Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

Attachment Wounds are the experiences that serve as catalysts for Insecure Attachment. I’m going to define specific Attachment Wounds, describe the effect of those wounds, and point you in the direction you need to go in to heal these wounds. If you don't, these wounds bleed out into your present relationships (whether platonic or romantic, but especially romantic) and negatively effect your...

Your Attachment Style begins developing at a young age and is able to be defined by age 5! In this video I’m going to go over 4 big areas of Attachment Development 1. Attachment Bases 2. Concepts of Self and Other 3. Programming 4. Intervention 01:06 Overview 06:23 Self-Concept 8:56 Other-Concept / Exploration 12:54 Survival 18:29 Programming 22:05 Intervention Let’s work together (1-on-1): https:...

Tiana is basically an Attachment Expert at this point! She’s done all the workshops and the Reattach Coaching Program. She has a lot of insight and wisdom for you about situationships, self-esteem, and overall guidance about what you can expect on your journey of self-improvement and healing. I’m grateful for her time and I know you’re going to get a lot of out of this conversation! Thank you for...

Rafer is a husband, father, and pastor in New Mexico who struggled with Anger and Anxiety - until he did his Work! Listen in as he shares about his desire to live like Jesus, coming to terms with the fact he was not, and doing the necessary steps to change. Reattach Fast Track Beginning August 28th 1-on-1 Interest Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtayl...

Season 9 Finale! Let's go into the reality of this all-too-common and always-stressful paring: the Anxious-Preoccupied and the Dismissive-Avoidant I'll define the terms, break down what most people THINK this pairing is and what it ACTUALLY is, and I'll share what I think you should do about it! See you in season 10 :) Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website:...

Ashley completed 1-on-1s and the Reattach Coaching Program! One of the many things I love about Ashley and this episode is that her trigger into healing her codependency occurred with a platonic friend. Many others (including me!) have experienced this with friends and it's awesome to hear someone talking openly about it, since most of the time we're referring to romantic partners. Liste...

We love a Q&A! I'm helping you with... Shifting from Anxious to Secure Attachment Healing Love Addiction What to do with someone who switches up on you Understanding Stonewalls Reconnecting How to deal with people who keep reminding you of your mistakes Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube...

10 ways to show up as more Emotionally Safe for Better Outcomes! You’re going to want your notepad out for this one. The unedited version of this podcast is double the time and had me cracking up, so if you want to join us for Live Recordings, join us on Patreon! $5 / month tier It’s also a great way to give back to the podcast on the low and on the regular… if you’re regularly getting better beca...

My favorite dating coach has finally graced the podcast! Alison - @alignwithalison - is giving you her best tips on: Putting yourself out there Believing what people tell you What kinds of questions to ask Potential Matches What to do with the Submission word Do "the butterflies" matter? Follow her on IG here: @alignwithalison and check her services out! Thank you for your support! Work...

Trust is on the GROUND FLOOR of healthy relationships! When the foundation is weak, everything else falls apart. Here's some insight into what to do about ONGOING  relationships that have experienced attachment wounds / broken trust. How to break from Denial and Clear Confusion The Hyper-independence to Co-dependence Spectrum The importance of Interdependence Patreon - Live Q&A re: Emotio...

I worked with Alexandria 1-on-1 and in the Reattach Coaching Group. Then, she came to the Reattach Retreat in Atlanta - December 2022. Now, she is serving on the Reattach Team, helping others through the Reattach Program ( IT'S BACK Y'ALL! ) and planning the Reattach 2023 Retreat ! This is what Healing sounds like :) Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https:...

Emotional Safety is a 3-part series recorded Live on Zoom, available for Reattachers on Patreon! You can join us - click here. -What is an Emotionally Safe person? -What happens when Attachment Wounds aren’t attended to? -Understand Insecure Attachment through the lens of crying babies -The link between the Past and Present -How you can start breaking Barriers to Vulnerability down The Video Repla...

The final part in the series! -The undercover reason you pair with under-developed people -The role of anxiety -What your parent has to do with it 2-Hour Live Workshop on Zoom - Sat. March 25 ($25)  Replay available for attendees Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Sometimes a Bridge doesn't need to be Demolished, it needs to be Re-Designed!    Women who thrive leading, planning, directing, and creating can have issues in the areas most important to building healthy intimate relationships.    This episode gives 10 points to focus on to help Design better relationships.    The High Achieving Women Workshop is 2 hours on March 25, 2023 from 10:30-11:30 AM...

Happy Women’s Month! The High Achieving Women coaching group is a 3-day group for women who want to: …increase satisfaction in personal relationships to complement your professional success …stop dating projects or assignments. Date date healthy. Reciprocal. And understand the types that works WELL for you. …manage the difference between your Norm and society’s norm …understand the role of anxiety...

Healing Insecure Attachment can be messy, so I’m laying out the major keys you need to unlock the way forward. Breaking down “hard” skills of: identifying your attachment, managing triggers, expressing emotional needs, and setting boundaries Plus “soft” skills of: communicating with empathy, and the discipline of forgiveness and acceptance I released this episode on Wednesday rather than the norma...

Have you ever felt like there was something *different* about your attachment with someone? Deeper & more intense, perhaps more dramatic & risky. Hard to let go of but hard to be a part of at the same time?  Soul Tie: an intense emotional and spiritual bond, usually developed after physical intimacy. We’re going to talk about how Soul Ties develop and what you can do to prevent unhealthy c...

You can improve your dating & relationship experiences by improving your ability to manage red flags when they pop up! EVERYONE has “something,” including you and me. Rather than ejecting too early, let’s talk about managing conflict and misunderstandings better so you don’t accidentally throw away a good thing. In this episode... -Difference between Red Flags and Dealbreakers -How to Handle R...

The season is over but I will be continuing posting videos & doing Q&As on Patreon ! Look forward to a Series of content, including breaking down popular television shows! This episode - Letting Go - takes the process of releasing the past to a high level that won’t just help you over a breakup, but.. if you pay attention.. will be a key for moving through the rest of your life with greate...

Let me know in the Reviews how this season has served you (we're almost at the end) and tell me what you want to hear more of! Thanks for listening in and for your support :) Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

What is the Fearful-Avoidant? Why does the Fearful-Avoidant do what s/he does? How do you shift the Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style? Attachment Style Workbook To watch and join-in live, plus additional audio & written content,  join us on Patreon ! Thank you for your support and let me know how things are going for you in the Reviews :) Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form...

As you are putting more into your personal development, it can become painfully obvious when you come into contact with others who have not!  You also realize how valuable your resources are, like your time, attention, affection, and space, so you want to protect those things as best as possible.  Making great decisions and being willing to correct the wrong ones puts the power in your hands to cr...

Live Q&A pt. 2. If you want to join the party, Live Q&As are on Patreon ! Questions also submitted on Patreon Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Dr. Dawn is our resident trauma therapist and she and I are talking about the trauma of heartbreak! -How It affects you as an attachment wound (relational trauma) -Taking accountability for behavior in relationships -Hope for change -How to move forward Thanks for listening in! Find my guest here, Dr. Dawn here: @drdawnonthereal Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: http...

The primary attachment  of childhood and its impact on your adulthood is significant. I help you understand how we process the attachment issues between ourselves and our mothers and I show you the outcomes in adulthood. Most importantly, I'm going to challenge you to think about the Mother Issue is a very different way. Instead of just focusing on the relational trauma of it all, we have to...