Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

This short episode is part of a longer episode (about 1 hour). I edited this down to my first 5 tips to help us stay focused as we move forward with this work. Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Western culture has emphasized work and de-valued relationships. The impact on women is significant. Women who want marriage and family are over-burdened and under-prepared for what relationships take to thrive. Let's talk about the issues. If you want solutions, join us at workshop Saturday, Feb. 22nd 2025:  Industrious Woman Workshop: Register Thank you for your support! Work with me: Inter...

This season is about making clear distinctions between who is who. Who can progress forward with us and who is going in a different direction. Here are 5 Markers of the Inferior Man Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Last Call for Women! Examining social and cultural issues preventing women from getting the relationships they want. We're talking about the breakdown of the nuclear family, the echo chamber reinforcing faulty thinking, rejecting accountability, and cult-like thinking. The Industrious Woman Workshop - Saturday, February 22, 2025 from 11 AM - 1 PM EST Register: https://TaylorChandler.as.me/?ap...

-Overview of Marriage and Divorce Stats -Making sense of the Numbers -Why Black Women's Numbers Look Different From Everyone Else? -Body and Attitude Factors References: https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity https://blogs.cdc.gov/nchs/2024/03/15/7567/ https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.g...

Prioritizing Money over godly principles has put relationships in chaos - disordered and dysfunctional. Finances are seen as the root of stability rather than a solid family structure. Let’s discuss the spiritual issue of disordered relationships with money and how it impacts people, specifically women. Let’s work together: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! W...

Distinguish between Leading vs. Controlling vs. Condescending 4 Points about Leadership 4 Ways to Make Leadership Better Interested in working together 1-on-1: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube:...

Instead of New Promises in the New Year, I’m challenging you to BREAK old ones. Happy 2025! SUBSCRIBE TO YOUTUBE Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

For women facing tough internal conflicts and for men who seek to understand women better. 01:50:00  Be Present 03:10:00 Balance Desire and Good Stewardship 03:42:00 Missed Opportunity 06:48:00 Continuous Progress 07:43:00 Michelle’s Review 09:05:00 Investing in Yourself is Attractive 11:44:00 What do I pray for? 16:41:00 Men & Your Accomplishments 21:13:00 Do I work on this or wait for better...

An informal Q&A from my porch! Married Men Flirting, What is Cheating?, Bad Relationships with a Family Member, Do I Need to Change My Tone?,  Open Relationships, She’s Great and I Don’t Trust It, Dating Outside Your Circle 01:16 Married Men Flirting 01:38 Micro-Cheating 04:40 Bad Relationship with Sibling 06:07 Should I Change My Tone? 14:36 My Husband Has A Problem With My Tone 21:14 Gasligh...

Giving you tools you can begin using ASAP at The Attachment Workshop! Listen in to some questions sent in on Instagram Live. Workshop is Sunday, Oct. 13 at 11 AM EST or Monday, Oct. 14 @ 6 PM EST. You choose your day! 2 hour workshop for $15 (10% the price of a 1-on-1 session) Click here to Register Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/...

One of the most common pairs - the Anxious-Avoidant Couple. Here are 8 Points for you to work on if this has been your pattern in dating. If you are currently in this type of relationship, you will hear things you can your partner can work on together… with a therapist! 03:33 Anxious-Avoidant Pairing 05:03 I Was Anxious, Then Avoidant, Then Secure 07:32 Couple-Work  09:16 Boundaries 15:21 Attuneme...

For single people who want to vet better! Ask THESE 5 questions to get a better idea of who you're dealing with and if they're worth your time. 5 Questions you NEED to Ask Before Date 3 05:51 Social Media is a circus 08:18 “I’d Rather Be Single” 18:21 What Are You Looking For? 20:15 Hedging Your Bet 24:52 Do You Want Kids? 31:04 First Class vs. Economy Dating 36:00 “I Want Kids, but Only...

