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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex. Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answ...

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www.bythebi.com.au

Latest episode

Jun 10, 2026

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Episodes

324 - Etymology of Words We Use, Part 1 17.08.2022

As podcast listeners, we're used to tuning in to hear interesting stories and insights from people we admire. This week, we're doing something a little different - delving into the etymology of the lifestyle labels we use. Whether it's "Queer" or "Swinger,". Where do they come from, and what do they really mean? Join us as we explore the origins of some of our favorite - and least favorite - label...

323 - Headspace Undecided 10.08.2022

This week's episode is a tough one. We talk about headspace and how it can be difficult to deal with when things get tough. Bradford opens up about his own struggles and we hope that our listeners can find some comfort in knowing they're not alone. Just be warned, this episode is pretty raw and definitely not an easy one. Thanks for listening. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Pat...

322 - Pendulum XXIV 03.08.2022

We’re still recovering from the amazing time had at the Pendulum Party last weekend. If you missed it, let us fill you in - it was a night of sexy shenanigans and good times had by all! We discuss everything that happened with special guests The Gentleman and Coby. Have a listen; you won't regret it! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Fi...

321 - Food or Sex Position 27.07.2022

What's the deal with this food thing? Join us as we learn about some very naughty foods from around the world and then get down to business, answering is it a sex position or not. Then we go back and discuss iconic bisexuals throughout time! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On...

320 - Exploring Sensation Play 20.07.2022

Are you looking to add something new and exciting to your sex life? If so, you may want to explore sensation play. This week on the podcast, we're talking about all things related to sensation play, from what it is and how to get started, to tips for making it even more fun. So whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting out, there's sure to be something in this episode for you! Want to help us...

319 - Bringing Back Pet Play 13.07.2022

***RERUN ALERT*** We delve back into the archives to talk, once again, about Pet Play. In this episode, we brought The Gentleman back to discuss Pet Play. In the not too distant past he came over to play and Mr Atom was in full puppy mode but what is pet-play? We chat with him about mindset of a pup during playtime as well as all their actions involved for those who are curious or newbies loo...

318 - More Sexy Games 06.07.2022

What happens when we open a couple of bottles of wine and sit around the table asking sexy questions? We get some hilarious answers, that's what! Last month, we took a group of friends to the Hunter Valley and after a few glasses of wine, things started to get a bit naughty. We asked our friends some sexy questions and their answers were hilarious. From sexy fantasies to wild encounters, we got it...

317 - Guess Who, Bicon Edition 06.07.2022

This week, we, once again, celebrate icons who identify as bisexual. Though they may be lesser known than their gay and lesbian counterparts, these individuals have made significant contributions to society. Their stories offer hope and inspiration to those who are struggling to come to terms with their own bisexuality. We owe them our gratitude for helping to break down the barriers that still ex...

316 - Celebrating Bicons 21.06.2022

It's still Pride Month and this week on our podcast we're discussing bisexual icons. Whether it's celebrities like Katharine Hepburn or politicians like Cynthia Nixon, these are the people who have helped shape public perceptions of bisexuality and brought visibility to our community. We'll be talking about what makes an icon, and why they're important. So whether you're bisexual yourself or just...

315 - EStim Stroker 15.06.2022

Some of you may recall that talked about our foray into electro-sex a while back. We mentioned at the time that we'd purchased an e-stim toy to experiment with. We've since added a few new pieces to our collection, and thought it might be fun to share what we've been up to. If you're not familiar with e-stim, it's basically a way to deliver electrical current through the body, either directly or i...

314 - Awards & Pendulum 08.06.2022

If you're a podcast listener, then you know that we like to discuss recent events. And what could be more recent than an awards ceremony we went to and Pendulum Party? We'll be discussing both of these events in this episode. Warning… bitchfest to follow! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Fin...

313 - Waxing the Gentleman...Never Gets Old 01.06.2022

Yes its a rerelease… but damn is it a funny one. Oh have we a delight for you this week... an equation! The Gentleman + Home Waxing Kit = Tears running down EVERYONE's faces Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBi...

312 - Talking with Adult Children 25.05.2022

When it comes to discussing sex and sexuality with our adult children, many parents feel apprehensive. After all, it's an intimate topic that can be difficult to talk about. But by not discussing these issues openly and honestly, we may be doing our children a disservice. In this episode, we’ve invited some guests to explore some of the reasons why parents should talk about sex and sexuality with...

