode we talk about the reasons people slut shame, how sexual shame negatively impacts our sex and relatio...

Ep.23: A Trans Man’s Journey of Reclaiming His Faith with Alex Reegan 21.04.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, I talk with trans author Alex Reegan about his journey of coming out and reclaiming his faith. Alex and I talk about his transitioning journey, the dynamics between gender, sex, and sexuality, the true meaning of the word queer, w...

Ep.22: Polyamory and Open Relationships with Jessica Fern 14.04.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure Jessica Fern and I discuss the various dimensions of Consensual non-monogamy. Jessica shares whether polyamory is a privilege or whether everyone can do it, the connection between polyamory...

Ep.21: Surviving Gay Conversion Therapy with Dr. Lucas Wilson 07.04.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, Dr. Lucas Wilson shares his experience in surviving conversion therapy. Growing up in evangelical Christianity Lucas struggled to accept his queerness. Overwhelmed with shame, he signed up for conversion therapy at the fundamental...

Ep.20: Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein 31.03.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, gay anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein busts myths and shares best practices for safer bottoming. Listen to the episode to learn about the anatomy of the anus, anal care practices before, during and after sex, how often you should do...

Ep.19: Gays In The Wild with Jeff Perla 24.03.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, I chat with reality star, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum), Jeff Perla. Jeff and I chat about the importance of talking openly about sex, the main i...

Ep.18: Trending Gay Sex Toys with Agnetas Sergejevas 17.03.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ What are the trendiest gay sex toys to spice up your sex life? What’s selling and what’s not? Will sex toys eventually replace physical connection? Should they? In this episode, I chat with one of my best friends and manager of Europe’s business g...

Ep.17: Why Straight Men Have Sex With Men with Dr. Joe Kort 10.03.2023

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Are straight men who have sex with men closeted gay or bi? In this episode, clinical sexologist Dr. Joe Kort shares the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation, shedding light on this phenomenon. We also discuss heteroflexibil...

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