Can Women and Men *really* be friends? Should you even have opposite-gender friends if you’re in a romantic relationship? 04:37 Will I do paid matchmaking? 07:02 Free Coaching and Free Therapy - Sessions will be made public (https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/pLCXjOMz) 08:46 Can women be friends with men? 17:13 Context, Nuance, and Rigidity 20:13 Context of Male Friendships 24:44 How I Think Wome...

The last 5 questions from my Live Q&A 00:38 Communication Skills 06:30 “Should I date someone I’m not physically attracted to?” 10:10 Look Better 15:16 How does Taylor deal with negativity online? 18:38 How to deal with the condescending nature of the question “Who Hurt You?” 21:37 Navigating STI/STD conversations in dating? Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: http...

Be sure to follow on Instagram @iamtaylorchandler to participate LIVE and submit questions! How to stay hopeful and optimistic while dating? Social Media Detox Get clear on your Values and what you want Being a Serious Person when Dating Physical Appearance - Show up Ready Serious Communication Know your Strengths and Weaknesses “I keep giving grace and they don’t give grace in return” “How much t...

Manage the conflict between wanting a relationship while having fear of becoming too attached, or attached to the wrong person! At the end of the episode I give you 4 things you may want to consider when determining if the person you’re dating is worth the investment. 04:27 What does it mean to become “Attached”? 06:00 Your Attitude About Attachment 09:00 Fear of Becoming Dependent / Losing Yourse...

Let's Review!  Attachment is a Major Key for Better Relationships Your Attachment Style helps you understand how you relate to others, what your triggers and blindspots are (and why), and gives you a map to what you Need to feel safe and happy. Everyone has either an Insecure style or a Secure style. Insecure Attachers struggle with maintaining healthy relationships due to excessive anxiety a...

I see a clear rise in the number of women who say they are abstaining from physical intimacy. This can make dating difficult. I understand this personally! It makes it even MORE difficult when you’re not really being honest with yourself and/or others about WHY you’re abstaining. Here are some things to consider if you are dating while abstaining, and hopefully it is also helps men understand what...

Most people dating seem to be WAY more concerned with what they’re getting rather than what they can give! Everyone is in relationships to fulfill some kind of personal goal but it becomes selfish and toxic when you lose sight of how you can support and nourish the one you’re with. Today we’re talking about GIVING and RECIPROCATION. I’m highlighting 5 ways YOU can reciprocate in a relationship so...

Manipulation Tactics - How to Spot Them and What to Do About It What is DARVO? DENY ATTACK REVERSE Effects of DARVO Resist DARVO References:   https://www.choosingtherapy.com/darvo/ https://bayareacbtcenter.com/reverse-darvo-for-combating-gaslighting-and-emotional-abuse/#:~:text=What%20Is%20DARVO%3F,the%20blame%20onto%20their%20victims. Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Websi...

This episode is a conglomerate of a few topics! -There’s a difference between wanting a relationship and being Ready for a relationship. Your emotional availability makes all the difference. -Many women can function well on their own, but still don’t have the relationship they really want. Let’s talk about some of the things that need to change in order to set yourself up for the man you’re lookin...

When you become aware of how your childhood has impacted your adulthood, angry feelings arise towards your parents. You realize your anxiety or your avoidance is directly related to how you have experienced your mother and father. It’s common to have conflicted feelings. You may struggle with loving them and resenting them. Having empathy for their experiences and feeling the pain of how their exp...

We experience frustration and pain when the position someone has in our life does not match our experience of them. For example - You can have a mother who you do not experience as mothering. A father who does not treat you like a son or daughter. A spouse who treats you like a stranger. _ One of the goals of this video is to help you make a distinction between Role and Relationship so that you ar...

Q&A from Dec 2023 about dating and relationship topics: Including - Serious Dating What does it meant to be “Exclusive” Passport bros How to soften your communication “What do you bring to the table?” Toxic friends Effort in dating Defensiveness Vetting Why people lie Relationship goals Casual physical intimacy * Let’s work together (1-on-1): https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank...