Calmly Coping

Performance anxiety: it's the psychological and physical nervousness that occurs before and during a performance of any kind that can make it more challenging to focus, do your best, and feel confident in yourself. Performance anxiety affects up to 20% of Americans, including individuals who perform for a living and those who are in positions of leadership. It is entirely possible to take steps to...

In our hyper-productive culture, it can be incredibly easy to confuse being burnt out for laziness, because they can feel like one and the same. The problem is… it's okay and necessary to be lazy every once in a while, but being in a state of burnout is NOT okay and is ultimately unsustainable, potentially leading to more serious mental health consequences down the road if you don't do anything to...

You may be familiar with the fear of failure, but have you ever considered that you could be afraid of success? You might struggle with the fear of success, or "achievemephobia", if you worry about the potential consequences that come with success: more exposure, more responsibility, more expectations, more pressure, the fear of maintaining it, and the worry that you still won't be happy even if y...

This episode is a calming guided meditation for overachievers. This simple 6-minute exercise can be done in any location where you feel safe to close your eyes and be undisturbed for about 6 minutes. This guided meditation will be helpful for you if you are a high-achieving person who is feeling stressed, tense, anxious, or overwhelmed and will help you to feel calm, grounded, and grateful.   Posi...

Are you the kind of type A, organized person who loves your to-do lists? And yet you sometimes find yourself also resenting your to-do list, feeling overwhelmed and controlled by it, and as though you cannot relax until everything is checked off? In this episode, you will learn actionable as well as mindset tips to actually stop your to-do list from controlling your life (and your mind).   In this...

We've all been there: you have a relaxing and rejuvenating vacation (or even a stay-cation), and as your time off comes to a close you start experiencing anxiety and dread about returning to work.  You want to hold onto this feeling of joy and being nourished by rest, but you worry that you will just be thrown back into the stress and pressure of your job upon your return.  Is it possible to hold...

Hi, my name is Tati and I'm an overachiever with high-functioning anxiety. I can say that I have overcome my high-functioning anxiety because it is no longer controlling me negatively in the way it used to, but if there is one thing we know about anxiety, it never goes away 100%. That's because anxiety can be a helpful emotion, so when it comes to high-functioning anxiety, part of managing it is u...

Do you spend most of your time working? Is it hard for you to disconnect from work and do you feel a compulsive urge to work and get more done, even when you know you should be relaxing or spending time with loved ones? Workaholism affects about 1/3 of the working population and can have significant negative consequences on physical health, mental health, and relationships. In this episode, I'll b...

Do you just feel like doing nothing? Maybe you know you have so many things you should be doing… but it feels overwhelming and like dragging your feet to even get started. Everything in your mind and body is telling you to stop, when you know you should be doing more. You might be frustrated with yourself and being hard on yourself as a result. In this episode, I'll be sharing what to do when you'...

Are you a leader who is struggling with self-doubt? Maybe you are an executive, manager, entrepreneur, thought leader, or decision-maker in some way who questions yourself often, overthinks decisions, worries about what others think of you, and/or struggles with feeling confident in yourself. You're not alone in feeling this way, I have worked with countless leaders who have the same struggles, an...

Do you ever find yourself struggling to relax without a sense of guilt that you should be doing more? In today's episode, we're diving into what you can do when you feel guilty relaxing. We'll unpack the reasons behind why this happens (especially in high-achievers) and I'll share practical strategies to overcome it. Get ready to learn how to free yourself from the burden of guilt and embrace rela...

Have you ever wondered if the stress you're feeling is more than just your typical everyday pressure? Well, in today's episode, we're diving deep into the signs that your 'stress' might actually be high-functioning anxiety. As someone who has experienced it firsthand, I know how easily anxiety can disguise itself as stress, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and uncertain. Join me as we explore the su...

This brand-new episode of Calmly Coping is all about positive affirmations for overachievers. If you struggle with difficulty relaxing, overthinking, and putting too much pressure on yourself, this one's for you.   In this episode: We'll explore how repeating positive affirmations can rewire your brain, boost self-worth, reduce stress, and improve your overall performance. I'll guide you through e...

High-functioning anxiety: when you appear high-achieving, calm, successful, organized, and put-together on the outside… But on the inside, you are struggling with anxiety, fear, self-doubt, insecurity, people-pleasing, overthinking, and overworking. In this classic replay episode of the podcast, I'll be discussing 4 tips that you can practice this week to start coping with your high-functioning an...

When you're overwhelmed, it can make it difficult to focus, get things done, think properly, and get motivated.   If you struggle with feeling overwhelmed with tasks, responsibilities, thoughts, and emotions, then this episode is perfect for you.   In this episode, you will learn: My 5-step process to cope with feeling OVERWHELMED Why you need to adjust your expectations for what you can get done...

This is a quick tip from a previous Q&A podcast episode where I address the question: How can you be okay with balance in a hustle culture world especially as an entrepreneur?   Let me know what you think of these quick tip episodes! Leave a comment on YouTube, Spotify, or send me an email at tati@becalmwithtati.com   ++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle...

Why you always need to be busy.   Do you struggle with finding time to relax? Actually disconnecting from work, responsibilities, stress, and truly enjoying your life? When you have too much on your plate, or you put too much pressure on yourself, and you struggle with anxiety and overthinking… relaxation can seem elusive. In this episode, I am going to discuss 5 mistakes that are preventing you f...

Where I share an announcement about the podcast and how you might be able to learn from my experience!   ++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident. ++++++   **TAKE THE FREE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ANXIETY QUIZ** http://hfaquiz.com   WATCH THE FREE TRAINING: HOW TO OVERCOME HIGH-FUNCTIO...

In this episode of Calmly Coping, we're diving into the concept of life-enhancing anxiety with leading spokesperson for existential-humanistic psychology, Dr. Kirk Schneider. We explore why avoiding anxiety in our modern world can actually lead to more anxiety, and how cultivating meaning in life can help us transform this basic human emotion into a positive force for growth and fulfillment.   Kir...

On this episode of Calmly Coping, I spoke with Suzanne Culberg about how to break the cycle of people-pleasing.   Suzanne is an international mindset coach, speaker and author, who helps over-givers and people-pleasers learn to say 'No' to others in a way that feels good, so that they can say 'Yes' to themselves. Through her signature online program "Why W8?" Suzanne has helped hundreds of women b...

Are you constantly striving to be productive, to achieve more, and to do better? Do you feel guilty when you're not working, even during your downtime? If so, you may be struggling with toxic productivity. In this episode, we'll explore 10 signs that you may be struggling with this issue. We'll discuss how toxic productivity can harm your well-being and relationships, and share strategies for cult...

In this episode of Calmly Coping, I had the pleasure of chatting with Reba Buhr, an author, actress, host, voiceover artist, and mental health advocate who's on a mission to help people overcome barriers to mental health care. She shares her own journey with anxiety and panic attacks, and how she became an advocate for mental health services. We also talked about the importance of breaking down st...

Criticism can be a major obstacle on your path to achieving your goals. It can trigger a range of emotions and reactions that can leave you feeling stuck, discouraged, or even paralyzed. In this episode, I'll share some signs that the fear of criticism might be holding you back, along with strategies and mindset shifts that can help you handle criticism with more ease and confidence. So if you're...

On this episode of Calmly Coping, I had the pleasure of speaking with Melisa Keenan. Melisa is the go-to intuitive intimacy expert for high-achieving, spiritual CEOs. She is a keynote speaker, International Bestselling Author and USA Today Bestselling Author.  Melisa understands high-achieving female leaders feeling trapped in the masculine-energy paradigm.  She helps them gain deep connection, re...

On this episode of Calmly Coping, I had the pleasure of speaking with Jake Eagle, a psychotherapist, mindfulness instructor, and co-founder of Live Conscious. Jake shared his insights on how shifting levels of consciousness can reduce anxiety and how high-performing individuals can reduce anxiety. We also discussed the power of awe and how it can be used as an alternative to mindfulness. Jake's ex...