By the Bi

We are thrilled to share with you all our 300th episode. (Well... at least part one of it!!!) Thank YOU, community members, without dedication like yours, this show wouldn't exist at all! We owe our success in part due not only to your continued support throughout these years but also because of those who joined us on our podcast today: our listeners, The Gentleman, and Leo (thankful beyond words)...

This week we look at the statistics behind Valentine's Day... and yes we are a bit cynical. Later, we discuss some details on "coming out". How do you do it? Should you do it? And what are the ramifications? Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheB...

This week we were inspired to take a look at the responses we had to the BDSM test found here . We last took it in 2019. How much have we changed? Quite a lot! In fact, more than we had expected. Is it time for you to retake the test? if yes... do so here: https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and jo...

This week your party-loving hosts will be sharing their tips and tricks to throw the perfect sexy soiree. You'll learn how they plan every detail sure not only to impress but also keep guests on (or off…) their feet all night long! Your excitement level can't help but increase when you hear about some amazing tips and tricks for hosting lifestyle parties without breaking out into hives from stress...

You know you're in for a good time when the organizers of a Meet and Mingle are Exclusively RHP. We just got back from our first trip to The Gold Coast and we can't stop talking about it! Listen in as we give you all the dirty details on how to spice up your next trip to South Queensland. Find The Chameleon Lounge Bar here ! Find Chateau Vino here ! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Wan...

So you're looking for love but don't know where to find it? We've got the perfect solution! Dating apps are all over this place. Why go through all the trouble of finding a date when you can just press one button on your phone? Dating apps have made it easier than ever before. But what makes an app "good" and how do you start a conversation with someone from Tinder, Grindr, or RHP? Listen here as...

We have an oldie but a goodie for you this week. A release of a podcast almost 4 years old! Okay... so not too long ago whilst recording for "Dawns with Lakey" on the Hit Network here in Sydney we had this "great" idea to see which of the three of us could wear a chastity belt the longest. As bad ideas go, this one was pretty terrible.  We'll go over a bit of the history of chastity belt...

It's 2022 and maybe your sex life could use a little pick-me-up. Luckily, we've got you covered with our latest in sex toy reviews. Whether you're looking for something to spice up your alone time or want to add a little excitement to your bedroom playtime, we've got the perfect toy for you... or do we? So bring in the new year with some new fun! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want t...

It's the end of another strange and difficult year. In this episode, we'll go over some highlights from 2021 and look forward to what we might see in 2022! Additionally, we have a listener question that lets us once again preach about fatphobia and body image. You are beautiful! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join ou...

Well... It's Christmas time... and as such, we have a Christmas episode for you to enjoy! Listen as we talk about which Christmas songs are actually about sex, what you can say around the tree and in the bedroom, why you might want a Christmas tree IN your bedroom, and, to cap it off, a sexy Christmas poem. Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us ou...

Oh yeah!!!! This week we talk about the RETURN OF PENDULUM! That's right folks we are out of lockdown and ready to get our sexy on with Pendulum XX. We are joined once again by The Gentleman as we talk about ALL of our thoughts, feels, and sexy experiences that we had at our most recent party. Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon a...

Welcome back, sexy people!!! This week we have a couple of wonderful humans join us for a game of "never have I ever" that ultimately ended the way that game ALWAYS ends with us... feeling like we are the most amazing sluts in the world! So join us and see if you too are the sluttiest of sluts in slutville. (Own it baby! You are amazing.) Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon...

This week we talk a bit about some recent experiences we've had and then dive into a question about meeting men from one of our listeners! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBiPodcast On Instagram  @BytheBiPodcast Or email us  here Please donate...

This week we talk about how we dealt (and deal) with the stresses of the holidays. From family to friends to being your own ho ho hoe. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBiPodcast On Instagram  @BytheBiPodcast Or email us  here Please donate to B...

This week we look at themes. As you go out into the swinger world you will notice that parties, resorts, and clubs all have one thing in common: Theme Parties. We dive into the most common and our favorite themes and help you figure out the best way to approach what to wear to get your getting it on on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here...

We’re back baby! Both in a sexy way and in an actual one… and now we are ready to leave again! This week we talk about a recent sexy time with some of our friends and we discuss what it takes to successfully travel with sexy swinging friends! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast O...

This week we decided to take the week off and return to a past in which we were allowed to travel... and we did! Let us return to The Desire Resorts in Mexico and, once again, compare and contrast Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl. We will let you know our honest reviews and tell you which one we are dying to go back to for our next sexy swinger vacation! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Hel...

This week we dive BACK into horror with a more in-depth discussion of the horror genre, what it means to queer communities, and specifically, A Nightmare on Elm Street 2: Freddy's Revenge. As the first, and one of the few slasher movies, to have a male protagonist it is chock full of a lot of gay subtext and BDSM references. We also talk about our Discord peeps' favorite Halloween horror movies. H...

We are FINALLY out of lockdown... so we talk about it. We've had a number of dates since our lockdown has lifted and so far... well, it's not been what you at home might have expected it to be. We also talk about the genre of horror and what it means to the queer community. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On...

This week is an exciting one. We were recently encouraged by our Discord chat to look into The Galactic Cap a new condom design touted as "The condom men WANT to wear." Is it? Well, you'll just have to listen to find out. Enjoy as we discuss our experiences with the Galactic Cap and a brief history of the condom. (Thanks to Lauren L'Amie and DailyDot.com for your condom history lesson) Special tha...

This week we were fortunate to catch up with one of the masterminds behind the highly successful 'Erotic Ball' and then we spoke with one of the delightful couples who actually went to the ball. Enjoy as you get both sides of this sexy story. Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on  Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On...

This week we flip through some 40+ year old porn, reading snippets from the horny past. Additionally, we have a piece of erotica written by Bradford for Penthouse magazine Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on  Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  @BytheBiPodcast On Inst...

This week we invited Naughty & Rocket back to discuss everything from Hot Wifing, Cuckolding, or Stags and Vixens. Somehow we even get into the breeding habits of the cuckoo bird and the refractory periods of Fairy Wrens... Look it was a strange one this week, but heaps of fun and some fascinating tales including one that will be on our Patreon only podcast! Special thanks to all of our Discor...

This week we dive into the quirky, queer, and quazy laws about sex from around the world. How many of these have you broken?! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on  Patreon . As always, thank you for listening. Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram  @BytheBiPodcast Or email us ...

This week we talk about the E-Stim. We have spoken about the Neon Wand in the past but now we drive head first into playing with an E-Stim unit. We invite The Gentleman back on to reminisce about a time (pre-COVID) when we all got together for some SHOCKINGLY sexy play and we struggle to stay grounded as the memories rush back! Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting u...