311 - The Great Lingerie Imbalance 18.05.2022

What's the deal with lingerie? Why is it that when a woman wears a sexy dress, she's considered "dressed up," but when a man wears lingerie, he's considered "weird"? There seems to be a major imbalance when it comes to women and sexy clothing. This week on the podcast, we're going to discuss why this might be the case, and what we can do about it. Tune in to hear our thoughts! Some of the brands d...

310 - Have More Sex When? 11.05.2022

Apparently, when it comes to sex, timing is everything. And when it comes to your period, the time you have sex can make a big difference in terms of how enjoyable the experience is. So, what's the best time (according to some rando internet article we stumbled upon on Facebook) to get down? According to "science", there's actually a pretty specific window of opportunity that corresponds with your...

309 - Swingcations with Three 04.05.2022

Imagine this: you, your partner, and another person, all taking a vacation together. Picture the three of you exploring a new city, sipping cocktails on the beach, and enjoying amazing dinners together. Sound like fun? It can be! polyamorous vacations are a great way to explore new relationships and have some sexy fun. Whether you're looking for a wild getaway or just want to try something new, tr...

308 - Wet Moments at Wet on Wellington 27.04.2022

If you're a regular podcast listener, then you know that we like to keep things interesting by trying out new places. This week, we ventured to Wet on Wellington – a gay sauna that opens up to swingers on the 3rd Monday of every month in Melbourne that's known for being sexy and fun. We weren't sure what to expect, but we had a blast! The club was packed, the staff was friendly, and the drinks wer...

307 - Myers Briggs & Sexuality 20.04.2022

Have you ever wondered how your personality type affects your sex life? Do people with different personality types have different needs in the bedroom? Are some personality types better at sex than others? Wondering what your Meyers Briggs personality type says about your love life? Stay tuned, because we're going to take a look at exactly that! Listen as we learn more about the sexual tendencies...

306 - Never Have I Ever from the Wayback 13.04.2022

Due to travel schedules this week, we return to the way back machine and grab an episode from the way WAAAAY back, number 87. Listen along as young Bradford and Angela gather some friends to play Never Have I Ever and ask you to play with us! Sit back, relax and prepare to be turned on! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on socia...

305 - Overheard at a Swinger's Party 06.04.2022

You might be wondering what kind of questions swingers ask each other at a party. Well, wonder no more! Here are some of the most common questions we can expect to hear - along with some tips on how to answer them. Whether you're a swinger yourself or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode will give you a little sneak peek into what goes on behind closed doors. So listen on and get ready t...

304 - HUMP! 2022 Review 30.03.2022

Have you ever seen a movie so explicit that you couldn't help but watch it? Well, this week we're joined by The Gentleman, Leo, and Coby to talk about Hump!, the film festival known for its X-rated short films. From amateur porn to documentary-style sex stories, this festival has something for everyone. Whether you're a seasoned viewer or just curious what all the fuss is about, we've got everythi...

303 - Categorizing Sexuality 23.03.2022

With sexuality becoming more and more fluid, many people are beginning to question where they fit into the spectrum. This week on the podcast, we'll be discussing different ways of categorizing your sexuality. Whether you're questioning your current label or just exploring what's out there, we hope this episode will provide some insight into an often complex topic. So whether you're gay, straight,...

Covid Break 16.03.2022

Hello all! Just. quick apology for not having an episode this week. Angela and I have both been hit with COVID. We will be back! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat  here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter  @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook  BytheBiPodcast On Instagram  @BytheBiPodcast Or email us  here Please donate to Bi+ Vis...

302 - PENELOPE a Musical Bicon 09.03.2022

This week we are so incredibly excited to interview musical bicon, PENELOPE. Enjoy as we chat with her about music, her journey, putting together a Mardi Gras float in a fortnight, and what its like to come out like an absolute boss! Find PENELOPE's music on Spotify, Apple Music, and Sound Cloud. Find her on Instagram @i.am.the.penelope And on Facebook Penelope Pettigrew Sit back, relax and prepar...

301 - Get to Know Our Listeners, Part 2 02.03.2022

We are back this week with the second half of our 300th episode! (Or as Bradford likes to call it... 300b) Once again, thank YOU, community members. Without dedication like yours, this show wouldn't exist at all! We owe our success in part due not only to your continued support throughout these years but also because of those who joined us on our podcast today: our listeners, The Gentleman, and Le...

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